Why you can't tell when a girl is lying to you

[buzzin_frog]

Have you ever had a chick lie to you before and you couldn't tell?

Have you ever wondered why you couldn't tell that she was lying to you before?

Maybe her lie was so good that you believed it.....only to find out later that you were duped by her.....the truth finally came out after it was too late and the damage was done!!

Women will lie to cover their tracks.....to stretch the truth.....and to throw you off track!!

Some are not so good at it......but the others are masters at their craft...they can look at you with an innocent face, lying through their teeth, and you will never suspect a thing!!

How are chicks so good at their lies?

They rehearse their lies in their mind previously before they tell you.....so they actually believe their own lie!!

So, you can't tell when they are lying when they believe that their lie actually happened

For example, lets say that your girlfriend was really going out to fvck another guy instead of going out with her friends like she told you.....she will go over and come up with her lie hours before she talks to you.....that way she can get all the details down, so her story makes sense when she tells it....there won't be any holes in it if you ask her any questions about how her night went

She can say she had some dinner.....went out bowling.......went to starbucks.....whatever....and she will create a fictional story in her mind so it sounds believable when she tells it to you....since it's a story, she can imagine all the details right down to the T and she will believe that story in her own mind.....so since she believes what she is saying.....she can tell it to you with no problem without it coming across as a lie.....and why would you not believe it when it sounds so truthful?

It will sound legitimate because she believes it happened....even though she was doing something else instead.....you will believe it as well because she will sound and look sincere.....and that is her intended goal

Chicks will do this with whatever lie they have ready to go....for whatever situation they need....so it's an ongoing thing with them.....sometimes they will sit on the lie and use it for whenever they need to....for whatever moment arises they have their story all set and ready for you.....that's how they appear so truthful to you!!

One chick that was cheating on her boyfriend waited a whole month to use her lie......the dude had no clue what was going on behind the scenes......and of course he believed her when she told him her bvllsh!t story....he never dreamed she would go
behind his back looking for other d!cks!!

This is why it's difficult to screen some women.....they've been doing this for so long, it's a natural thing to them....since they are used to doing it....it's no big deal to them...that's how they can get away with it and dupe you into believing all their lies!!

The only way you can see though the lies is if you catch them off guard....you have to throw a monkey wrench in, so their story gets knocked out of whack (I will write a thread on how to do that later) then it starts to unravel and you can see all the inconsistencies

Remember, their story is rehearsed, so they are just telling you what they came up with and believe as the story they tell you....a lot of chicks can't think on their feet when their story gets off kilter....that's when you can see them for the liar that they are....and they will be caught!!

Too many men get conned by women because of their lying.....they have done it for many years and told lies to many people.....so they know how to do it without really getting caught.....but if you know their secrets beforehand.....you can always stay one step ahead of them in the game.....and that is very important!!

 

[IndeedSir]

I've never caught a woman good at lying out before. So I don't know if I've experienced it. From what I've seen, most people in general are bad at lying. It's pretty hard to cover up the nuanced body language when you're lying and if you do try, you can often spot how stilted and put on it is. One of my recent plates was convinced she was a good liar because she lied all the time (red flag oops), but I could always tell when she was lying. I started calling her on it every time, became a bit of a game. I think it scared her that I could see through her lies so easily.

 

[VikingKing]

Funny. One time my ex told me "always twll the truth, so when you do lie people will believe you"

 

[Purefilth]

I can always tell when a woman is lying.


How?

Her lips are moving.




But seriously though, I'm really good at telling if someone is lying to me. Or hiding something. Still couldnt tell with my suspected BPD ex though.

 

[skinnyguy]

Girls I know are horrible liars. Meanwhile I cheated on an ex and never got caught

 

[the_stig]

Women just don't share the same honor and moral code men have. It never ceases to amaze me how they will lie to your face with no remorse. The reason they're good at it is because most have been doing it for so long, so often. The same lies, learning to cover their tracks, lie their way out of situations, year after year, guy after guy..

Ever catch a man in a lie? He's ashamed, embarrassed, sometimes even apologetic.

Catch a woman in a lie? She will NOT be ashamed of it, but will rationalize anything she did to make it sound like she was in the right.

 

[Turuwal]

i had the ultimate alpha female lie to me for two months straight with her words and actions while also telling me the truth with her overall strategy

figured it out in the end

heres how i did it

waited for her to start talking then just dodged and weaved around everything she threw at me (see law 48 of 48 laws of power)

eventually she threw something at me that i knew was false (my formlessness and lack of visible strategy forced her to reveal hers)

at that stage i had her, just had to ignore the hamster and let it roll itself into a ball coming up with more and more bizarre sh!t that didnt even make sense

end result was she wanted me bad and was too sh!t scared to admit it

but then stupidly instead of just escalating hard i called her on it and she called me an a$$hole and walked off never to be seen again

oops!

btw the same bullsh!t generator is also used for sh!t tests, both verbal and other

TLDR: When faced with a sh!t test or lie, assume formlessness to force her to reveal her position then hit HARD with everything you have. Never reveal your own position, and never reveal that you know her position.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

The hamster and women's predilection for deceit comes from the same place:

They are driven by their emotions.

The function of the lie is in order to allow them to do what they want to do. Sometimes overt, direct deception is required, such as when they plan to cheat.

