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Why girls like bums

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It is because they have that I don't give a **** about anything attitude. I lived with a bunch of college bums earlier, and I had to move out because I couldn't take it. They all would skip class, smoke weed all day, sit on their asses, and eventually they all dropped out of college due to mental issues. Yet, they had no trouble pulling women. They would always have a girl that stayed at our house a lot and they would always cheat on them. They just did not give a **** about anything but weed lol.
 

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I know what you are saying, but there has to be more to it. They are probably good looking bums*.

A video gamer who hides in his basement doesn't give a flying F either. But he's not swimming in puss.

*I mean attractive to women, not necessarily aesthetically pleasing lol.
 

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They weren't good looking lol. They always told me they wanted my body and shiz. They were really aggressive with women. If they wanted a particular girl, they went for it. They also were eloquent bull shvters.
 

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Yeah but I'm a bum for now. I'm good looking. Like a viking. Infact, I never had any flu shot or inoculations, because my mother believes its unnecessary, and harmful, with the exception of a tetnuas shot, I remember the last one I got litterally brought me to my knees and made me feel sick. Real bad. My mother didnt coddle me. Normally when I would show pain I think she cant bear it, and she just lets me be and handle it myself. i did and I was fine. however she was very affectionate with me, very often.

You guys need to learn how to touch women, be strong, but also be sexual. They love that sh!t. Yes they are dumb. They lie often. Infact I would even go as far to say they are RETARDED. They are foolish. Emotionally driven, and if you get them ADDICTED to you emotionally, in a sexual way they will belong to you. You still have to game them though, and dont be a weak ass. This is key.

Idk, I've had american women, and women from other cultures. To be honest american women are really weak. The very feminine strong women come from countries where they are treated like sh!t, how ironic. Now these women are hard to game. Really its not even a game, its the fact that you act like a fvcking god damn man (masculine) and they looooooooovvvvveeeee that sh!T.

For example, my ex chinese looked at me once (aka sugar mama sex slave) and said in her cute little broken english accent "Your so man" you guys understand? My response? I just kind of grunted, eh, or somthing like that. Then she lean her head on my shoulder and didnt even need me to verbally respond.

Now I dont remember but i probably fvcked her a few hours later. She litterally would ask me to just keep my c0ck in her vagina, and once said "I wish you would keep it in there forever"

Now of course when I would fvck her a lot at first, i would cuddle and sh!t. She also made me coffee in the morning. But after a while, I stopped giving affection, I really just like to sleep on my side of the bed at night.

But this woman, at one point, (I was being a d!ck probably) picked up a chair, and almost threw at me, she was mad because I was playing to mvch wc3, and smoking a lot of weed all the time (thanks to her, aka her daddies money) and idk dont remember the details. But its real easy to talk them down when they want to get physical, plus I'm bigger than her, heavier, muscular, my bones are thicker and harder. Also at one point, I had a perfect pull up bar, and once she picked that sh!t up (she was mad again, oh poor her :moon: )
She wanted to. I saw a warrior in her eyes, but really she is just a small little girl who was angry at me for some reason.

If they start to get physical or attack you, you approach them slowly, keep your hands in front of you (your hands are your weapons, if thats all you have thats how you defend yourself) and you just say "hey its ok, relax, calm down" But do this in a masculine way, and it will disarm her, and of course yes, she will cry and a pvssy about it. But she will make you dinner, and then you get to fvck her later :up:

I'm telling you. No doubt about it, no question, their are women out there (not feminists, those are the bad ones, they are sick and broken) that are feminine, but also, in their own way they are fierce and they would literally kill for you, fvck they would even kill themselves for you. Once when I was being to lackadaisical, and she was chasing, I wasn't running i just didnt care, she said to me "You know in traditional China, if a womans husband dies, she kills herself." what the fvck. Really? What are you stupid, retarded, or fvcked up. Now I didnt say that, I said dont you dare do that. If I die live your life its fine.

If you don't want to just sleep around, find yourself an eastern woman who will be like your lioness. Its fine let her work and make money for you. Plus if some one fvcks with you, she will take this very seriously, and if you want she would kill for you. However, you have to pay a price for this type of one. One can not have his cake and eat it to, you get the cake and you look at it. Jk, eat it. But she will be clingy, and needy. But thats what women are like, a true feminine woman (not a feminist, that is wrong and bad). I love feminine women. But you MUST BEHAVE LIKE A FVCKING GODDAMN MAN and if you do that you can have your cake and eat it to.:up:


I'm telling you their are women out their who will like you and love you, and they do not care about your money

Now I drink a LOT. I also abuse other drugs.

