Why will women never tell me what they're doing or their weekend plans?

[alx]

(Tinder) I know it's a lame question but even when they ask me that question, and I answer it, they refuse to answer it or give me any kind of hint. What would be so bad about just telling me what she's doing? What's wrong with these women?

I feel like some of them are just matching purely to waste my time or try and insult me on purpose, have they got nothing better to do? Shouldn't they be out whoring themselves to the men they like, not harassing the ones they don't like?

They're so cagey and act so illusive, they probably think it's sexy but it's just dull and I don't know how to get them to open up. Is there some magic open sesame phrase I should be saying to get them to stop withholding? I've tried everything.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Why would a women who only knows you via the internet give you personal details about her life?

Remember, you have to realize that you're stronger and bigger than she is. Also keep in mind that most chicks have had at one creepy, needy, stalker dude in her life. In the broad's mind if she tells you where she'll be that weekend, she might think that you could possibly show up at the same spot.

Also, why are you so willing to tell broads what you're doing? Rex is willing to bet that if you have nothing planned, you'll tell a chick that you have nothing planned. Wrong, wrong, and wrong.

Sometimes, you have to do a little lyin' with women and having her thinking you're doing something when you're actually not is one of times.

So when a chick, (especially one you're trying to holla at,) asks you what you're doing for the weekend, tell her you're going on a date or some activity involving another woman.

This show the chick you're in demand and you actually have a life, in addition to getting her competitive juices flowing. I'm telling from experience that women try harder, are more cooperative, and are just all around better people when they know that they're competing for your affections.

I forgot to add, stop with the b.s. You don't actually give an eff about her weekend plans, you looking for confirmation on whether or not she's free for date on the weekend. Which is another reason as to why you're not getting an answer to the question, chicks aren't tryin' to give you an opportunity to ask them out. Being that you want to ask them out anyway, why don't you just invite them to meet you for drinks?

 

[icantgetlaid]

The trick to get chicks to open up about themselves is to make them sell themselves to you ... without ever directly asking anything personal

Being witty/bizarre/unrelentlessly 'nasty' usually works for me in this regard ...

e.g.

Her: heya how is your day?
Me: it's just getting started ask me at 5am
Her: lol what?
Me: By then I would have gotten back from banging my favorite tranny
Her: oh yea whatever
Me: no im serious .. the best part is that i dont have to beg for anal
Her: i know you are playing around .. well ive been at the mall buying a bra .. blah blah blah

you want to just say stupid random sh1t that makes you different / challenging / mysterious / weird .. etc. then personal details about themselves will flow like a period on the first day ...

 

[Young OG]

If they ask you what your doing this weekend, then tell them your having a drink with them. If your asking them what they are doing this weekend, then stop doing it. Just tell them your grabbing a drink with them this weekend. Your the man, your in charge. Your the leader.

I don't seem to have a problem like this on OLD. So I'm not sure why you are...

 

[alx]

Rex is correct, I would just honestly say I'm not doing much. Should I say I'm banging your sister?

 

[RangerMIke]

It's none of your business what she is doing.... Asking her what she is doing makes it look like you care about what is happening in her life. As a man you should only be interested in what is happening in YOUR life, the only time HER life is of concern with yours is when it intersects on dates, otherwise what she does is of no concern to you.

Don't put your life on the internet, first of all what makes you think anyone cares about what you are doing, this is female narcissistic behavior... weak way of gaining validation for what you are doing. As far as any particular women you are interested knows about your life is.... (A) You are on a date or planning a date with her or .... (B) You are busy or have 'other plans', that is it.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Rex is correct, I would just honestly say I'm not doing much. Should I say I'm banging your sister?

Actually, you should.

 

[SeymourCake]

Because they are waiting for you to tell them your plans in hopes you will let them tag along.