Why have women become so easily "creeped out" over the dummest $h!t?

[Robert28]

I swear I don't remember women being so easily freaked out or weirded out or whatever by the dummest stuff until the past few years. Now it's like you have to watch what you say around them or they'll get scared off. Case in point. I get a friend request on Facebook from some broad, don't know her but accept it. I email her asking if we knew each other and she gives me some answer like "nope don't think so". Wtf? Whatever then. Then I say "I see we have 10 friends in common". This freaks her out.haha She goes off "what are you doing creeping my friends list??? You must be a stalker!" and I'm thinking "I'm a stalker but you just added me out the random?".lol The funny thing is I never looked at her friends list, it just said we had 10 friends in common when I saw she friend requested me.

I'm really starting to believe we have mental health issues in this country and the majority of those are female. Used to be you could see some random girl and be like "nice jeans" and they'd smile or laugh and say "thank you", now you'd probably get "ew, pervert, quit looking at my @$$ creep!".lol And people wonder why I don't want to get married.haha

 

[DemFeeelz]

I swear I don't remember women being so easily freaked out or weirded out or whatever by the dummest stuff until the past few years. Now it's like you have to watch what you say around them or they'll get scared off. Case in point. I get a friend request on Facebook from some broad, don't know her but accept it. I email her asking if we knew each other and she gives me some answer like "nope don't think so". Wtf? Whatever then. Then I say "I see we have 10 friends in common". This freaks her out.haha She goes off "what are you doing creeping my friends list??? You must be a stalker!" and I'm thinking "I'm a stalker but you just added me out the random?".lol The funny thing is I never looked at her friends list, it just said we had 10 friends in common when I saw she friend requested me.

I'm really starting to believe we have mental health issues in this country and the majority of those are female. Used to be you could see some random girl and be like "nice jeans" and they'd smile or laugh and say "thank you", now you'd probably get "ew, pervert, quit looking at my @$$ creep!".lol And people wonder why I don't want to get married.haha

This is how that works.

Attention seeking chick randomly adds possible orbiters to fraudulently boost her low self esteem and to keep up with the joneses based off her number of "friends" "likes" and one handed compliments from thirsty dudes to compete with other chicks doing the same thing.

You make an innocent comment about actually knowing some of her friends off the suggestion on the site which she most likely never pays attention to as she's too busy adding anyone and everyone and she freaks out pinning the "creepiness" on you as deep down she knows she isn't in real life what Flakebook makes her believe she is online and God forbid anyone ever finds out.

Chick adds more random "hawt" dudes and doesn't give a sh1t as "hawt" guys on her "friends" list = "not creepy" even if they are.

Most of these chicks are complete frauds and freak the hell out if their weak veil of "popularity" were to get lifted by some dude they added themselves who has nothing invested in them, but may really know others who know them and isn't willing to be some random svck up whom she'll never come across in real life.

If you never mentioned you knew anyone she knew then it would be "ok". She just sh1t her pants as she pulled her own card as she's frauding online and doesn't want to possibly get exposed in the future with people who know you as well.

It's nothing to do with you. It's just you know people who know her and she doesn't know you so she is afraid something she's hiding or frauding about online might wind up coming back to haunt her. Could be anything.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Because RAPE CULTURE

 

[Serenity]

Can relate to the "nice jeans" and being viewed as a pervert. I got busted for looking at a female colleagues a$$, she said "are you looking at my a$$?" and I just calmly answered "yeah, it's nice". Consequences? None, she didn't even bother anymore.

I can fvcking see the fear common men have, and I got a good example yesterday. At work there's 20 guys and 1 girl, so that makes the dynamics a bit interesting. I was sharing a pizza with this girl for lunch and she asks me if I could do something for her (I forgot what it was), I just casually reject her suggestion. Now the fun starts, this other colleague heard my response and came in white knighting. With a retarded AFC smile on his face he asked "aren't you a gentleman?", my response? I laughed my fvcking a$$ off and said no, female colleague now turns around and whips up the best fvcking support ever and says "he's not a gentleman, he's a man!".

 

[Poonani Maker]

I just laugh at them because they are being silly and not making any sense, JUST LIKE OUR RULERS here in America. You MUST laugh at them, because to actually consider what they say just prolongs the legitimacy of what they say and do. The thought police not only applies to women, but to our RULERS as well. Freedom of Speech, THEY SAY, means you can say anything you want to SO LONG AS IT DOES NOT DO HARM OR OFFEND SOMEBODY.

Every slave on every plantation in the Old South had that kind of freedom. He could say anything that did not offend anybody. He could do anything that did not offend anybody.

His only problem was that the list of things he could not say or do because it would offend somebody was very, very, very long.

