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Why Do Females Snitch On Themselves?

soulforge

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I have seen this alot over the years, especially with Slores who claim they are looking for a long term relationship.

They will often say the most off putting things, which absolutely ensure that they will get permanently assigned to the recreational use only category.

It's almost like they don't give any thought about what comes out of their mouths.

My theory is, that they don't ever feel the need to EARN or WIN a man's commitment.. They feel entitled to the commitment no matter what impression she gives off about herself.

I believe this behaviour is rooted in the fact that they have too many options.

You're average man is very very careful about what comes out of his mouth, as he could mess up his chance with her, and likely not get another date for possibly months on end.. Therefore men are very focused in giving her a good initial impression.

Imagine attending a job interview, for a prestiges firm. You rock in one hour late, your chewing gum. You give the most absurd answers to the interviewers questions, and you expect to be given the position at the end of it.. This is modern day females.

I have had females tell me about cocaine use, being damaged by watching porn at an early age, sleeping around alot, having childhood trauma, being in debt. Leaving their husbands over the most silliest things.
 
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plumber

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it depends on who is instigating the connection. is she filtering or or you filtering.
 

Bokanovsky

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It's almost like they don't give any thought about what comes out of their mouths.
No need to overcomplicate things, you’ve already answered your own question.

Most women just can’t help themselves. That’s why you don’t even have to ask any specific questions. Just give them a chance to talk about themselves and everything you need will come out in a wave of verbal diarrhea.
 

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Some girls self project: they get attracted by guys who are able to sleep around and think they can be attractive by claiming the same

Some girls do it because they don’t see you as relationship material just casual (if you slept)

Some girls do it if you’re so deep in the friend zone
 

Solomon

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I have had females tell me about cocaine use, being damaged by watching porn at an early age, sleeping around alot, having childhood trauma, being in debt. Leaving their husbands over the most silliest things.
Funny this is similar to the thread I made a month ago. I think personally it's a combination of things. However primarily women that are dealing with unresolved issues hence it manifests in different ways i.e. weed addiction, alcoholism, promiscuity etc. IMO the faster you know what the baggage is the faster you can act accordingly. I rather know right away then 6 months down the road. Ain't no way I'm dealing with a woman who does the powder, I don't care how hot she is, but it's more common than people realize (especially with young or hot chicks or both). Also I notice women who are in heavily debt also tend to be highly depressed. In 2025 on to the next
 

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I have seen this alot over the years, especially with Slores who claim they are looking for a long term relationship.

They will often say the most off putting things, which absolutely ensure that they will get permanently assigned to the recreational use only category.

It's almost like they don't give any thought about what comes out of their mouths.

My theory is, that they don't ever feel the need to EARN or WIN a man's commitment.. They feel entitled to the commitment no matter what impression she gives off about herself.

I believe this behaviour is rooted in the fact that they have too many options.

You're average man is very very careful about what comes out of his mouth, as he could mess up his chance with her, and likely not get another date for possibly months on end.. Therefore men are very focused in giving her a good initial impression.

Imagine attending a job interview, for a prestiges firm. You rock in one hour late, your chewing gum. You give the most absurd answers to the interviewers questions, and you expect to be given the position at the end of it.. This is modern day females.

I have had females tell me about cocaine use, being damaged by watching porn at an early age, sleeping around alot, having childhood trauma, being in debt. Leaving their husbands over the most silliest things.
You're over thinking it.

When you stop giving a **** if they like what you have to say or not all of the sudden she starts looking at you as an authority figure.

If she doesn't, she wasn't that into you anyways, when she gets mad dismiss her, don't engage, ignore her anger and indignation.

Often that is just a **** test to see she can make you bend to her will.
 
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