I havn't been sick for a very,very, very long time. I don't get colds, i dont get the flu, i've even eatin very questionable things. I could probably eat raw chicken and i not get sick.

So with the damage im causing to my body, that a normal person doesnt do. I dont get sick. I wonder why?????

Now, I'm nordic. Even when I lift weights, usually my arms get bigger than my chest.

Technically my grandfather on my fathers side is polish, so i'm polish. but his mother is Norwegian.

On my mothers side i'm swedish and german.

So as I said, I'm nordic. I'm a viking. I think the reason my arms usually get bigger than my chest is because I come from a blood line of men who fight and kill each other using swords.

And I dont even get sick.

I also smoke cigarettes, and I can run 5 miles in 45 mins.

I still dont get sick.

Often times I kind of live off of women. I've had good girlfriends, and one of hem was even sexually abused when she was younger, and she was a "bdp" type. But even she served me, when she got her paycheck from work she gave it to me :yes:

Be like a lion.

What does an alpha lion do? He lay around all day. 90% of his time he is sleeping, fvcking, or eating.

The women do all the hunting, but he eats first, and then he fvcks them, if he wants.

I once watched this you tube video, and it showed three lionesses trying to take down a water buffalo, and they couldnt do it, sh!tty yeah?

So the lion stood up, he jumped on that mother fvcker, bit it in the neck, and it went down immediately.

I'm sure his females were very thankful.

he also probably fvcked their brains out that night to.

But he probably gets laid so much it becomes boring, so he thinks about other things.

Idk.

Think about it.

Its not about being cruel or hurtful, or about being a pvss a$$.

You can have no money, be a lazy bum, but as long as your a lion (an alpha lion) and be masculine, you will be rewarded.

A woman can only love a man she respects. It's that simple. If she doesnt respect you she will not give a fvck about you.

But if she respects you, she will do ANYTHING for you.
 
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But about the shots. I never got them as a child. But once I joined the military, they line you up, the just stick it in your arm, litterally they just stick you. They dont look for a vein, they do not care.

So before that, as I said. Since ive been out, I dont get shots. Fvck that sh!t. Don't need it.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
They weren't good looking lol. They always told me they wanted my body and shiz. They were really aggressive with women. If they wanted a particular girl, they went for it. They also were eloquent bull shvters.
Of course these guys get women. They have nothing else to do. If you could devote your life to just chasing women you'd get good at it too after awhile. These types of guys aren't usually very picky though.

I wouldn't trade my ability to self discipline, improve, make money, and put myself on a successful path, to live the life of one of these dudes. No frigging way. These guys are perfect examples of the hedonistic lifestyle. All they do is chase pleasure, they will never sacrifice that to build anything.
 

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In their late teens and early 20's these "bums" have no problem getting girls especially if they are good looking. I live in South Florida and knew a lot of the bum/surfer/beach-bum/pothead/party every day types. Not that all surfers are bums but you get the idea. They're technically going nowhere in life but they are fun, so girls dig them. Late 20's to 30's it's pretty much over for these guys. A lot of them have a low paying job (or no job), still live at home with mom and dad, still have their drug/alcohol habits, and are pretty much bums. Because they partied every day and had a "I dont give a fvck about anything" outlook they never went anywhere. Their life peaked when they were 21 and now its all downhill. The same girls who couldn't get enough of their stupid behavior, now she wants a guy with a house and a car and a 401k and stability. That's where the dude who "gave a fvck" about his future comes in.
 

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Most loser guys I know who clean up with women - were good with women in high school and it carried over (same reason good looking guys get double the advantage because of the built in confidence they display).

Most of them also happen to be gamers. And most gamers have a built in defense against falling too hard for a woman........... Leveling up their characters is more important....

Not joking....


And i don't think it much matters in the end.
 

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noobolgy just summed up game. Like I've been saying here for a billion times, game is everything. The emotions that we can stir in a woman is our ultimate weapon.

noobolgy said:
You can have no money, be a lazy bum, but as long as your a lion (an alpha lion) and be masculine, you will be rewarded.

A woman can only love a man she respects. It's that simple. If she doesnt respect you she will not give a fvck about you.

