Why do you think its so much easier as a gay man or lesbian?

[HardTimes]

So all you DJs out there... why do you think that in our society it is very easy to get a partner/lover as a homosexual? If you're a guy in a gay bar you will get hit on and ravaged all day. If you're a lesbian in a gay bar its the same way. Post a m4m ad on craigslist and your inbox is blowing up, same with w4w.

I did some experiments just to see by post a m4m and w4m craigslists ad, very very basic with no pics.

Wow, you woudn't believe the HOT girls that responded to my w4w ad. Almost al the girls attached a pic and some even sent phone numbers in the first email, its nuts how many emails blow up my inbox for w4m.

m4m is the same way but even more than w4w. Didnt open any emails thought didnt wanna chance seeing **** pics.

So why do you DJs think that is? It seems as if I was gay i'd have ZERO PROBLEMS relationship wise and I'd never be sexually starved for the rest of my life. Too bad im not into guys.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Evolution? Lesbians dont get other lesbians pregnant, nor do queer dudes. It makes sense that girls dont f*ck a bunch of dudes due to the risk of having a kid and bering the responsibility entirely on their shoulders. Sooo...it makes perfect sense actually. Critical thinking skills are amazing and only $50k.

 

[Maxtro]

Yeah it is very odd that it words this way.

Man 4 Man: Easy
Woman 4 Man: Easy
Woman 4 Woman: Easy
Man 4 Woman: Hard

For some reason that only thing not desired out of the above is a straight man.

I think the reason gay guys are able to find partners so easily is because all men want sex. If women thought about sex the same way that men (straight or gay) do then nobody would have problems getting laid at all.

The W4W thing may seem odd at first but it's not. Some women just switch from being the submissive to dominant, or from the chasee to the chaser. Those types of women also exist among straight women but they are few and far between and are vastly outnumbered by the men looking for them.

It would be interesting to do an actual study. Make 4 posts one for each listing; m4w, m4m, w4m, w4w. Make sure each add goes to a different mailbox/folder and after a certain number of hours do a final count.

My prediction would be that the w4m folder would have the highest number of responses which would be a staggeringly high number. The next highest would be m4m. Then fallowed by w4w. Far in last place would be m4w. I wouldn't be surprised if the m4w got zero responses.

 

[Furyguy]

Here's my logic on this:

Homosexuals make up about 10% of the U.S. population. That means a gay man or gay woman can only choose from FIVE per cent of the population when it comes to finding a lover. Compare that to the 50% straight people get to choose from.

That in mind, they have to ****ing pounce on anything that comes their way simply because they can't afford to let an opportunity go by when opportunities are so few and far between.

My other thoughts: members of a specific social group seem to inherently like other members of that group, or at least believe they WILL like other members of that group, without really getting to know them first.
Ex. "I am a cop. Joe is a cop. Joe is like me. Therefore, I like Joe."
"Joe is a rugby player. I am a rugby player. I know Joe and I will get along even though I do not know Joe very well."


I don't know if this is true or not regarding homosexuals. They are my own theories and logic. But it makes sense to me.

 

[DJDamage]

Here's my logic on this:

Homosexuals make up about 10% of the U.S. population. That means a gay man or gay woman can only choose from FIVE per cent of the population when it comes to finding a lover. Compare that to the 50% straight people get to choose from.

That in mind, they have to ****ing pounce on anything that comes their way simply because they can't afford to let an opportunity go by when opportunities are so few and far between.

Homosexuals make up only about 3-4% of the population. Don't let the media fool you.

Our brain has been programmed for over millions of years to ensure that we attempt to get the best partner available for mating to better ensure our offspring survival. The losers don't get to mate and do not pass on their genes.

Therefore things to this day stay fickle due to the very fact that both males and females have their own agenda's and high stakes thrown into the mix.

As for the homo's and the lesbo's, no baby is going to come out of this (a dead end) so it basically comes down to deviant pleasures and therefore everything is out in the open ( literally).

 

[Rhoto]

Gay people are rich and good looking.

