Why is this?

[Fruitbat]

Ok - i fully expect a torrent of accusations here, but I must ask.....

In one of my social groups, which is mainly couples, a certain woman tries relentlessly to sexually tease me when I'm drunk etc. Usually starts with suggestive comments,sitting on lap etc.

Twice now, I have bluntly told her to fvck off, first time was an ego boost but just gets awkward, seeing as it's usually in full view of her husband (who is a solid, decent guy who I would never wish to piss off)

Recently she tried again but I went so cold she got the message.

Last year, one of her friends severely **** teased me, leading me to a hotel then backing out.

Recently, another woman at a gathering got very amorous, to the extent I was pretty much touching her up. She was very touchy feely but when I went to kiss her, she told me she had a bf who I met later, who was also a really nice bloke! She obviously knew I was single and interested and then out comes the BF, I don't know why she wouldn't tell me this before as its dangerous for both men to carry on this way.

So, it seems either this is common practice (I've not found this happen as often in other social groups) or these women, friends of each other, have a game called "wind up fruitbat"!

Now, this group are quite important to me for my social life, but I am at the point where I will give up trying to score women at the various parties we go to - for fear of another wind up!

I really wish I had some perspective on why this is happening, or is this typical low quality female behaviour - and being the only single guy (and an outspoken one at times) then I am the only legitimate target?

 

[dustmuffin]

Sounds like low quality women. They may even discuss it amongst themselves.

Full view of her husband? What a *****. I think I would go over and tell her that I was leaving and her shi t would be on the porch. How would be a good way to handle a ***** like this?

 

[ERB]

Not sure how to quote yet.

dustmuffin- a good way to handle a woman that does this is tell her that is unacceptable behavior. If she keeps up with it..... Next

 

[logicallefty]

Do you discuss wanting sex, a gf, etc. around this group a lot? If so I could see them discussing that behind your back... And then doing this stuff to you to tease you and try to impress the other girls that were involved in the conversations about you. and you said you are outspoken at times. Maybe you said some thing one time to hurt their wittle' feeling and this is their indirect revenge.