Why theres smaller % of serious women on OLD than of men?

[Fruitbat]

I'm not convinced that anybody knows the ratio of women-to-men on OLD sites. The companies are super-secretive about that stuff. Why would they want anybody to know?

I'm also convinced that the ratio doesn't matter.

Regardless of how I meet them, exceptionally attractive women almost ALWAYS seem to be surrounded by men. A truly hot chick is never alone--unless she chooses to be.

This is why for 90% of men, the pursuit of them is a ruinous one.

 

[BeExcellent]

No worries @Fruitbat. I get that there are many men who do better online than in person.

If it ain't broke don't fix it.

I don't have the time or inclination to weed through all the people or banter with maybes. I'd rather get out there and meet men who I know I find appealing. This is true of good available women I know more often than not. But I don't know everybody & everybody is not like me.

I use a different strategy better suited to my personality and comfort level. I can walk into a high end party, charity event or exclusive venue alone where I don't know a soul and make new acquaintances instantly & have a great time. But I also had to learn that skill and arrive at that level of self assurance and social calibration.

To me that's more engaging than sifting through online profiles. But what I do many people are terrified to do. So people should do what's comfortable.

Make the contact & the approach. That's the main thing however you do it. So what if it's a 90% fail rate. You aren't looking for a harem of 1000 women. You are looking for one or a few. Within your 10% response rate you'll find what you need.