why are girls *****es to some guys and to others they treat with respect?

[lamobatsman]

How you avoid being the guy that shes a *****? and rather be the girl shes not a ***** to?

And why does a girl act like a ***** to one guy and yet acts completetly different to another guy she likes? would you still date a girl with ***** traits?

 

[Greasy Pig]

I choose not to be around those sort of women. Therefore, they can't be b!tchy towards me.
If a woman is b!tchy towards me, depending on what mood I'm in and how many drinks I've got on board, I have no hesitation in negging them into submission.

If she refuses to submit, I just walk. It's only happened to me once from memory. A chick criticised my clothing at a horse race meeting. I playfully negged her about her outfit in front of her friends. They were all laughing their heads off but this b!tch just lost it.
Resorted to name calling and anger. I just laughed in her face as you would a five-year-old girl and walked off as she yelled out insults.

B!tchiness comes from lack of respect. To gain respect, I first show it to others. If they do not return the respect, I freeze them out, ignore them, move away.
Chicks will tend not to be b!tchy to guys they find attractive unless they're trying to run some sort of neg game themselves.
If she doesn't think you're worthy of her vag, she'll probably be a bit of a shrew towards you.
But true DJs can turn a shrew into a lapdog with a few choice words and a look in their eye. Don't allow yourself to be drawn in to petty name calling and crass insults.
I - and I'm sure a few of the brothers here - could recount tales of copping attitude from some broad and then being balls deep in her arse three hours later, purely because you showed them they are nothing.

My favourite move back in my sarging days would be to cop a spray from some entitled trash woman, look at her deep in the eyes, breath in as if I was going to say something and then turn my back.
This drove them insane. By not taking their bait, a lot of these women then feel like they have to qualify themselves to you. They'll either call you a prick and leave, or they'll keep trying to get your attention.
Depending on what mood I was in, I would either politely tell them to leave me alone or I would use false qualifiers to lure them in to my web and try to fvck them.
There's no need to be concerned about b!tchy women. Just ignore them and let their bullsht bounce off you as if you were a rock.
Don't try to placate them, don't try to argue with them, don't stoop to name calling. Simply neg them and/or turn your back.

 

[Mike32ct]

Depends on if they're attracted to you or not, or if you're in their clique or not.

^This.

 

[ScottMustaine]

http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-tell-if-girl-horny-without-her-having-tell-you


Look at the other threads. I found this.

 

[sambwoy]

Depends on if they're attracted to you or not, or if you're in their clique or not.

Yeah thats true. On discussions about looks, some female posters talk about creating 'hotties only' groups, filled with non-existant hot guys, everyone else need not apply et al. That's why I find it hard to trust or have confidence in talking to single young women.

Perhaps its my low self esteem or lack of backbone talking, or the aspergers, but women within this group can be cruel. I already feel I'm on the reject pile and haven't even got to know them. Its bad enough that Hollywood created images of hot guys to make average American guys feel insecure, but living in Britain I get affected by it too, because over here they love the Hollywood fantasies.

Its not realistic to follow, for instance, Ryan Reynolds' workout plan because surely he's been partially helped by genetics. I think I fall in the ectomorph type who is tall and thin but struggles to bulk up.

 

[Mike32ct]

Yeah thats true. On discussions about looks, some female posters talk about creating 'hotties only' groups, filled with non-existant hot guys, everyone else need not apply et al. That's why I find it hard to trust or have confidence in talking to single young women.

Perhaps its my low self esteem or lack of backbone talking, but women within this group can be cruel. I already feel I'm on the reject pile and haven't even got to know them. Its bad enough that Hollywood created images of hot guys to make average American guys feel insecure, but living in Britain I get affected by it too.

They are cruel. I'd love to sound more positive, but it's reality.

 

[lamobatsman]

so girls respect you if you are attractive guy?

 

[floydb25]

so girls respect you if you are attractive guy?

In regards to *****es: only until they gain enough control, feel comfortable in their standing with you, (ie, know that they "have" you), lose their infatuation, and/or their interest goes down. *****es are only nice when they want something (ie, your interest), or are trying to gain your favor. If she's mean to everybody but you, and the few (usually *****y) friends who can tolerate her **** ass, your turn is right around the corner. The ***** is her true self; the fake niceness is a charade to win you over.

