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Why do older women pursue me aggressively?

bigdave17

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and im not talking about just ugly ones or single moms or anything like that...I've had some very cute women in their mid 30s who had good jobs, nice bodies, no kids, smart, classy, etc... who pursued me aggressively. I have a female customer of mine who is a very sexy 35 year old right now who is constantly flirting with me

Is this just a question of them being desperate? why doesn't the 25 year old version of that approach me same way? Do they just have way more options so I'm not as impressive??
 

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Do you love attention more than you love fuhking? Most women are like that.

I think you just admitted the root of all of your problems.
 

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and im not talking about just ugly ones or single moms or anything like that...I've had some very cute women in their mid 30s who had good jobs, nice bodies, no kids, smart, classy, etc... who pursued me aggressively. I have a female customer of mine who is a very sexy 35 year old right now who is constantly flirting with me

Is this just a question of them being desperate? why doesn't the 25 year old version of that approach me same way? Do they just have way more options so I'm not as impressive??
Because how you present yourself your more attractive to that . The 35 years old can even be built better .

You have a responsible look about yourself. The 25 years old expects fashions and mannerisms of a 25 years old. So less responsible and more trendy.

Btw life is weird . If your always looking at and attracted to one type, the other type will be attracted to you.

Let some of the more attractive ones who are into you give you sex.
 
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Nice bodies, classy not sure what else you need. Forget about gf for now. You don't have enough ladies yet. It ain't a lady to you unless she spread her legs.
 

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You like the attention more than the result...you're very feminine and that explains why you can't get any women coming your way.
 

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You like the attention more than the result...you're very feminine and that explains why you can't get any women coming your way.
if any of them were dateable (mid 20s and Spanish/Middle Eastern/Italian/etc...), I would date them instantly
 

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all older women are kind of desperated even when they are not and even when they are not looking for relationship (either they lie, or its true, but they still want attention from you)
 

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all older women are kind of desperated even when they are not and even when they are not looking for relationship (either they lie, or its true, but they still want attention from you)
Be calm with your attention . Make an opportunity for sex to happen. That's how they should receive your attention.
 
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