Why are we scared of women?

[Ashlee Angel]

The reason most of you guys came to this site is to better understand women.

Alot of us were once scared of rejection from a woman.


We talk about guys being AFC's and losers and punks.

But women have so many fvcking things they are ashamed of it's not even funny.

They are never happy with themselfs. For instance" My breast are too small"

They don't tell their weight.

"My nose is too big". " Does this dress make me look fat"?

They first of all they don't think they are skinny enough, breast are big enough, smart enough.

They have so many vice's.

What I'm trying to get across is don't be afraid of these b!tches.

It's a man's world.

 

[jwhite17]

I completely agree with you Ashlee,
I think so many men on here are afraid of women because they haven't been successful(not all of course) with women which explains why they are here. We are also afraid of women because we never learn how to act around women from misguided social programming some of us learned as we grew up.

This site is a step in the right direction for most of us if you take action and apply some of the stuff you learn here. Furthermore, from all the cold approaches I did, none of the girls reacted negatively, they all seemed flattered that I had the balls to approach them. So, there is nothing to be afraid of except you have to get rid of your own personal insecurities with women because it holds you back from the success you desire.

 

[Blaaaaat]

I think the risk of emotional pain is a great factor for this so called "fear". This in combination with a possible ego beating can hold a lot of the guys back.

 

[Starman]

yup.its the fear of rejection..not women themselves..

I get nervous at Job interviews, school interviews, presentations..mostly for fear of rejection..but scared of women ?

BAHAHAHAHHAHAH

they are white fuzzy little rabbits and Im a ferocious Tiger! RAWWWR!

 

[Helter Skelter]

Originally posted by Ashlee Angel
The reason most of you guys came to this site is to better understand women.

Good LucK there!


Seriously, understanding male and females better, you could write 50 books on that subject.

People are married 50 years and still don't understand each other.

Every little bit helps though.

 

[crackhead]

Originally posted by Ashlee Angel
It's a man's world.

... but it don't mean nuthin, nuthin

without a woman or a girl

 

[bugsquish]

Fear is exciting, let yourself embrace it. Amen

 

[Don Rageta]

to quote the late great Peter Vanckman

"I ain't afraid of No Ghost"

oh yeah women either.

 

[Drow]

You shouldn't come to this site to better understand women. You should come here to better understand yourself as a MAN. You'll waste a lot of time if you are trying to understand women.

Be a MAN, embrace your sexuality, get rid of your fears. Understanding the male mind is more important. Women's minds are a wreck. I don't want to go there... Men are logical, women are... emotional.

 

[Kwah]

The girl Im with right now thinks her tits are to small. I love em, anything more than a mouthful is a waste I say.

 

[marqZAL]

think the risk of emotional pain is a great factor for this so called "fear".

I am not afraid of girls, I am afraid of serious relationships because of the whole pain factor. Its hindering for me!!

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by marqZAL
I am not afraid of girls, I am afraid of serious relationships because of the whole pain factor. Its hindering for me!!

Sounds like you need to learn to trust yourself in that you will be able to live through pain if it happens, you probably have in the past. Don't let your fears keep you from living.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by Kwah
The girl Im with right now thinks her tits are to small. I love em, anything more than a mouthful is a waste I say.

mmmm little teets, i would like a go at a chick with little tits, ive never had one under a C cup .
ive heard the bigger the cans the dumber she gets , and i must say im starting to believe it.

 

[comote]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
mmmm little teets, i would like a go at a chick with little tits, ive never had one under a C cup .
ive heard the bigger the cans the dumber she gets , and i must say im starting to believe it.

The last girl I dated said this, she is a d-cup and is getting a phd in math. But overall I agree that it is true, did you ever see that southpark where that chick started growing tits.
By the way Ashlee, great post

 

[Wong Fei Hung]

I was afraid because I got an abusive mother. She used to hit me with a broomstick and a bamboo stick. I am no longer afraid of her.

I think it is our society and the entertainment industry. I am still learning to be a DJ. Many thanks to all the members here.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Kwah
The girl Im with right now thinks her tits are to small. I love em, anything more than a mouthful is a waste I say.

yep nothing like sweet little tits. when the chick gets older they won't sag and it;s the flaw that makers her perfect. If she had bigger tits she might be to stuck up about herself.

 

[Luscious]

Originally posted by Kwah
The girl Im with right now thinks her tits are to small. I love em, anything more than a mouthful is a waste I say.

Whatever floats your boat, man.

All I gotta say is that my girl has more than enough to go around, if you know what I mean. I love 'em.

Different strokes for different folks...

 

[Player_Supreme]

Your post is pure gospel. I used to be terrified of women.

 

[squirrels]

I still fear them...at least the initial approach.

The idea of cold approaches (no eye contact) is frightening because you're essentially interrupting her stream of consciousness without any invitation or indication, so there's a lot of pressure on you to "be excellent" in that situation. I find it easier to talk to women when they say something first...I have a real problem with cold approaches.

I know I shouldn't give a f--k...doesn't instantly make me feel that way, though. I went out to a local bar I like to frequent last night (it was "Ladies' Night") and I swear when I got there, the place was PACKED, and I must've been the only guy in there. Got eye contact from at least 4 or 5 girls, but never approached. (until later on, after a few drinks...which went surprisingly well )

 

[sux2bu]

I am on a high that no drug could ever give -- It's called confidence in not fearing rejection. Develop this skill and the world will beat a path to your door.