End of story.:crackup:

 

[HardTimes]

It would be interesting to do an actual study. Make 4 posts one for each listing; m4w, m4m, w4m, w4w. Make sure each add goes to a different mailbox/folder and after a certain number of hours do a final count.

My prediction would be that the w4m folder would have the highest number of responses which would be a staggeringly high number. The next highest would be m4m. Then fallowed by w4w. Far in last place would be m4w. I wouldn't be surprised if the m4w got zero responses.

The m4w WILL have zero responses guaranteed if its just a standard post with no pictures. I can get responses from the m4w section w/o pictures only because I'm a loser and I've perfected the art of craigslist postings to make the interesting/weird enough to get a response. Doesnt get me anyhere most of the time since most of the stuck up hos bail after we trade pics... see my other thread for those details

 

[Jitterbug]

There are no anti-slut defense, no sex-as-a-bargaining/power-tool in the case of the homosexuals. They already have the reputation of being sexual mavericks in society so they have no bullsh!t restriction on hookups unlike us heterosexuals.

 

[HardTimes]

That in mind, they have to ****ing pounce on anything that comes their way simply because they can't afford to let an opportunity go by when opportunities are so few and far between.

I dont know man that seems like bull. In the gay district in my town there is plenty to choose from. Yes gays may be only 10% of the US but they aren't so scarce you have to grab one as soon as you find one. It's just that for some reason they make it easy on themselves while with the man/woman interction the woman (or women in general) man it very hard for us guys. Just think about it, why does this site even exist in the first place? Is there a site for how to pick up gays? :crackup: Hell no.

 

[Captain]

It should be quite obvious: men are slvts.

 

[horaholic]

Think about it. When a gay guy walks into a gay bar, almost EVERY person in there is a suitable candidate for at least sex. Its like when a hot chick goes anywhere. She can basically have ANY guy in the place. A gay guy in a gay bar gets to be the hot chick. Theres no competition either. If two gay guys want the same other gay guy, they can just all go home together and have a threesome. Same thing with lesbians. Damn it sucks being a straight guy sometimes. Actually, no it doesnt. It's just harder.

 

[GQ_Confidence_1]

I haven't thought about this, very interesting.

A couple of theories...

-Many lesbian/bi women are bored with men. Tired of the games, drama, cheating. Tired of the losers. Women tend to be highly emotional and spur of the moment (of course generalizing). A sizeable percentage of the w4w are there for something fun. I'd guess half, 75%. Thus, the girls leaving the boys inboxes and running to the girls inboxes.

-Gay guys tend to be considered "safe" (I know, generalizing again). The stereotypical gay man that has many female friends. They consider him, "safe", one of their own, easy to hang around and be with. Better than girl drama. Other gay guys may have a "radar" for that safety. That instant magnet pull you see with a gay guy/female friends.

-Gays and lesbians are more themselves. Not to make fun, but when I look on sites like this, or on seduction clips on youtube (and the comments). Half the guys in the world dont have a working brain when it comes to women. Straight guys might be more analytical, more prone to look up, lists, stories, routines, and over analyze everything to death. Hard to imagine that happening in a gay or lesbian bar.

-"One of the group" theory. "One of us". You'd certainly get that more in a gay bar, vs straight. A sense of commonality.

Most US nightclubs or bars are too fractured for that. You have a million different groups and agendas.

-Agree the no baby theory for les/bi. Some women want fun and dont want to think about the consequences, morning after. So, that'll draw some women from the straight bars/clubs to the les/bi.

-Some level of scarcity. That's one of Robert Cialdini's (the book Influence), one of his main persuasion points. We're wired to desire scare objects (i.e. advertising...limited time sale, limited editions, etc). There's a scarcity with m4m and w4w. The internet has changed the way m4m meet and hook up, same with w4w.

Or if the guys are on spring break from middle america, going to nyc, la, vegas...it might be one of their few chances to go to a gay/bi bar. "Gotta get it now". And that might be half the people in the bar!

m4w have been boxed out of the game by media garbage, and this computer/internet generation...no one knows how to do anything outside anymore.

But there are probably other reasons....because m4m and w4w are so high.