I agree that SS is something that each person has to decide for themselves if it is something that they want to try. In my opinion, it is no different then the games that women play on men. The only real difference is that a lot of women aren't even aware that they are f*cking with a guys mind. Think about it this way, say you are going to apply for a job, and it is you and one other person. Wouldn't you like to have an "edge" on the other person? That is the way I look at it, but I can see where some people might think that this "edge" is playing dirty, or unfair. SS really is something that you can't convince someone to try. All I have to say, is if you haven't used it and you are thinking about trying it, it works but like other people have said, it takes a lot of time and practice to be able to fully do it the right way.