The function of the hamster is to backward rationalize actions they've already taken or plan to take. They reacted to their emotions and now need a plausible reason why they did what they did and the responsibility for the outcome lays somewhere else besides themselves.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

I'm pro at lie detection, but it's true - girls are much harder to read.
Like Purefilth already said, it's best to just assume they are lying. Don't be in a position where you need to believe them.

My "theory" why it's harder to read women lying pretty much goes with what OP was saying but a little different. Women don't even THINK about the truth until after they speak. They say what they know is the correct (safest) answer without ever even considering the options, as though their brains are running on auto-pilot.
When a guy lies he first acknowledges the truth in his mind, and then chooses to lie. Women don't worry about the truth until afterwards. This is why reading them takes a bit more time.
You have to wait, let her breathe and THEN focus on the "tell".
Typically, a guy will breathe after the tell.

There is, of course, the ultimate trick girls pull on unsuspecting guys all the time, and that is their half-truths. You have to just learn from experience, and then ALWAYS remember - girls will not tell you the full story. They will tell you exactly what you want to hear, and keep the rest a secret forever. It also works in reverse, since women are capable of believing things they know are not true.

See the quote in my signature:
"the angel in your arms in the morning is gonna be the devil in someone else's arms tonight."
and i bet she'll be back the next morning like Men In Black erased her memory.

 

[Night-hawk]

Fall in love with nature. Leave these women's truths alone. Live by your own.

 

[Lotus Effect]

I've got to agree with skinny on this one as well!

Girls are horrible liars! Of course, they will lie, and they will believe it.
That is how a lie is supposed to be said. It does not matter if it is a girl or if it is you who is saying. You have to believe the lie to properly lay it!

Anyway. Girls do it. That is a no brainer. But I disagree that they are good doing so.

Only foolish man can't see through a girls lie. Once you got the hand of it, it is piece of cake. They always give a hint a some point. And that point is not even that far into the lie.

TIP:

If you ever hear your girl telling you some BS story you are sure it is a lie, ask factual questions, in a very fast manner. It will disarm her in a matter of seconds.

For example, she told you she was dining with friends. Ask her.
Which restaurant. What did you order. How was the food. What were you wearing. How much was the bill. Did you pay for vallet.

Some **** like that. Ask this in a very fast pace, and see her lie falling appart!

 

[Bokanovsky]

Have you ever had a chick lie to you before and you couldn't tell?

Have you ever wondered why you couldn't tell that she was lying to you before?

Maybe her lie was so good that you believed it.....only to find out later that you were duped by her.....the truth finally came out after it was too late and the damage was done!!

Women will lie to cover their tracks.....to stretch the truth.....and to throw you off track!!

Some are not so good at it......but the others are masters at their craft...they can look at you with an innocent face, lying through their teeth, and you will never suspect a thing!!

How are chicks so good at their lies?

From my experience, most women are not very good liars. The fact of the matter is that men are more convincing liars than women, as anyone who has ever worked in sales will tell you. That is not so because men are less honest. Men are simply less emotional...and more intelligent, which allows them to better master the art of deceit. I mean, how many famous female scam artists do you know? Exactly.

Men who are deceived by women often have themselves to blame. They are deceived because they want to believe the deceit, rather than deal with the uncomfortable truth. Female lies are usually easy to pick apart by asking the right questions. Women rarely hold up well under interrogation. Yet, many men simply don't ask those questions because they are blinded by infatuation and want tot believe that their girlfriend/wife is a "good girl".

 

[om1xr]

The more you get experienced with girls and life in general the more you will be able to spot a liar a mile away. At least that's the case for me

 

[Genos]

This is a great outline of the RP notion of women's 'rationalization hamster'.

What gives some of these lies strength is the fact that, as others have said, women sometimes mentally change things (consciously or unconsciously, i dunno) to actually believe them to be true - basically by framing the situation in their mind to put them in a more positive light/absolve them of responsibility, etc.

 

[In2theGame]

The reason why Women are "harder" to read when they lie is because they display their emotions with the lies. For Example, she will show body or hand movements with her words that make it appear she is telling the "honest" truth because shes throwing a small fit and trying to convince you that she is not lying. Some Women go as far as shed a tear, I've seen this first hand where the girl is obviously lying to her boyfriend about her whereabouts and begins to cry to put on a show.

Also another tactic Women use is the defensive mode, where if you suspect a lie, then they quickly turn into the defensive/victim role. For example....

Guy - "Where were you, Ive been callin you for a while now and i saw you on facebook putting up posts but didnt reply to my calls"

Girl - "Huh? I didnt get your calls... "

Guy - "What? Thats fvcking bullsh*t, I saw that you were using your phone. Where were you?"

Girl - "Omg stop acting like a jerk!, Your being such an azzhole!"

Guy - "Where the FVCK! were you!"

Girl - "Leave me alone!, I dont wanna talk to you right now, your being such a fvcking azzhole, I was with my friends!! I dont have to tell you where i was all the time!"


You see how she avoids the questions and then turns it around?
Some Women just lie and keep it a secret for a long time until their actions begin leaking that something is wrong. The guy will suspect it and when she gets caught or feels her man is catching on... she will begin acting in the example given above, Defensive/Victim. This is why you have to be cold as ice sometimes and not worry about sh*t like this, the best solution, although difficult depending on circumstances, is to leave that Woman without saying much. The gut is the best indicator that something is off.