why do women do this?????

[themainevent]

OK I do alright been hanging out with the ladies on and off
BUT their is this ONE. I asked out she dissed me (She would say yes to dinner then bail out later) I liked her and she knew it whatever ,No big deal right.
Anyway this girl is a 10 no doubt we have the mutial friends so when I see her I am nice to her. I won't call her /text message ext. a couple of weeks pass and BAM she starts text messageing my cell sometimes a respond sometime I don't. She never gave me the just friends speech never mentions other guys to me. Why does she want to stay in touch with me??????
ONce a week she will text message me and sometimes call this has been going on for about 2 months now????\
MY friend tells me I am her plan B guy I laughed But it could be true?
has this happened to anyone else before or something similar???????

 

[warpy]

just be the BOSS, sms her to come over to your place the same night she sms's you. something like "be at my place tonight" she will have to reply somehow, dont get emotional over her she is probably teasing you, but if this works out you will have her. keep in mind that if she ask why just reply "because thats what i said" "you have got your orders" "just because".

cheers man

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Women do that kind of thing because guys keep putting up with it. It takes at least two people to play a game and she knows that you are usually a willing partner.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Women do this because you continue to reinforce her attention seeking behavior by rewarding her with just enough to affirm her attention based self-image. It's no surprise this girl is an HB 10; she's used to a lot of attention and from many varied sources.

 

[penkitten]

in simple terms: you give her a big ego boost when she needs it.

if she isnt going to go out with you, stop giving her the ego boost.

 

[themainevent]

she does get alot of attention but
I tell her when her hair looks bad and how it should look when I beat her in any form of compitition I will do a victory dance
As of now I ran into 2 weeks ago and she will text mesage me thurdays or friday morning like clockwork.she will have some random message but she wants me to go where she hangs out on friday and I have not been there in or 7 weeks.
Rollo I dunno how I am rewarding her like I said before sometimes I respond sometimes I don't. If I see her I don't always say goodbye to her now only if shes in the way of the door.

FranciscoI am not putting up with her crap anymore granted I did before and think she noticed the change I don't come a running to where she is if she gives me a message saying hi

penkitten By telling her how her hair looks( good or bad) is that a ego boost?granted I have not said it in over a month and if it is what would be a good solution. I just don't say anything now.

 

[penkitten]

penkitten By telling her how her hair looks( good or bad) is that a ego boost?granted I have not said it in over a month and if it is what would be a good solution. I just don't say anything now.

yes, because it means you took the time to notice her.
good job by keeping quiet about things you notice about her when she isnt noticing things about you. bravo! you are a fast learner.