But if she respects you, she will do ANYTHING for you.
Pure unrefined gold

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Most of them also happen to be gamers. And most gamers have a built in defense against falling too hard for a woman........... Leveling up their characters is more important....
Hah I read an article once saying that winning increases testosterone, this includes winning in video games. This is our magic bullet gentlemen. Win in video games and you will slay pvssy left and right :yes:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Haha I'm a bum. very handsome as well. However I havnt had sex for a while. You know why? I drink to much and abuse drugs.

You know? Why don't more of you talk about your family.

I've literally obsessively analyzed each member of my family.

I understand them well. My father, my mother, my brother, and my two sisters.

A real man spends time with his family. He is loyal to them. He should be involved in there life.

I'm telling you. A very feminine women, yes she is retarded (my mother, grandmother, my sisters) but, if they respect you, they love you, they will do anything for you.

You think men are tough? yes we are. I know I am. I'm a Marine.

I've had 2 hour long classes on how to stalk some one at night, follow them, with out detection.

Not only did i spend much of my childhood alone and outside in nature (because my dad always said tv, video games are stupid) I know all the land where I grow up very well. I even know each deer trail, I know where they sleep, you can tell because the grass is matted down.

I could be one of the most meanest evil motherfvckers you ever met.

To be honest if I knew a man had a briefcase of 30k, if I could do it in a way I dont get caught, i would hit him with somthing in the head and take his money.

But my brother (also an infantry marine, and my grandfather, my dad didnt, he works for the atf, and inspector not an agent, plus he used to work for abbot laboratories, he was a monitor, like on a production line, he found out a way to reuse the waste thats left over after they make the "medications" he studied architecture for a while, then I think he decided it wasnt going to make him money(it was early 90's maybe maybe late 80's) Then he said fvck it(I think) and he majored in philosophy and theology)


Those degrees in a sense are worthless.

However he turned nothing into somthing. You can do that. My mother, she was abused. She had an alcoholic, toothless abusive mother. Physically and emotionally.

However she wasnt abused sexually.


And you know what kept her from being a prostitute/ drug addict.

Her grandparents lived with her.

Her german grand father behaved like a man, he built her a play house (which her swedish grand mother wouldnt allow him and his freinds to drink, smoke and gamble in the house, so maybe secretly he built it for himself, but that doesnt matter) he was a posotive masculine role model in her life, and she used to talk about him to me a lot, like a lot. She would always tell me that she wishes I could have met him, and how much he would have liked me.

She also use to tell me many stories about how her mother treated her. It's not good.

However, two things saved her.

1. her german grandfather who behaved like a man.

2. I'm not condoning this, or telling you to believe in this, not sure myself, but she became a Christian. Doesnt matter if this is true or not. What matters is when she gave birth to us, we were the number 1 priority, and she made sure to do the very, very best she could to raise all four of us. She home schooled us. She didnt get a break. We were there 24/7.

But she loved it. She embraced her femininity, this is a real woman. My aunts are like this as well, accept for one, but she is very unhappy. But I wont get into that.

I'll tell you what American Italians, the aunt on my dads side, the brother below him. She is Beautiful, proper, prim, she cooks very well. And when you go to their home, everything is perfect, they are very polite, horderves are plentiful, wine, and type of beer you want. they feed the sh!t out of you.

My aunt cindy. Very feminine, very very. And she is a happy woman.

If I ever need anything. I could go to her. I bet she would chop off her hand to save my life.

Feminine women (not disgusting feminists) are very good, and very precious.

How sad is it, that so many men on here are vrigins, you dont even know how to touch a woman.

Feminism is a disease that needs to be gone. Kill it.
 

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bradd80 said:
Ah the single greatest mystery surrounding women: why they end up with bums.

Women of course claim they want the brad pitt with a great job who makes them laugh and takes them to all the best restaurants, but invariably they always end up with pathetic average-looking losers who mooch off them, live in their house for free, and fvck the brains out of them. And of course, the women always fall madly in love with these clowns.

"but I'm a pathetic loser too" you say. "But I can be an-unfeeling assh0le who doesn't give a sh*t about them either and only comes over to fvck them when I feel like it."

The thing is, the men we here at SS often label as "losers, bad Guys, etc.," they usually have a couple of 'good' traits and that's confidence and perhaps something else such as independence or whatever it is that the women themselves term as "attractive", and as Mike32 pointed out this is not necessarily aesthetically pleasing, but purely what the woman herself finds good looking. It's the confidence or sometimes ****y attitude that women find attractive, women want a piece of that. Women don't want a shy insecure man cowering in the corner, and usually a guy who takes control is enough to make their pvssy drip. But not always, as any guy familiar with rejection can attest.

