Why getting an attractive Western girl is something special (guy whose dated some)

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Benjaymin

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I want to get a few things clear before I start this thread:

1. I do not believe White women are better than women of other races.
2. I do not specifically prefer White girls, I love sex with girls that aren't white a lot more because it feels better and happens more.
3. I think attractive women come in all races and I have been attracted to all races at some point in my life.
4. We are talkin dimes of all races in this post, not plain janes.

and by the way, we are talking white western women, not white russian or white polish. this is not a race thread, well it kinda is a race thread, but it isn't really a race thread.
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Now that I have got that out of the way. I want to share my story.

I have dated girls from different races, backgrounds, and nationalities. As for myself, I am mixed but most people think I am a lighter complexioned Black male due to the Dominican side of my family. Most people if they were to look at me would think I am Black. I lift, I workout, I dress well, and I have a good education.

After being in long term relationships with different races of women, I started to notice something. Maybe I am the only one but this is what it is.

When I was out holding hands with a woman that was Asian, Arabic, Latin, or mixed, nobody ****in cared.

When I was out holding hands with a woman that was White (especially when I was with blondes), everybody ****in cared. I would get rude stares, disgusting comments, and some of my close friends constantly brought it up.

Lets talk about before the relationship even began, you know, like dating and approaching her and ****.

Most latinas, asian chicks, or any not white girls that looked good who I dated and approached judged me based on my approach, and responded well to my confidence. It was no issue. I never got **** for approaching a cute asian or a cute latin girl.

Most White girls I approached were unreceptive to me at first and I had success with them ONCE I got validation from their social circles and peers. I was judged and analyzed through and through before I was able to even get a date with her. Some of the ones told me later on that when I initially approached them their friends said "did that black guy just approach you?".

I thought it was because I look Black, even White guys went through the same **** that I did. Yes White guys went through that SAME ****.

I had White friends who had to get validated by a good looking White girl's social circle before they could find a way into her pants. Had no idea what was going on but these guys had to go through the sameass **** that I did and a few of them gave up on White girls entirely. At first I thought it was my race but it wasn't, it is just that I was going after the kind of women who have extremely high standards.

So what made these White western girls so different from all these other girls? here is what I noticed after dating them.

Most of these girls (attractive, white, and american/canadian) had everything handed to them on a platter growing up. Throughout their lives the amount of validation they received was even higher than the one that professional athletes get, I kid you not. These girls have been used to getting everything they wanted their entire life. Their parents always told them they were attractive, the best, and if anyone even PUT a finger on them, not only their parents but society (cops, authorities) pretty much took care of that person. These women have the world in the palm of their hands, believe me when I say this, the law does not apply to them, ever.

I noticed this when I was dating this blond who had a rich father. The amount of privileges I got just by being with her were unreal, this girl got away with punching a cop right in the ****in face! I mean she did that **** and a few days later it was like nothing happened.

Something else that separates white girls from their non-white counterparts, I am sure yall can agree on this.

A white girl will bump up her own beauty. You will get plenty of 5/10s that are White, dye their hair blonde, and walk around with the entitlement of a super model. On the flip side you will get plenty of dime pieces that are asian or latin who won't even realize how attractive they are. These girls have not been given the same amount of validation and love as their White counterparts.

So what's so special about getting white *****?

Sexually? Nothing. I prefer Latin and exotic girls over White girls, sex is so much better and comes much more often.

Socially? Everything.

I wondered why a lot of my not white brothers saw getting a white girl as something special and now I know. When I see any guy with an attractive White girlfriend or wife (western not foreign), I know there is something about this guy. Whenever I see a minority with one (and it ain't common at all, no matter where in the USA you go, keyword attractive), I know this guy is something special and most of the times he is.

A guy who isn't White that has managed to date an attractive White girlfriend has

1. Passed all of the barriers American society puts on him because lets be honest, the society does not want an attractive White girl to hook up with Jorge, Chang, or Patel and it will do everything to stop that from happening.

2. Dealt with the **** that comes with dating a girl like that because there is no way in hell people are going to let couples like that live in peace, ever.

3. Something special going for him because not even minorities that make above average salary (mostly asians and indians) get with girls like that.
 

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I skipped after reading the headline and the first sentence so I'm not sure what ur saying but I believe the headline is enough.

Here I go: I'm a Vietnamese who was born in a western country a few teen years back. I have dated both my own race and western girl. The only difference I found was that at the beginning they both felt outsider. When I first dated a Vietnamese she naturally felt outsider because of my living in a western culture my whole life. Then when I first dated a western, she also felt an outsider because of my family and root were from Vietnam. But both has no difference, as far as value is concerned. Both were from 8.5 to at their best, a 9.

Maybe you try to find romance rather than putting their pvssy on pedestal? If you simply are trying to find a mutual love, a balanced romance relationship, you will soon realize that every girl is somehow special in this world. They both have bad and good sides. I have never in my entire life found anything special in putting their pvssy on pedestal, it just makes me more horny, therefore putting their pvssy and body even more on pedestal.

And to make them find you attractive, you need to do all sorta f bull**** to yourself too, therefore even more pedestalizing thei pvssy. People on this forum miss the fact, that they are "doin all King's of torturw for thenawlves to get women's pvssy" and if that is not pedestalizing then what is? You can see in the high school forum how they are conditioned. "Improvement journey" improvement your ass. The only thing they are soon is thinking about women all the time while "improving" themselves. Rather than cutting down women on pedestal, they are making them higher on pedestal by constantly thinking, "the hick will definitely find me attractive after I reach that stage, then when unread that stage, I want more! This is probably a little off-topic but you get my point.

Do not pedestalize western women and you won't find them special. And whatever you are doing here is to "get women" and that is the biggest pedestalizing. Your biggest goal is to get women through this forum and that is the biggest reason you will fail.

A real master of himself is no even aware of his skills - it is absolutely his nature.
 

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Benjaymin said:
Most of these girls (attractive, white, and american/canadian) had everything handed to them on a platter growing up. Throughout their lives the amount of validation they received was even higher than the one that professional athletes get, I kid you not. These girls have been used to getting everything they wanted their entire life. Their parents always told them they were attractive, the best, and if anyone even PUT a finger on them, not only their parents but society (cops, authorities) pretty much took care of that person. These women have the world in the palm of their hands, believe me when I say this, the law does not apply to them, ever.
When someone puts down Black guys, that's racism. Making negative generalizations about White women is not. Got it.

Sure, the law doesn't apply to attractive White women, "ever". So that means if a teenage girl shoplifts in a store the guard won't catch her, as long as she is an attractive White girl. Sure.

Something else that separates white girls from their non-white counterparts, I am sure yall can agree on this.

A white girl will bump up her own beauty. You will get plenty of 5/10s that are White, dye their hair blonde, and walk around with the entitlement of a super model.
And Black women never use makeup, hair extensions and fake nails.

So what's so special about getting white *****?

Sexually? Nothing. I prefer Latin and exotic girls over White girls, sex is so much better and comes much more often.
Another ridiculous generalization.

Wow, Ben. Just wow. You sure have a lot of bitterness and jealousy in you. Go back to this in five years and read it again, see if you have grown in the meantime.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Some girls may not fvck you, or fvck me, but they will fvck some one. I see so many white girls with a non-white guy.

This race **** is so dumb, I don't care if your indian, or black, or latino. If you have enough of the value that she loves, she will be interested in you.
 
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