Why does she act like this around me?

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This girl used to or I think had attraction towards me. She used to give me smirks, gaze in my eyes, etc. I ask her out last summer when she was acting cold and distant, I ask through text and got rejected with the bf line , "Awe sorry but I honestly have a bf" I respond "that's fine" and move on but we continue to see each other in this new college around campus. She started to glance at me little by little I guess acknowledging me . There was one time I was waiting for the bus listening to music and she walk pass me, she turn to look at me and had neutral/ sad face. I don't how to respond to it so I keep ignoring it and minding my own business. But now she keeps doing these glances sometimes when nearby, if we are walking face to face we will look straight or to the ground or she will glance quickly. We never had physical social interaction and I only text through snapchat couple of times until she rejected me. She walk with her friend and look at me from afar but quickly look at her friend when we pass each other, today she look at me and quickly look down

I never seen her with guys at campus or pics of a guy/ reference on social media, is mainly hangout with her friends. Her behavior just bugs me caused I'm not doing anything weird just minding my own business. There's times when she ignores me and other times looks at me, etc. I don't know why she keeps acting like this since she rejected last summer, I'm cool just enjoying life but man I keep seeing her each semester of school and she always acts like this and it bugs me
 

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Why would you ask her why she's cold and distant if know exactly what the reason is?
Low interest.

Ask yourself, would she be distant if you were DiCaprio?
 

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Why would you ask her why she's cold and distant if know exactly what the reason is?
Low interest.

Ask yourself, would she be distant if you were DiCaprio?
I understand but why give me sad faces and glances if she has low interest wouldn't she stop giving attention as a whole?
 

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a female that is interested will never leave you confused. you're confused. she's not interested.
she's probably trying to turn you into an orbiter by confusing you and making you think of her
guess what? it's working
 

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I'm cool just enjoying life but man I keep seeing her each semester of school and she always acts like this and it bugs me
You're not "cool and enjoying life". If you were cool and enjoying life, this would not even register in your brain. Instead, you are making a long, girlish post on a forum about it. You probably have no options and if you keep on acting the same way, you're not gonna have them for a long time to come. Snap out of your dream world where you're "cool and enjoying life". How are you enjoying life? By obsessing over some random chick that can confuse you by just looking at you a couple of times?
 

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a female that is interested will never leave you confused. you're confused. she's not interested.
she's probably trying to turn you into an orbiter by confusing you and making you think of her
guess what? it's working
Took the words out of my mouth.
 

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This girl used to or I think had attraction towards me. She used to give me smirks, gaze in my eyes, etc. I ask her out last summer when she was acting cold and distant, I ask through text and got rejected with the bf line , "Awe sorry but I honestly have a bf" I respond "that's fine" and move on but we continue to see each other in this new college around campus. She started to glance at me little by little I guess acknowledging me . There was one time I was waiting for the bus listening to music and she walk pass me, she turn to look at me and had neutral/ sad face. I don't how to respond to it so I keep ignoring it and minding my own business. But now she keeps doing these glances sometimes when nearby, if we are walking face to face we will look straight or to the ground or she will glance quickly. We never had physical social interaction and I only text through snapchat couple of times until she rejected me. She walk with her friend and look at me from afar but quickly look at her friend when we pass each other, today she look at me and quickly look down

I never seen her with guys at campus or pics of a guy/ reference on social media, is mainly hangout with her friends. Her behavior just bugs me caused I'm not doing anything weird just minding my own business. There's times when she ignores me and other times looks at me, etc. I don't know why she keeps acting like this since she rejected last summer, I'm cool just enjoying life but man I keep seeing her each semester of school and she always acts like this and it bugs me
Is this another thread about this girl?

Read what Sazcs put. Read it again.
Now take the advice i gave on the other thread about this girl.

Withdraw all attention. I repeat withdraw all attention. Go meet new girls. Next.

Stop fishing in an empty pond.
 

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I understand but why give me sad faces and glances if she has low interest wouldn't she stop giving attention as a whole?
No. Keeping you on a string, keeping you confused, keeping you spinning your wheels and scratching your head feeds her ego.
 

FwoGiZ

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Ya I think she's hoping for attention but not the D.
I'd still try and pitch a date or two with her... 3 max. If no sex after 3, I'd bail out.
If sex but she keeps confusing you, by being on and off all the time, bail out.
 
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