So, you can say anything you want to SO LONG AS IT DOES NOT DO HARM OR OFFEND SOMEBODY.

How ridiculous it is for an adult to say something as silly as that.

Freedom is the right to offend or harm others. There is no such thing as a harmless freedom.

Like every other freedom, a slogan won’t give you freedom of speech. Freedom is BALANCING your rights with other people’s rights, and giving your own rights a LOT of space.

 

[old_skoolr]

old_skoolr: We have 10 friends in common.
Girl: WTF are you a stalker?
Old_skoolr: Are you fu.cking retarded?

Attention *****s need the harshest of words to understand their stupidity.

 

[El Payaso]

You should have told her what you were thinking. "I'm a stalker? Yet you randomly added me without even knowing who I am after stalking my page just to boost the amount of "friends" you have."

Then you should have un-friended her right away. A girl will only do as much as you let her get away with. Don't let a woman gt away with BS. Call her out on it and calmly walk away.

 

[Robert28]

Because RAPE CULTURE

It's funny you say that because you might be on to something. A few weeks ago I was riding by one of those "Buy Here Pay Here" car lots and saw a truck I thought would make a nice truck for my business for employees to use. I stopped to look at it and here comes a woman salesman, pretty good looking too. She's going on and on about the truck and blah blah blah while I'm not listening to her because I'm looking over the truck. She mentions financing and I say "I won't be financing, I'll be paying cash if you accept my offer". I gotta drive the truck first so I tell her "go get the keys and lets test drive it". That's when her whole demeanor changes to "Oh I don't think that is a good idea. I don't ride on test drives with anyone, I have 2 kids to come home to everyday. I'm the only one here today anyways so you'll have to come back next week so one of the men can ride with you." This broad basically accuses me of being some dude who's going to kidnap her and steal this truck that MIGHT be worth $8,000.lol Nevermind the fact that I pulled up in my personal truck which is easily worth $40 grand and I'm dressed nice. I'm thinking "yeah b!tch, I got nothing better to do then to ditch my $40,000 truck to steal this p.o.s with you in it." Needless to say she lost a sale that day, she could have made at least $8000 but instead she made 0.

 

[VikingKing]

She just wishes you were a stalker, or creeping. That would validate her ego and she would feel desired.

Same sh@t happend to me once. I was sitting at a bar and looked over at the girl next to me and said "How are you doing tonight?" she says "Did you put somthing in my drink?" I looked at her tilted my head and said " Why would you ask me that?" She started to explain and then i ignored her.

Cvnt.

 

[Bokanovsky]

That's when her whole demeanor changes to "Oh I don't think that is a good idea. I don't ride on test drives with anyone, I have 2 kids to come home to everyday. I'm the only one here today anyways so you'll have to come back next week so one of the men can ride with you."

I would have laughed and told her that she needs to find another job if being a car saleswoman is too dangerous for her.

 

[logicallefty]

I'm really starting to believe we have mental health issues in this country and the majority of those are female.

This is the root cause to many of the worlds problems, and the majority of problems that women cause.

I only watched the show "Walking Dead" maybe 3-4 times but IMO it is a fictitious show that really has a non fiction element to it. There are "zombies" walking around among us everywhere, RIGHT NOW, in 2015. They (most of them) just don't look as creepy as the ones on Walking Dead. Most of them have ( . )( . )s and a \|/ or a \{}/, but some have a c0ck instead. They may not be trying to take you down right this second by biting you, but mark my word, disturb them the wrong way or cross their path without protecting yourself and they can damage you in other equal ways or worse than the show. They are masters at disguise and deception, will suck all your resources like a fictious zombie sucks blood, then move on to their next victim. We may even have it worse in some ways. At least in the Walking Dead they can do what they have to do to eliminate the problem. We are stuck with ours. This is a serious issue fellas and it's here and it's now. Don't down play it or call it paranoia or a joke.. If think I am full of sh|t then you need to do more reading on this site about the altitudes of low these creatures are willing to go to to get what they want from a man, and what they are willing to do to man just for fun.

 

[dasein]

I wish people would start repudiating those who use the word "creepy" in the way nit-twits do. It's lowbrow gynocracy that gave us that use of the term.

Whenever I hear it (and it isn't someone I know LOL), my response is "Oh, you think that's 'creepy?' why don't I pop your eyes out and skull-f you to death? Sound good?"

