Why are some guys invisible?

[NeedToImprove]

i mean guys that arent ugly monsters but they just dont make the difference.

Not even the ugliest ones will give them a compliment. Dont you guys think that is somewhat strange?

I'm talking about my experience online, in Facebook and Netlog but thats just an example, the same thing happens in the everyday life, street, mall...

Guys that aren't ugly but that arent interesting at the same time. In my case i dont even have time or oportunity to say or write them something, the lack of a click is evident. Ive been tempted to ask them whats wrong but i think thats shows desperation.

 

[SharinganUser]

You make yourself invisible. Show some pride in yourself.

 

[chinwaggler]

What are you on about?

 

[Groovy]

I'm going to suppose some stuff that man, I have no idea if this is true or not, I'm just typing out of my head!!

Neutrality- They aren't anxious, they aren't confident, somewhat neutral in well being, they're not enthusiastic, kind of dead, they're PALE, DEAD, NO LIFE IN THEM!! That CREEPS me OUT!! How can someone NOT have a LITTLE passion for life?! What about more boldness, more facing fears, more getting out of comfort zones? More ENERGY? Yeah, that's the kind of guy I want to meet! Not saying everyone should be like this, but at least getting out of the comfort zone would be a good helpful start that actually would lead to better happiness\confidence, personal growth!

Next, I could say that they don't have any individuality, but dunno how to back that up, it's just a idea that comes into my mind that for some reason seems true.

I'm editing this to remind y'all of something: If you do CONFIDENCE in your actions, you're going to feel more attractive. There's no reason to fear making mistakes, so do stuff with some passion, enthusiasm into it! It's FUN! And I bet it's magnetic. Plus you'll find out that the tone matters more then anything. The emotional energy behind the words matters a lot more then the actual words. Oh well I supose I don't have to keep on with this.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Goddamn, youre a bunch of fag nerds

 

[daygameguy]

i mean guys that arent ugly monsters but they just dont make the difference.

Not even the ugliest ones will give them a compliment. Dont you guys think that is somewhat strange?

I'm talking about my experience online, in Facebook and Netlog but thats just an example, the same thing happens in the everyday life, street, mall...

Guys that aren't ugly but that arent interesting at the same time. In my case i dont even have time or oportunity to say or write them something, the lack of a click is evident. Ive been tempted to ask them whats wrong but i think thats shows desperation.

OK. All of you complaining about uglyness, or lack of confidence, or any other limiting belief, need to listen to Sean Stephenson's talks on DD seminars or elsewhere. Check those out, and clear the crap in your head.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mo6jUXEpECI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MztUPT6NG54&feature=related

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

You make yourself invisible. Show some pride in yourself.

+1.

Whatever happens is YOUR fault.

You can walk more confidently , be more laud , have more fun and have the "i dont give a fvck" attitude and your image would change. Also , being sucker , value taker , needy , creepy wont help.

 

[Groovy]

Goddamn, youre a bunch of fag nerds

One of the biggest thruths I have yet to read is that if a person has a high self esteem, he finds it almost impossible to bring a man down- they just have lots of love and hapiness to share!! Those mean people who give cruel insults are here to take, not give. If you are in a mission to take away self esteem from others, there must be something else going on for you.

So people who give cruel insults are low in self esteem. Sorry mate, I had to teach you this one the hard way... Bring some joy into your life!! :cheer:

 

[oakraiderz2]

One of the biggest thruths I have yet to read is that if a person has a high self esteem, he finds it almost impossible to bring a man down- they just have lots of love and hapiness to share!! Those mean people who give cruel insults are here to take, not give. If you are in a mission to take away self esteem from others, there must be something else going on for you.

So people who give cruel insults are low in self esteem. Sorry mate, I had to teach you this one the hard way... Bring some joy into your life!! :cheer:

Ok, so im getting told by a 17 year old who knows the psychology of people who are mean. I think the majority of the people here 98% are a bunch of douchebags, cause they are. You dont even know me and you cant base my happiness off of ONE post on a forum with a bunch of geeks who are afraid of girls. I actually couldnt be much happier with the way everything in my life is going, so once again, check yourself.

