why do I never see C&F used in real life?

[TheChosenJuan]

anybody else notice this? It seems like we're the only ones using it. none of my friends, or any guys at the bar use it.

they just have normal conversations with girls and genuinely seem nice. they still get numbers and get laid.

so whats the big deal here?

 

[SleepyRangerMedic82D]

No big deal at all.. I think C&F also means teasing or joking around with aka flirting.. Don't overanalyze things just be confident and not afraid to joke around with her..

 

[Duffdog]

Most guys who would visit this site would not be in a position where they would ever see it. The guys who are naturally ****y and funny are out getting laid and doing cool things with other guys who also get laid, not people who visit PUA websites. Most likely you aren't in that social group, thats all.

 

[Captain Harlock]

almost all the 'cool' guys use c&f. It's basically what most people view as 'cool'.

 

[drewsg]

C&f?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

****y & Funny

You probably have, you just didn't recognize it as such when it was happening.

 

[Bible_Belt]

You probably have, you just didn't recognize it as such when it was happening.

Exactly. It's the same whether you've known a girl ten seconds or ten years.

 

[zekko]

Nah, I've definitely seen guys who just use it naturally, it's just part of their personality. Not all of them are big hits with women either. You have to bring something else to the table other than just being C&F - that alone isn't going to do it for you.

 

[Jblitz59]

My best friend who has the a whole school of girls wanting him, does ALOT of this site's advice naturally. I saw him high fiving a girl but not looking at her so as to pressure her and talking to the rest of the group. She high fived him and was having fun. I saw this and even heard this technique before and i know he just learned this by himself.

he also LOVES To take up his space and get comfortable. And he is incredibly funny/ ****y. loves to dance and is experimentive with new things.
He is so popular because he just does what he feels like and when the few people question it he asks whats the big deal? and makes them feel stupid.

WHEN you're a fun personality, people are gonna try to mimic you to capture the fun you are having.

 

[Hughman]

****y and Funny and Negging are really teasing.

Acting cool, confident, busting on the girl because you can and find pleasure in it (as will she subconsciously)

Most (well, guys that get laid anyway) people do it naturally, on instinct.

 

[Soprano]

its just being cool

 

[comic_relief]

My best friend and I had a double date recently to the camp ground by the creek with our two girls that we are seeing.

We were both doing c/f the entire night. It was awesome.

-comic_relief