 

[El Payaso]

It's funny you say that because you might be on to something. A few weeks ago I was riding by one of those "Buy Here Pay Here" car lots and saw a truck I thought would make a nice truck for my business for employees to use. I stopped to look at it and here comes a woman salesman, pretty good looking too. She's going on and on about the truck and blah blah blah while I'm not listening to her because I'm looking over the truck. She mentions financing and I say "I won't be financing, I'll be paying cash if you accept my offer". I gotta drive the truck first so I tell her "go get the keys and lets test drive it". That's when her whole demeanor changes to "Oh I don't think that is a good idea. I don't ride on test drives with anyone, I have 2 kids to come home to everyday. I'm the only one here today anyways so you'll have to come back next week so one of the men can ride with you." This broad basically accuses me of being some dude who's going to kidnap her and steal this truck that MIGHT be worth $8,000.lol Nevermind the fact that I pulled up in my personal truck which is easily worth $40 grand and I'm dressed nice. I'm thinking "yeah b!tch, I got nothing better to do then to ditch my $40,000 truck to steal this p.o.s with you in it." Needless to say she lost a sale that day, she could have made at least $8000 but instead she made 0.

That's just sad and pathetic. In a culture where all men are branded as rapists or potential ones, this is what we've come to expect. The only thing you can do is just shake your head.

 

[salinechow]

#1 You just failed a sh1t test #2 If she likes you enough you can get away with murder...I told this one girl I met online once that I already knew her full name and home address and she still met up for teh sex lol

This.

I think the OP missed the dartboard here. She was just playing with you dude. I think in her tiny mind she was flirting. I would have said

"10 friends! It was 11 when I added you. Guess you pis$sed someone off recently."

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I'm really starting to believe we have mental health issues in this country and the majority of those are female. Used to be you could see some random girl and be like "nice jeans" and they'd smile or laugh and say "thank you", now you'd probably get "ew, pervert, quit looking at my @$$ creep!".lol And people wonder why I don't want to get married.haha

One of my ex's (at the time gf 4mo) she lived in the city that I worked in. One morning I just randomly saw her at a cross section on the way to work. So I texted her later in the day, hey say you this morning at blah blah.
Her response is "that's creepy"......really WTF..OKAY? A couple weeks later she monkey branched to her ex. She had some screws lose & so did I for dating her.


I was @ the grocery store & saw a decent chick with tight a** jeans, great a** wearing nice cowboy boots. I couldn't resist, just got out work all dressed up. She saw me scope her out head to toe, as I walked by I said awesome boots.
I get nice smile & a thank you.
I thought I might have said it too creepy but next thing I know she's standing in the same check out line.

 

[GS750]

This is why I've gotta find a chick in 2015 without a Facebook account. I've got a date with one on Saturday who claims she avoids social media and doesn't have any accounts. I'm skeptical. But I get lied to for a living so maybe I'm just paranoid...or I actually found the fabled "needle in a haystack". We will see.

 

[Robert28]

The girl that tried to add me on Facebook may or may not have been trying to give me a sh!t test, I could care less though if I failed or passed it. I mean if bringing up the point that we have 10 common friends and I'm trying to figure out why she may think she may know me well enough to add me on there is cause for her to play the "creepy card" then that's on her. I mean look at it from my point of view, I have no idea who she is, she adds me randomly, don't girls complain that guys do this all the time? Well d@mn b!tch I'm just trying to make sure you aren't some government spy or something.lol

The car saleswoman, yeah that offended the he!! out of me. I thought of emailing that dealership and saying "came by to check out this truck, had my checkbook in my pocket, your saleswoman thought I was some creep who was going to kidnap her and steal your truck on the test drive and told me to come back at a later time. I've since bought a truck from somewhere else who wanted my business and didn't feel the need to insult me. Up yours!".

 

[sylvester the cat]

We know women operate on a different level hence why game was cultivated.

Agree and amplify.

 

[logicallefty]

This is why I've gotta find a chick in 2015 without a Facebook account. I've got a date with one on Saturday who claims she avoids social media and doesn't have any accounts. I'm skeptical. But I get lied to for a living so maybe I'm just paranoid...or I actually found the fabled "needle in a haystack". We will see.

Women who say "I don't have any social media accounts" are really telling you:

- I don't have any under my actual name (I use a fake name and troll with it)

- I don't have any that I ever add friends to (But I can still troll with it)

- I don't have any that belong to me (But I use someone else's to troll)


:crackup:

 

[Between_The_Lines]

Women who say "I don't have any social media accounts" are really telling you:

- I don't have any under my actual name (I use a fake name and troll with it)

- I don't have any that I ever add friends to (But I can still troll with it)

- I don't have any that belong to me (But I use someone else's to troll)


:crackup:

If a girl (18 to mid 30s) tells me she doesn't have a social media, my first thought is: "you just broke up, didn't you".
Second thought is: "you haven't found a boyfriend yet, have you?"
Third thought is: "you don't have many orbiters, do you?"
Fourth thought is: "you don't have much to be proud of at the moment, do you?"
Fifth thought is: "you're right, socia media will only distract you and you can't afford that while studying to become an anesthesiologist"