Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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A little while back, I decided to get myself a back-up in case my 21 year old flakes on me. I generally expect women under 23 to flake but for the last month and a half, she's been pretty spectacular and hasn't flaked once.
I also have a 28 year old FB who is a full-time Single Mother. I normally wouldn't bother keeping a woman like this, but she's a fantastic lay. Her biggest downside is she only has Saturday night off. I don't like ditching a Saturday night out just to get laid, so it isn't happening all that often.
Anyway, back to my back-up chick. I did some sarging on POF and messaged a 24 year old. She responded twice with really snotty messages, so I politely told her that since she's not much of a conversationalist, I'd look elsewhere. She opened right up after that and I built some good rapport with her.
And here we are again... another full time SM with a child under one year old. Regardless, I hate burning bridges. I'd rather leave her while her IL is high, so I decided that I should meet her regardless. I told her that Mondays and Tuesdays are my best days, but I may be able to make arrangements for another day.
She tells me she's available on Wednesday. That is my worst fvcking day. It's my kid's first day back from his mom's place, and he's usually a mess from the craziness of his mom's place. Wednesday is his day to re-adjust to being with me.
I have this unspoken rule that I don't leave him with a babysitter for more than one evening per week. I need to utilize that one night next week for Saturday evening to date the 21 year old whom I have more investment in.
Wednesday is a no go for me. As a full-time SM, she's at the disadvantage here. She needs to show me that she has some value and flexibility. She's on mat leave and currently has tons of time at her disposal. A Monday or Tuesday night shouldn't be a problem for her to arrange. Not only that, as time goes on the 21 year old is proving to be more valuable.
I'm getting to the point where I should just cut full-time SMs out of my life completely. They're extremely low-value women in the dating world and are really not much use outside of being a FB.
I also have a 28 year old FB who is a full-time Single Mother. I normally wouldn't bother keeping a woman like this, but she's a fantastic lay. Her biggest downside is she only has Saturday night off. I don't like ditching a Saturday night out just to get laid, so it isn't happening all that often.
Anyway, back to my back-up chick. I did some sarging on POF and messaged a 24 year old. She responded twice with really snotty messages, so I politely told her that since she's not much of a conversationalist, I'd look elsewhere. She opened right up after that and I built some good rapport with her.
And here we are again... another full time SM with a child under one year old. Regardless, I hate burning bridges. I'd rather leave her while her IL is high, so I decided that I should meet her regardless. I told her that Mondays and Tuesdays are my best days, but I may be able to make arrangements for another day.
She tells me she's available on Wednesday. That is my worst fvcking day. It's my kid's first day back from his mom's place, and he's usually a mess from the craziness of his mom's place. Wednesday is his day to re-adjust to being with me.
I have this unspoken rule that I don't leave him with a babysitter for more than one evening per week. I need to utilize that one night next week for Saturday evening to date the 21 year old whom I have more investment in.
Wednesday is a no go for me. As a full-time SM, she's at the disadvantage here. She needs to show me that she has some value and flexibility. She's on mat leave and currently has tons of time at her disposal. A Monday or Tuesday night shouldn't be a problem for her to arrange. Not only that, as time goes on the 21 year old is proving to be more valuable.
I'm getting to the point where I should just cut full-time SMs out of my life completely. They're extremely low-value women in the dating world and are really not much use outside of being a FB.
Are you into the BBW scene? 
