why I know Im in love

[frivolousz21]

because my girl is gone from the 13th to the 22nd...

over in Germany for World Youth week.

well until yesterday I didnt miss her that much..I did..but I was fine.

Yesterday it hit me like a brick wall..that I want someone of that womens lovin.

well I havent talk to her....first off her mom called me and told me they all bought domestic calling cards...MORONS

but I also told her not to call me until the 17th-20th. so its been 6 days now..and I do miss her like crack.

anyways.....Yea Illl admit I miss her a ton and cant wait to see/hear her again. even though it sucks...it really does suck..I know now how I really feel about this person and what she is in my life. I hope the ones out there who want this..find this.

1 more thing..she wont ever know this!

 

[Black_Italian]

Other way to know your in love YOU WONT SHUT THE FU*K UP ABOUT HER lol.

Ninja out

 

[frivolousz21]

NINJA....man ur right..thats pretty fycking sad....

its almost like this board is my personal diary! haha.

 

[G-Man UK]

that's beautiful man, really beautiful.

But what the fcuk are you doing? get a hold of your emotions and get a grip of yourself. Love is powerful but a DJ should be able to handle it and not feel the need to spout the love out in words on so suave.

This is NOT a flame, but what you need to think about is why you feel that you need to tell all us about your love to make yourself feel better.

Think about it.

Respect

G-man

 

[frivolousz21]

well.....i work pretty much by myself all day.......and I havent talked to anyone about this.

2nd. I have a negative thought process.....I know I know..thats bad..ive had a bad past..and I always think of the worst possible thing than can happen..so then I worry on fabricated ideas I create in my head.

does that make me crazy? :woo:

 

[Evangenlion]

I was , was almost touched. well there goes another one into the "LTR" world.

 

[G-Man UK]

I hear Love makes people crazy so you could well be

As good as some of the information on this site is I don't think it is good enough to control some of these powerful emotions caused by love.

I suggest that you spend more time on instilling a more positive attitude into yourself than thinking about your girlfriend while she is away.

Respect

G-man

 

[frivolousz21]

I suggest that you spend more time on instilling a more positive attitude into yourself than thinking about your girlfriend while she is away.

very right.

Life is funny though

I learned the game..so I got women.

I became self confident...so I kept women.

now that I have love..I worry because of all the bad things that have happened....this has to be the hardest one so far to change..since its burned into my head...not to have long lasting happiness..but I will tell you..Im going to work my arse off to get my mind set diff....I dont let her or anyone know about that stuff..buit that doesnt make me feel better.

 

[frivolousz21]

Go Go Captain Contradiction

how did I contradict myself?

she knows I love her...she tells me she loves me so much is rediculous.


im saying..Im not telling her that I miss her like this...

 

[G-Man UK]

I definately see where your coming from, these feelings are not just going to go away over night but the main thing is you know that you need to adjust your mindset, so you are half way there.

Respect

G-man

 

[spider_007]

and at the same time, she is overthere in Germany thinking; "that's not so bad, I can do with out him"


he he, sorry for making it worse. keep your self buissey.

 

[frivolousz21]

Then maybe you should! Theres nothing wrong with that!!

Truth is the pivotal object that intertwines the universe on both bigger and smaller scales, it is the dependance on this which solves our worlds mysteries...the biggest one being love

Open your heart...Let the world see your beauty

Sarge On...







are u serious? because I really agree with you....I dont think its makes a Man less of a man to express his passion.

but are u serious? because so many guys here would say how Pyssy that is..

 

[frivolousz21]

and at the same time, she is overthere in Germany thinking; "that's not so bad, I can do with out him"

haha.... yea dont want to think that..thanks!

 

[Triple X]

Only advice I can offer is make 100% sure you don't start slipping into AFC mode.

When you are that 'into' someone the mind has a nasty habit of thinking things like 'Oh my!! She's a princess!! I must be so NICE to her and treat her like such!!'.. sorry bad example but I'm sure you know what I mean. Be careful.

Sounds like you are real happy right now, which is a great thing.. but you gotta make sure she feels the same about you. Concentrate on maintaining (or increasing) her attraction towards you and you will be fine. Nothing wrong with being in love, so long as you handle it like a DJ.

(I'm not suggesting you aren't one, I'm just warning you so things don't go horribly wrong!)

Good luck man

 

[frivolousz21]

triplex-


thanks.....

the thing is I am conciously aware of that.

she doesnt know that I worry about her not feeling the same...even though I know she does....

she doesnt see any of what im exposing here..she sees my sensative side...but Im still a MAN with her.

thats why she loves me so much.


but I have let my worries go..its driving me nuts

 

[Triple X]

she doesnt see any of what im exposing here..she sees my sensative side...but Im still a MAN with her.

That's excellent man, the way it should be.. keep it up.

Problem is, most of us on here consciously KNOW not to be an AFC etc... its just the problem arises when you are in love.. for some reason it becomes so much easier to slip back into niceguy mode.

But I'm sure you'll be fine.. just gotta keep yourself/your emotions in check every now and then.

 

[Big Eee Zee]

very few reach this state, but a TRUE dj can express his feelings for a woman. if he thinks it should be done, he will tell her.

 

[frivolousz21]

I agree with everything you guys are saying.


the problem with me is:

instead of looking forward to talkign to her again all excited and happy.

Im looking at the oppisite side of that..and that feels natural to me.

so how do I change that?

 

[Jariel]

Good for you! A lot of guys have been burnt and end up too scared to allow themselves to develop feelings (or admit to it). Of course, there's a chance you might get hurt, but it takes balls to drop your guard, be honest with yourself and take that risk.

 

[Centaurion]

What is this Love that so many speak of with such apparent familiarity? Do they truly comprehend how unattainable it is? Are there not as many definitions of Love as there are stars in the universe?