Why UG's and no hotties..

[DonMEgaHoss]

Why is it that UG's think they can have a sexy good looking guy?
Like people in hell want ice water, fat women wanna be skinny.. UG's think they are hot and think they can get you.

Im not saying Im uber handsome man-model or anything but Im above average. 6'3" and 175 pounds Im lean and fairly musclar.. But not as defined as I could be ( thats why Im in the gym.) Blue eyes light brown hair. Surfer/ Lifeguard/Cook...

But enough about that. Like fat and ugly chicks try to talk to me all the time Im not an ******* so I talk politely for a little bit and go on my way. But like when I go walking in a mall I see all these fine dime bizzles looking at me and all.. I can talk to them and they warm up but for the most part I think they are more imtimadated of me than the UGs and fatties..Or afraid of rejection more than the ugs and fatties.. which is stupid since there hot as hell..

Like a work they're is this uber hot ass MILF gives me the vibes I can feel it in my gut. But we hardly talk... Well I have to guard so I gotta keep most if not all my attention on the swimmers.

So why do fatties and ug's talk to me and not hardly any hotties?

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Cause no guys want them, and if they do its just for a jump off...There are some girls that are unwanted by men cause they are so busted, they become dykes...

 

[juslen]

Probably because there ugly girls, are wired biologically the same at hot girls. If you are an attractive guy.. they will both find you attractive. But the important part, is that.. these undesireable women, have more to lose. Because their looks set them at a disadvantage, they are probably desperate for attention. They have learn over the years that guys wont come to them, so they have to go to the guys.

On the other hand. These hotties.. can get almost any guy they want. You.. or any other guy. They might be attracted to you, but their actions wont be so obvious. Thats when you may need to take the initiative.

If you do, and you still have these problems. Maybe its simply because you are polite and nice. Maybe they see you from a distance and dont feel threatened by you. They think "hey this could be one of those cute guys who doesnt care about looks" So they go in for the kill.

but who knows...

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

Thanks for the input juslen Im just very charismatic when talking just something I do. But Im not always like that I have my share of jerkiness in me.

Also after thinking about it some. Hotties are the one that have the farthest to fall if they approach a guy and get rejected
than a ug or fat chick since they are already low.

 

[MightyMate]

Maybe they think You look so bad that they may score You!

 

[DoubleA]

Well,

Actually they have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Plus you must be showing somekind of interest for them to be interested.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

I cant help it! Damnit! I have to look at them periodically to ensure their safety...damn.. Im screwed.... Thanks for the uplifting post mightymate... lol funny though.

 

[DoubleA]

Also if you come off as one of those one of those guys who sees "inner Beauty" then, aka...Mr. Nice Guy.

Try showing signs of being shallow..

 

[juslen]

I guess when i look at it. The UG's have less to lose...

Since they are so used to getting rejected. What do they have to lose? They have been rejected so many times.. why stop at the 100th time. After all, they are just playing the lottery. Eventually they will win. But how long are they willing to wait?

 

[LJC]

Why an unwanted woman would approach a guy is fairly simple. They don't get approached often themselves and have to be more agrresive. As far as why they think they can get good looking guys I'm not so sure, but I've heard many of these women brag that they give great head, never cheat, can cook, ect. ect. Maybe they believe if they can get thier foot in the door that they can eventually break you down with pampering charm.

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

Don't talk to the hotties, just say "Hey, I'm working give me your #." Then take them on an action date. Then you can open them up slowly, cause you won't have much time to talk if you go to the right place.

P.S. I'd kill to be in your shoes. I'd be dating HBs left and right.

 

[Juan_Man]

UGs think that most guys will sleep with anything, so they assume that they have a chance with most guys, which includes the goodlooking ones.