 

[Alphamale1821]

Ok, so im getting told by a 17 year old who knows the psychology of people who are mean. I think the majority of the people here 98% are a bunch of douchebags, cause they are. You dont even know me and you cant base my happiness off of ONE post on a forum with a bunch of geeks who are afraid of girls. I actually couldnt be much happier with the way everything in my life is going, so once again, check yourself.

lol this guy here :kick: :moon:

Ha as for geeks i certainly never, nor never will be a geek. I come here to give these "geeks" as u call them sound, genuine advice. Psh the truth is once i go back to school in January i won't even be on these forums, but for now it's entertainment.

AS for invisible most of the guys hit it already, but i must add in that you have to live, or at least try to stand in some way. Don't follow trends, create trends. Be a leader, figure out your own path in life, and if it's to fuuck as many women as possible, if that is your drive for for life then your not getting what i'm saying. You need to find something that truly motivates you everyday.

For me my passion in life is music, so no matter what women may come into my life or what situation i may get myself into, i'm always chasing my passion and pursuing my dream ALWAYS, and women see this and the love it. I don't even have to tell them i'm a musician, but when you "have it" they can see it. Your like a shinning light in a cave of darkness. You walk with a Aura of light, people can sense your prescience when you walk in the room and they know that their is something "different" about that "guy"

You would think this would be simple, but in the society controlled by media and corrupt business and politics the important info and truths we need to know is being suppressed and it's much harder to realize the truth about some things. Men have always been natural hunters, leader, and ones of action. Yet their has always been chumps to, and the men who are chumps are the ones who never utilized their balls. They just played life "real safe" never leaving their comfort zone. Sure they may be financially secure, but have they ever been in love or ****ed a women, and if they did happen to sex a women, how long was she around for. How many hundreds and sometimes thousands of dollars did this guy have to blow, before he got blew and eventually blowed out.

So many guys have this whole system so messed up. I don't sarge chicks I talk to chicks who i feel may be worth my time, company and sex. A chick i can have a genuine good vibe, connection with and who i can have great sex with. I don't use routines, dress like a queer with makeup on my face or bring toys out with me. I generally say what i want to say because i'm just being me. I'm not thinking about kino and **** like that. I simply go out relying on my passion and inner confidence. I know i'm a high value male and i don't need to realize or some routine or worry of the outcome with a women. It's her pleasure to be with me, I just simply appreciate them.

So instead of worrying about being invisible, routines and other PUA bullshiit imo(no offfense) try to focus on your life and where you want to be. Think of a time when you were a child and think of a passion you once loved or still haved but negelected for whatever reason. Maybe it was someone saying stop dreaming and live in reality, or maybe it was societys conformist rules. Who knows but who cares. It's your life. Are you destined to work a 9 to 5 and retire at the age of 55-65. Or do you want to take charge of your life pursue your passion and LIVE on your own terms.

Lastly keys to not being invisible just remember CIFS(Blackdragon from MASF)
Confident
I don't care
Funny
Sexually agressive

Having that attitude by far will change your life. If you like to touch women do it naturally and from a fum playful stand point. The one thing i've learned is women, love to have sex and love to have fun. They just want a Confident, passionate guy who comes from that reality to bring her in. It's just an adventure man live it up or sit it down. Your choice. I'm reaching for the highest height and i only Stop when i'm dead. No matter what.

 

[scottfall]

I think the majority of the people here 98% are a bunch of douchebags, cause they are.

If the posters here dont meet your expectations you should stop visiting the boards. But you wont, because you are just like 98% of the posters here.

 

[oakraiderz2]

If the posters here dont meet your expectations you should stop visiting the boards. But you wont, because you are just like 98% of the posters here.