The abusive ones don't / can't even hide it well. They're just straight up *****es to everyone. Try to destroy your self-esteem and keep you dependant on them through control and manipulation. Lots of mind games, mixed messages, threats, teasing, guilt trips, insults, etc... pretty much from the jump. They're also aggressive, bossy, demanding, dominant, promiscuous, and insane.

Someone who's kind and respectful is this way to everyone - not just those they deem "good enough" for as long as they are attracted to them. *****es are also usually judgemental, condescending, critical, stuck up, and have high standards. Not to mention, snobby, rude, selfish, disrespectful, shallow, fake, etc. Low class - while viewing themselves as high class. Kind of like all those wanna be gangsta's, douche bags, and swag losers who think they're "cool", and better than everyone else - when they're really just worthless and should die. Same thing. Their simple minds only go as far as their useless existance. So, because they're retarded, they think "hot" and unavailable = in-demand and worthy of respect. But they don't have any genuine respect or class, so its more like not horrible behavior.

 

[sambwoy]

They are cruel. I'd love to sound more positive, but it's reality.

It seems to be that because they aren't attracted to you, it means they can be condescending towards you. These 'pretty boys' can have a line of women to fall back on if things go belly up.

Seriously when I am in public and in social opportunities to meet women I really despair. I hate having such limited aspirations and expectations, but its what was given to me.

It's hard to be positive. I'm in my mid-20s and elders complain that people my age and younger are pessimistic and negative regarding careers, further education et al. But perhaps some are sad because they are missing something actually intimate and satisfying, particularly young guys, after all, it has been said that girls get laid easier. They've had to sacrifice their wills and agendas for their elders, but never have time for themselves.

 

[zinc4]

Is Wayne Brady going to have to choke a b&tch?

Seriously, some b&tches just need to slapped silly.

 

[nismo-4]

Depends on if they're attracted to you or not, or if you're in their clique or not.

READ THIS AGAIN!!!

 

[Crazystarf]

It's best to avoid girls who are being *****es to you. It will save you a lot of time and sanity

 

[BadNews]

Depends on if they're attracted to you or not, or if you're in their clique or not.

While I agree with you, I think these are both fairly obvious reason as to why a woman would show you respect.

These situations aside, there are other was to have the respect of women. Some men command respect - not just from women, but from everyone in the room. THIS is who you want to be. Forget about gaining the respect of a hot chick, you should be able to obtain the respect of every single man and woman when you enter a room. Command respect - this is different than demanding respect.

How?

You can start by respecting yourself. Easier said than done you say? Slap yourself!

You need to realize who you are as a person, and what you have to offer. You are someone of value, for numerous reasons which make you the MAN that you are.

You do NOT have to be handsome, wealthy, or popular to command the respect of others (although those qualities obviously would help.) You DO, however, need to value and respect yourself. If you can't own the fact that you are an amazing person who deserves the respect of others then you will get none. If you don't respect and value yourself, you don't deserve it from anyone else either.

 

[sambwoy]

While I agree with you, I think these are both fairly obvious reason as to why a woman would show you respect.

These situations aside, there are other was to have the respect of women. Some men command respect - not just from women, but from everyone in the room. THIS is who you want to be. Forget about gaining the respect of a hot chick, you should be able to obtain the respect of every single man and woman when you enter a room. Command respect - this is different than demanding respect.

How?

You can start by respecting yourself. Easier said than done you say? Slap yourself!

You need to realize who you are as a person, and what you have to offer. You are someone of value, for numerous reasons which make you the MAN that you are.

You do NOT have to be handsome, wealthy, or popular to command the respect of others (although those qualities obviously would help.) You DO, however, need to value and respect yourself. If you can't own the fact that you are an amazing person who deserves the respect of others then you will get none. If you don't respect and value yourself, you don't deserve it from anyone else either.

Despite my own social circles in my part of Britain, where most aren't models and have their own shortcomings/hurdles, guys are still scaled by women by looks. It drives me nuts. I've been made to feel like an undesirable loser/failure through most of my youth that I am now getting professional help.

 

[Nick@how2seduce.com]

Never let anyone disrespect you... No matter if its a girl or a guy.
People treat you the way you think of yourself and respect yourself. With a strong confidence and inner game people feel it, and no matter if she finds you attractive or not, she wont be a B** towards you if she feels like you are a REAL MEN.

Trust me on this one buddy. In the end if she is, don't be afraid to call her out on being a b... Don't have to use exact word, but let them always know you aint taking nobodies crap .