Why Are There so Many Misanthropes on this Forum?

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.

Instead, all of the threads are about "women are evil" "how to dominate/AMOG other men," "how to hit it and quit it," "next her," and a whole host of other idiotic threads all based upon the assumption that all human relationships of any kind are inherently evil and destructive. It seems this place has become an echo chamber of misanthropes and guys who are super bitter and lonely.

Let's stop with this toxic bullsh-t and try something constructive for a change.
 

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.
I've seen threads on a few of these topics. I've definitely seen one on making friends. Making new friends is more difficult post-graduation of whatever education level is your highest level of attainment.
 

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.

Instead, all of the threads are about "women are evil" "how to dominate/AMOG other men," "how to hit it and quit it," "next her," and a whole host of other idiotic threads all based upon the assumption that all human relationships of any kind are inherently evil and destructive. It seems this place has become an echo chamber of misanthropes and guys who are super bitter and lonely.

Let's stop with this toxic bullsh-t and try something constructive for a change.
I don't think anyone here hates people dude.
 

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group,
Try utilizing the forum search feature. A search for ‘social circle’ returns more posts than you can read in a week. You’re in a large library, but you have to find the books you want to read…
 

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.

Instead, all of the threads are about "women are evil" "how to dominate/AMOG other men," "how to hit it and quit it," "next her," and a whole host of other idiotic threads all based upon the assumption that all human relationships of any kind are inherently evil and destructive. It seems this place has become an echo chamber of misanthropes and guys who are super bitter and lonely.

Let's stop with this toxic bullsh-t and try something constructive for a change.
good, continue to do it. those that are interested will join with you and if its enough will cause the change. don't get discouraged, just keep focused on providing the real solutions you suggest. often men talk about pain and never find a leader or become one that can effect positive change. telling how to do things instead of just telling them to do it is always helpful.
 

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.

Instead, all of the threads are about "women are evil" "how to dominate/AMOG other men," "how to hit it and quit it," "next her," and a whole host of other idiotic threads all based upon the assumption that all human relationships of any kind are inherently evil and destructive. It seems this place has become an echo chamber of misanthropes and guys who are super bitter and lonely.

Let's stop with this toxic bullsh-t and try something constructive for a change.
I actually noticed the same thing. I've been reading a lot of these threads and responses and it seems like posts that you would think woul d have some reasonable conclusions turn into something where I literally scratch my head and wonder who hurt some of these people?
 

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A lot of guys here genuinely believe that the best way to keep a woman is treat her like trash.

Just show up when you want to fvck her, leave immediately after, then ignore her for 3 weeks until you’re h0rny again.
Well even in the thread where someone says a girl asked him to bring some friends with to a social outing, everyone acted like as if she said the worst thing in the world. I felt like I was one of the only people who thought "wow thats such a reasonable thing to ask". I've had friends ask guys they just met the same thing too. It's like instead of think of the possible reasons why a girl might ask that, ie: as simple as they want to meet your friends and see what your social group is like, people acted like this girl was manipulating him, trying to troll him, trying to use him, or all this negative stuff.
 

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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.

Instead, all of the threads are about "women are evil" "how to dominate/AMOG other men," "how to hit it and quit it," "next her," and a whole host of other idiotic threads all based upon the assumption that all human relationships of any kind are inherently evil and destructive. It seems this place has become an echo chamber of misanthropes and guys who are super bitter and lonely.

Let's stop with this toxic bullsh-t and try something constructive for a change.
You apparently don't read very well. There are hundreds of threads about self improvement, which many of us preach.
I think you're attention whoring.
 

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Well even in the thread where someone says a girl asked him to bring some friends with to a social outing, everyone acted like as if she said the worst thing in the world. I felt like I was one of the only people who thought "wow thats such a reasonable thing to ask". I've had friends ask guys they just met the same thing too. It's like instead of think of the possible reasons why a girl might ask that, ie: as simple as they want to meet your friends and see what your social group is like, people acted like this girl was manipulating him, trying to troll him, trying to use him, or all this negative stuff.
This is a forum about seduction, not about how to hang out with girls that have zero interest.
 

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OP is clueless and ignorant by choice. Even hypocrite.

Nobody goes to McDonald's to order sushi, the same way nobody goes to SS to discuss what is beyond the art of seduction and the art of understanding the sexual dynamics between male and female. Because THESE are the very reasons they came here in the 1st place.

In short: People come "here" for "burgers" & "fries," hence they didn't order "sushi." Deal with it, instead of questioning why they didn't want anything other than burgers & fries.
 
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I see no threads (aside from my own and threads which plagiarize mine) on how to make friends, how to get a girlfriend, how to create social circles, how to become part of a hobbyist's group, etc.

Instead, all of the threads are about "women are evil" "how to dominate/AMOG other men," "how to hit it and quit it," "next her," and a whole host of other idiotic threads all based upon the assumption that all human relationships of any kind are inherently evil and destructive. It seems this place has become an echo chamber of misanthropes and guys who are super bitter and lonely.

Let's stop with this toxic bullsh-t and try something constructive for a change.
Agreed. But it does start with you, so instead of calling people out which never works, be that change and write constructive posts about different subjects.


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Although to newbies, the hostile environment that you describe can seem like that's all it is but if you dig deeper or have been on here awhile, you'll know there are various things discussed that you've mentioned.

Unfortunately at the current time, there is ever more entitlement of girls, male weakness, male thirst and a general shift in power dynamics that threatens males. And I suspect this is the reason why you see more activity on these types of topics.

As usual, most internet forums tend to focus on and talk about the negatives. It's pretty common IMO. It may not be necessarily right but it's par for the course.

If you don't like it, there are always other forums like:


You may like it better over there.
 

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OP is clueless and ignorant by choice. Even hypocrite.

Nobody goes to McDonald's to order sushi, the same way nobody goes to SS to discuss what is beyond the art of seduction and the art of understanding the sexual dynamics between male and female. Because THESE are the very reasons they came here in the 1st place.

In short: People come "here" for "burgers" & "fries," hence they didn't order "sushi." Deal with it, instead of questioning why they didn't want anything other than burgers & fries.
McDonald's now sells sushI? Who would had thought....
 

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A lot of guys here genuinely believe that the best way to keep a woman is treat her like trash.

Just show up when you want to fvck her, leave immediately after, then ignore her for 3 weeks until you’re h0rny again.
“the issue is that you treat those who you lovin’ with the same respect of those you humpi’ “ - Jay Z
 

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I asked for some wings... it seems no one plays League Of Legends or has VR.
 

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When we talk about Game, betas think "Oh yeah, I play World of Warcraft, bro"

When we talk about Pick-Up, betas think "Oh yeah, health pick-ups in Doom. Need a hundred health pick-ups before I take on the Cyberdemon"
sorry? You just said hobbies right?
 

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