Haha ok. Youre soo right, i have trouble getting girls and post mundane questions that are virtually irrelevent instead of putting in work and improving myself. Obviously youre offended by my comment. Some of the stuff on here just pisses me off and i went a little crazy, albeit i was drunk. Anywho, dont act like you know anything about me good sir.

 

[skEwb]

You see what oakraiderz2 did here, 1 simple damn word got so many minds going and thinking about him. Is he invisible? He just taught you how to be visible.

Takes one to know one, but women love *******s. I play both sides have tried the nice side and it seems that the a$$hole side drives em nuts just as much as the smooth laid back side. Once you've mastered both sides then you'll see the light.

 

[oakraiderz2]

You see what oakraiderz2 did here, 1 simple damn word got so many minds going and thinking about him. Is he invisible? He just taught you how to be visible.

Takes one to know one, but women love *******s. I play both sides have tried the nice side and it seems that the a$$hole side drives em nuts just as much as the smooth laid back side. Once you've mastered both sides then you'll see the light.

****in rep for you. Hahaha, im glad you wrote that sh*t :rockon:

 

[chinwaggler]

Some of the questions asked here are pretty stupid.. but people are on here to improve themselves or help others so not everyone is going to be perfect.. c'mon.

I still don't understand what this thread is about as well

 

[coolf1r3]

Goddamn, youre a bunch of fag nerds

He's just mad because my Patriots kicked the crap out of his Raiders.

47-7, baby. Get owned.:crackup:

 

[oakraiderz2]

He's just mad because my Patriots kicked the crap out of his Raiders.

47-7, baby. Get owned.:crackup:

I dont like the raiders, buddy o.

But i was a little harsh...sorry.

Dont cry.

 

[DJVladdy]

the question asked by the OP:

seems like a "greepy nerd" type question. Or call it mental circle jerking.
We have a guy who comes out and says "stop asking stupid irrelevant questions"... and you all are ready to jump on him for saying what should have been said.

Another thread on the forum "DO UGLY GIRLS GET LAID ALOT"???
Are you people serious..?

A guy (L777) made a thread about saying even if you are not a genetic speciment, you can still come up in the game...
and guess what? 10 pages of people ARGUING with him!

P.S. Groovy, some people (including me) have been not taking you seriously. It's not because anyone dislikes you - you seem like a good guy, but you are not getting the respect you'd like over here (or also perhaps in life) - because you try to TEACH people without knowing enough. You are a kid who is pretty much a loner (no offense, I just remember some of what you said in your earlier posts) - and you think that you know something that we don't already know about life, and you try to teach other people, older than you, when you have no experience yourself.

You, me, everyone can raise up in the game - our focus needs to be in the right place. Be honest with yourself every minute, of every day be honest with yourself and ask yourself: why am i doing whatever im doing - the more frequently the better. Also if I were you, I'd drop those little cheerleader signs in your posts.

The only people who cant improve in the game are people like caped crusader, nonameok, those punks, but let them rot.. until they snap out of it.

 

[Groovy]

Yeah you'd be right on that one! Every time I don't get treated seriously, it's because I'm too excited when I go out, and I just say whatever is on my mind, most of the time without thinking much, and sometimes I have to admit I prefer not saying anything, altough I do know I say stupid stuff once I say it, but I never really pay much attention to that.

Thanks for that post man! So i admit you're spot on, tough that post would have helped tons tons more if it were, lets say, two month ago, tho it must also apply to other folks too. Anyways I can FEEL stuff getting more and more into place, I really think I'm nailing it!! But yeah, that last post was crap, I'll keep helping others only when I know I can help, trying not to post juts cuz I'm bored or so, even if it's just re-writing stuff I read before that helped me.

When I really learn something I wanna say it in here this is the most helpful place I EVER been in!

I'll make a goal to think more like a 17 year old and perhaps give less attention to posting in this boards for a while (that i don't seem to need at all anymore) and I'll come back as soon as I know I really can back up what I say. Also because this boards are too "left-brained", too much logical information, what I really need is something to make my imagination running wild, like some humor boards or something like that, and that would also apply to half of the guys in here too? (Just advice)