From a woman's POV, they are captivated by what they consider a hot guy and they often feel that the woman can't get the guy (social proof or standing) so they like that challenge but then they realize that most hot guys take advantage of their gift of exceptional good looks and they begin using all girls since they (1) know everyone will fall for them and (2) they're experienced enough to know just how shallow women really are.

Women can often be heard saying "no you're wrong why would I want a jerk who treats me badly I just want a nice guy" but they almost always end up with a jerk who treats them badly while nice guys are all around them staring them in the face.

It is also because the douche bag guys or bad boys are the overly confident ones who approach girls and are willing to take the risk of being rejected.

The good guys are usually shy, refuse to make a move so they end up losing out. I guess they fear rejection. A girl will never know the good guy is interested if they don't speak up.

If you think you're a confident loser douchebag who does hit on women but still gets rejected, you're still getting nowhere with women because you're either not confident enough or not quite attractive in the woman's eyes for her to date you. Once in a while, always being around her may force her to tear down this wall, for example if you run in the same social circle or work at the same place (ie familiarity).

Who can really tell why women act this way? Personal likes? Past experiences? Differing perceptions? In economics, we call this a black swan event: some things you just can't explain :)
No. We are good fellas, or if not yet give it time.
 

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bradd80 said:
Ah the single greatest mystery surrounding women: why they end up with bums.

Women of course claim they want the brad pitt with a great job who makes them laugh and takes them to all the best restaurants, but invariably they always end up with pathetic average-looking losers who mooch off them, live in their house for free, and fvck the brains out of them. And of course, the women always fall madly in love with these clowns.

"but I'm a pathetic loser too" you say. "But I can be an-unfeeling assh0le who doesn't give a sh*t about them either and only comes over to fvck them when I feel like it."

The thing is, the men we here at SS often label as "losers, bad Guys, etc.," they usually have a couple of 'good' traits and that's confidence and perhaps something else such as independence or whatever it is that the women themselves term as "attractive", and as Mike32 pointed out this is not necessarily aesthetically pleasing, but purely what the woman herself finds good looking. It's the confidence or sometimes ****y attitude that women find attractive, women want a piece of that. Women don't want a shy insecure man cowering in the corner, and usually a guy who takes control is enough to make their pvssy drip. But not always, as any guy familiar with rejection can attest.

From a woman's POV, they are captivated by what they consider a hot guy and they often feel that the woman can't get the guy (social proof or standing) so they like that challenge but then they realize that most hot guys take advantage of their gift of exceptional good looks and they begin using all girls since they (1) know everyone will fall for them and (2) they're experienced enough to know just how shallow women really are.

Women can often be heard saying "no you're wrong why would I want a jerk who treats me badly I just want a nice guy" but they almost always end up with a jerk who treats them badly while nice guys are all around them staring them in the face.

It is also because the douche bag guys or bad boys are the overly confident ones who approach girls and are willing to take the risk of being rejected.

The good guys are usually shy, refuse to make a move so they end up losing out. I guess they fear rejection. A girl will never know the good guy is interested if they don't speak up.

If you think you're a confident loser douchebag who does hit on women but still gets rejected, you're still getting nowhere with women because you're either not confident enough or not quite attractive in the woman's eyes for her to date you. Once in a while, always being around her may force her to tear down this wall, for example if you run in the same social circle or work at the same place (ie familiarity).

Who can really tell why women act this way? Personal likes? Past experiences? Differing perceptions? In economics, we call this a black swan event: some things you just can't explain :)
I didnt join public schools untill 8th grade, i was very shy. In highschool as well.

I was shy but I didnt show it. I had girls chasing me man. One of them had her friend ask me to be her boy friend (so sentimental).

You know what I told that girl? I told her tell your friend to come ask me out herself. She's a model now, in ca, ok but she probably fvcks retards.

One can be shy, with out acting like a woman.
 

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I'm mean this in a compassionate way. But some of you are fvcking retards.

Seriously, its really easy to find a decent female and be with her.

Be a lion,, and her your lioness.

I'm telling. A woman who respects you, will love you, if she love you, she would fight, kill, murder, anything for you. ANYTHING.

Love you guys but sometimes your retarded,
 

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bradd80 said:
Ah the single greatest mystery surrounding women: why they end up with bums.

