I want to hear everyone's thoughts.
My number one reason is NOT BEING F'ING HONEST. It sounds like the most simple thing in a relationship but, somehow it is the biggest one that eludes everyone. Why the heck can we not be honest with everyone that we want to date from day one. WHY ? It makes no damn sense at all.......That is why from day one on my next adventure I am going to make sure I do these 2 things
1. What are you looking for ? If they say, "Oh I am just looking to date right now" I might even get up in the middle of the date and just leave. It makes NO SENSE at all to even say this when you first meet someone. It basically says that I am not looking to make anything work from day one. Why can people not just say I am looking for a relationship but also let it be known that you must feel someone out first in order to know if they are relationship material......Same thing but atleast I know that the person in front of me believes in a one man one women relationship.
2. Always tell me the truth....No matter how bad you think I will react. I will always respect the person if they tell me the total truth.......Even if they say in the beginning of us going out that they are so confused at the moment and they hooked up with an Ex........I would have the option of at least thinking that OK, I have done the same thing and, We have not been going out that long and I RESPECT the heck out of this girl for telling me this. That shows that you have great communication skills which are rare.........If someone chooses to not display all their bad things about them and hold it inside, they are only dooming the relationship, just for a later date in time. Be honest, I am no where near perfect and NEVER expect to encounter a girl who is.
My number one reason is NOT BEING F'ING HONEST. It sounds like the most simple thing in a relationship but, somehow it is the biggest one that eludes everyone. Why the heck can we not be honest with everyone that we want to date from day one. WHY ? It makes no damn sense at all.......That is why from day one on my next adventure I am going to make sure I do these 2 things
1. What are you looking for ? If they say, "Oh I am just looking to date right now" I might even get up in the middle of the date and just leave. It makes NO SENSE at all to even say this when you first meet someone. It basically says that I am not looking to make anything work from day one. Why can people not just say I am looking for a relationship but also let it be known that you must feel someone out first in order to know if they are relationship material......Same thing but atleast I know that the person in front of me believes in a one man one women relationship.
2. Always tell me the truth....No matter how bad you think I will react. I will always respect the person if they tell me the total truth.......Even if they say in the beginning of us going out that they are so confused at the moment and they hooked up with an Ex........I would have the option of at least thinking that OK, I have done the same thing and, We have not been going out that long and I RESPECT the heck out of this girl for telling me this. That shows that you have great communication skills which are rare.........If someone chooses to not display all their bad things about them and hold it inside, they are only dooming the relationship, just for a later date in time. Be honest, I am no where near perfect and NEVER expect to encounter a girl who is.