Why do I feel strange asking women out or if they're single on cold approach?

[Deicide]

This is one of my sticking points. I usually feel strange asking stranger women out on dates or if they're single. I think it may be from my history of never showing interest to a woman, which didn't get me laid till I was 22. I don't feel weird at all asking women that I'm more acquainted with out on dates or if they're single though. It's just with women that I cold approach, especially in daytime. Because in night game, I really don't give a f*ck about anything unless they're with their boyfriend or husband, as I'd rather not get assaulted. But beside that, I'm just trying to pull during night game. Day Game is different though for me.

I can ask women if they're single if I put it into my head to do so beforehand. But if I don't do that, I mentally struggle to do it.
But I'm approaching to get laid, not to have some fun little conversation, so I have to go through fear and uncomfortable things, which I happen to hate.(I hate nervousness, fear, and getting out of my comfort zone).

So what could be making me feel some sort of strangeness or possibly shame, for asking a woman out during the daytime, or if she's single?

 

[r0cky]

Its how the mind works.

If you think about approach and seduction long enough it becomes strange, because your mind makes it appear so, not because it is.

You just have to accept it as part of how your mind works, curtesy of social programming.

Think too much about it and it seems akward. Best strategy is to not think about what will happen, and in regards to what already happened, try to not see in a negative light and just take out the positives and the lessons, then move on.

 

[Deicide]

Its how the mind works.

If you think about approach and seduction long enough it becomes strange, because your mind makes it appear so, not because it is.

You just have to accept it as part of how your mind works, curtesy of social programming.

Think too much about it and it seems akward. Best strategy is to not think about what will happen, and in regards to what already happened, try to not see in a negative light and just take out the positives and the lessons, then move on.

Ok, sounds like the mind is the no. 1 enemy when it comes to pick-up and seduction then. I just have to blot out the bs it will try to give me. My mind throws 4 or 5 types of anxiety at me if I even think about cold approaching. Crazy.
Yes, I don't feel negative or bad after cold approaches, even if they weren't so good. I just accept it for what it is and keep on moving.

 

[EvilAgenda]

Well, you can phrase "Are you single?" in a better way.

For example, "Your boyfriend must be here somewhere, you are too cute to be by yourself." She will either laugh and say her bf is blah blah. Or she will smile and say she is by herself, which means she is single.

And asking women out on dates during day game is self-c0ckblocking. She is OUT ALREADY. Just have a date with her right then and there.