Women of course claim they want the brad pitt with a great job who makes them laugh and takes them to all the best restaurants, but invariably they always end up with pathetic average-looking losers who mooch off them, live in their house for free, and fvck the brains out of them. And of course, the women always fall madly in love with these clowns.

"but I'm a pathetic loser too" you say. "But I can be an-unfeeling assh0le who doesn't give a sh*t about them either and only comes over to fvck them when I feel like it."

The thing is, the men we here at SS often label as "losers, bad Guys, etc.," they usually have a couple of 'good' traits and that's confidence and perhaps something else such as independence or whatever it is that the women themselves term as "attractive", and as Mike32 pointed out this is not necessarily aesthetically pleasing, but purely what the woman herself finds good looking. It's the confidence or sometimes ****y attitude that women find attractive, women want a piece of that. Women don't want a shy insecure man cowering in the corner, and usually a guy who takes control is enough to make their pvssy drip. But not always, as any guy familiar with rejection can attest.

From a woman's POV, they are captivated by what they consider a hot guy and they often feel that the woman can't get the guy (social proof or standing) so they like that challenge but then they realize that most hot guys take advantage of their gift of exceptional good looks and they begin using all girls since they (1) know everyone will fall for them and (2) they're experienced enough to know just how shallow women really are.

Women can often be heard saying "no you're wrong why would I want a jerk who treats me badly I just want a nice guy" but they almost always end up with a jerk who treats them badly while nice guys are all around them staring them in the face.

It is also because the douche bag guys or bad boys are the overly confident ones who approach girls and are willing to take the risk of being rejected.

The good guys are usually shy, refuse to make a move so they end up losing out. I guess they fear rejection. A girl will never know the good guy is interested if they don't speak up.

If you think you're a confident loser douchebag who does hit on women but still gets rejected, you're still getting nowhere with women because you're either not confident enough or not quite attractive in the woman's eyes for her to date you. Once in a while, always being around her may force her to tear down this wall, for example if you run in the same social circle or work at the same place (ie familiarity).

Who can really tell why women act this way? Personal likes? Past experiences? Differing perceptions? In economics, we call this a black swan event: some things you just can't explain :)
hey brad, you ever been in a fight? have you ever beat some one or been beat up?

You know, I could be a lawyer, that indian woman told me I should. becuase I speak very well. I'm just to lazy to memorize all of that.

Infact, I asked my ex could I be a ceo, she said verbatime "you certainly fit the profile."

That was her being respectful.

She always show me respect, and thats why I cared about her so much. I mean of course she was a little cvnt somtimes, but honestly I was a drunken, billegerat d!ck face to her. Honestly once I spat on her.

Now thats wrong. You dont do that to people. Especialy an innocent little girl, which she was.

Want to fight brad?

Not out of anger or hatred, thats the wrong way.

I promise if you tap out, yell stop, or go limp I will stop.

Why would i Hurt you?

Hoever idk if you ever been in a fight before, but that ****s bettter than drugs or sex. If you win.

Man when you win a fight, you feel like God.

It feels real, real, real good.

Better than sex man.

Even if you lose. Ok that sucks.

But you tried, right?

Go pick a fight brad. Yes you make more money han me, yes your a very resourcful lawyer (haha i typed liar, truley but i used backspace)

Go get your teeth knocked out, our knock their teeth out.

Trust me. You will feel very,very alive.
 

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Just because it pulls tail doesn't mean you should do it. 10 years from now those guys will be working at wal mart while I will be highly involved in my career and with a great woman. Their "attractiveness" only works for so long with immature girls. You should focus on improving your life which doesn't always coincide with pulling tail. My friend posts pics of himself clubbing every day and gets women but in 5 years when he is 40 he will be depressed
 

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bradd80 said:
Women of course claim they want the brad pitt with a great job who makes them laugh and takes them to all the best restaurants, but invariably they always end up with pathetic average-looking losers who mooch off them, live in their house for free, and fvck the brains out of them.
My problem with this statement is when you put invariably in there. That's like saying that women literally always marry guys who are unemployed. Which, as I'm sure you know, is not the case.

You're a catch, Brad. You can't tell me you can't get a woman, and that you're always losing them to homeless types lol. If you are, I have to wonder what kind of women you are picking up and where. ;)
 

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They probably had drugs so girls that smoked flocked to them
 

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Is this only when guys are a certain age in which they are capable of being a bum and getting a girl?
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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