Why I'll pass on married women

[white sox bill]

Hey,
I swore off doing married women yrs. ago. But this past spring, I let my guard down and got involved w/ a married one who was quite a bit younger than me.

To make a long story short, after some marathon sex seesions(which she loved) her hubby caught on. She was a emotional wreck shortly after. Then she didn't speak to me for some time while her and her husband were reconsiling. She told him all!

I felt absolutly terrible for what I did. Morally it was wrong. I let down my DJ ethics. I wanted so bad to aplogize to both of them.

Then a few nights ago (keep in mind I had never met her husband) I was walking out of a grocery store and this guy walks up to me and says he's HER husband! He starts off about wanting to kick my ass because he's been in prison yada yada, and that he would but its too expensive yada yada. I'm much about 30 lbs heavier than him.

There's no doubt in a fair fight I woulda dusted him. So here I stand in a parking lot holding 2 bags of groceries and 2 gallons of milk, in shorts and in floppy sandels, and then I'm super stoned on top of that. He was in work boots, long jeans etc. I had all the intagables AGAINST me. But the biggest one was that I was in the wrong. The best I could have done was defend myself against this guy. I used to be rowdy in my younger days, and I gotta tell you in this situation I would got my clock creamed on PRINCIPLE alone. Being rather high, the last thing I wanted was to get into it. I knew my sandels would never hold any ground either.

I just stared him right in the eye and did what I wanted to do:Apolozige. Tell him that it wasn't right and that he has every rreason to be pissed, and that I've been cheated on before and it sucked. We stared eachother down about a foot away from eachother, I was getting ready to drop my groceries to defend myself. I never had to-we talked very curtly. I told him that I don't run after married women and that what was so wierd is that this is so out of charcter for her and I.

The bootom line is I never took my eyes off of him. It was all man-to-man. I wished him good luck and he left. But he could have easily kneed my balls because of what I was holding, my mental state, and the way I was dressed.

Guys, don't forget that I wouldn't recommend adultry, but remeber that the guy who is in the right ALWAYS has the upper hand. Years ago I dropped a guy who I gave up 40 lbs and 4 inches to becuase he was messing with my g/f and was a smart ass about it. If it had been a stupid bar fight or something he mighta won, but not under those circumstances.

Don't wanna be a home wrecker besides. Sorry so long!
Bill
PS-Wanna take bets as to when this mar5ried women calls again? Probably sooner since hubby pulled this

 

[stormwriter]

Are you going to do her if she calls again? haha.

Great post dude. I thought that was cool to read. I've never been in that situation before, and probably never will, so it was an interesting read, and i pictured the entire story in my head as your were describing it.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Cool story.

I was in a diff country recently, first night there slept w/ a married woman - asian, couldnt resist in my drunken state. She supplied the protection so I dont feel quite so guilty - it was me or the next man. Still, I wouldn't ever wanna meet her husband cos I am in the wrong (though I blame her even more than myself).

Agree about the moral upperhand giving you the drive in a physical situation. It's all about psyche - some of my teammates used to smack each other in the face before a rugby match - concentrate on the pain and get real mad - run out on the pitch 2 mins later and hit the opposition so hard on the kick-off. Sounds crazy, I know, but it works. Personally I used to find a heavy wood door or smooth wall and head butt it (not too hard) - works great too. Everything is about state-of-mind.

You, stoned, were a dead man should he have so chosen! Good call and well played. In fact, fair play to the guy too, damn, if that was me I'd be tempted to hurt you bad.

Osc.

 

[white sox bill]

Will I answer her call? Yes, but I'll tell her to resolve her martial issues before anything goes on w/us.

Oscar--Your right, absolutly I woulda hurt me bad too. But I was in the wrong and I was man enough to admit it and I was willing to take my lumps like one.

But my point is when you do wrong, expect repercussion.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by white sox bill
Will I answer her call? Yes, but I'll tell her to resolve her martial issues before anything goes on w/us.

Oscar--Your right, absolutly I woulda hurt me bad too. But I was in the wrong and I was man enough to admit it and I was willing to take my lumps like one.

But my point is when you do wrong, expect repercussion.

Good job dude.

 

[BobbDobbs]

You can still get your arse kicked by jealous boyfriends, or even guys who think the should be some chick's boyfriend.

 

[BGMan]

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
You can still get your arse kicked by jealous boyfriends, or even guys who think he should be some chick's boyfriend.

Yeah, well, messing around with another guy's gf isn't as bad as messing with another guy's wife. As for guys who THINK they're a certain girl's bf, then THEY are the guilty party.

BGMan