Who sees escorts?

[svencandy]

I visited two escorts. First one was Suzy from Columbia on December 4, 2014 in the evening (actual time of encounter has faded from memory and I just have an outline). The cost was $ 60.00. I danced with her nude. I smelled her body. Felt her hair. Felt her naked breasts on my breasts. I hugged her tight, I squeezed her bum tight and started kissing her all over her face (cheeks) and smelling her face and hair while hugging her up while she was nude. She sat on my lap. She had a cinnamon olive complexion and was voluptuous with a large bum. I refused to take off my underware. She asked me if I wanted to *** her and I refused. She took off her panties and bent over but it still would not get hard.

AFTER_EFFECT: There was no tangible after effect. This was a gateway drug. There was only a desire to see a more slvttier escort so see if I would get hard and explode.

Dec 5, 2014 before midnight. Visited Bianca. It was actually accidental since I intended to visit someone else, but she came on the scene and said she was busy. I'm not going to go into detail with this, but I would say this went too far. Same cost, $ 60. I handed three green $20 to her. She let me use the washroom first (I had to pay her before using their washroom).

Near the end of the session, I felt like a spiritual snake from the prostitute bit me, or felt something "off" just after orgasm next to the prostitute. (didn't go inside her and shifted her to the side so she could not insert her vag on top of my c0ck).

(Before visiting Bianca (she was from Brazil and was there for two months (as she claimed) -- I told her she was the second prostitute I visited but didn't go into detail with her about the Columbian prostitute I talked about previously)

AFTER_EFFECT: Full blown demonic panic attack the next day. Unable to eat, sleep, drive, thoughts running while, felt I worshipped the devil by dealing with that last prostitute and needed an exorcism. Felt nauseated and almost like throwing up. Could not look at movies, could not masturate, could not enjoy coffee, pancakes with maple syrup, or eat anything. Felt like something was trying to take my soul, or part my soul was lost to this prostitute. Could not drive on the same street area where the incall was located as I felt I'd be vortexed into another dimension. Have not visited another prostitute since this time.

Some Horror movies I've seen since then was called "It Follows", 2014. (watched on netflix last year - didn't see it before visiting these escorts or getting these panic attacks) Not to lesson what I experienced, this movie certainly has aspects of what I experienced. Something follows you and you can't get rid of it easily. I'm just glad its gone now.

My mom helped me through this time and we both called out on Jesus Christ for Him to get rid of that demon(s) that followed me from that escort and tormented me that month. I thank Jesus that I'm doing great today!

You are a *****.

Those demons are not from her, they are your own demons and she unleashed them for you as a teacher.

Not eating? Called fasting, if you aren't 10% body fat you shouldn't be eating.

I'm glad you shared this with us, but the demons you experienced were not from her, they were from her unlocking the chains that you have placed around your demons

 

[SW15]

@John9999
Also, you are in your early 50s, so those around your age are married, and the ones that aren't are probably not particularly attractive and don't do much for you, which is totally understandable.

This is accurate. @John9999 was 52 at the time he posted this. Let's consider the realistic options for a somewhat typical 50-55 year old man.

Most 50-55 year old men cannot get a woman more than 5 years younger than they are. A 50 year old man is likely to get a 45-50 year old woman. The typical 45-50 year old women has children between 12-22. She has visible signs of aging. It's a lousy deal. Additionally, since there's not much of a bar scene for older people, a 50-55 year old is relegated to using Match or OurTime to hit on similarly aged women, although the swipe app scene is increasing in this age group now. A 45-50 year old is heavily pursued either on Match or the swipe apps.

Some 50-55 year old men can get sex/relationship from social circle game but that's no guarantee. Also, social circle game is based on a variety of factors, some of which are out of the 50-55 year old man's individual control.

A 50-55 year old man would likely enjoy sex more with even a 30-35 year old escort than a woman who is within 5 years of his own age.

A 50-55 year old man will either have to pay directly for sex or indirectly for sex with women 10+ years younger.

 

[corrector]

This is accurate. @John9999 was 52 at the time he posted this. Let's consider the realistic options for a somewhat typical 50-55 year old man.

Most 50-55 year old men cannot get a woman more than 5 years younger than they are. A 50 year old man is likely to get a 45-50 year old woman. The typical 45-50 year old women has children between 12-22. She has visible signs of aging. It's a lousy deal. Additionally, since there's not much of a bar scene for older people, a 50-55 year old is relegated to using Match or OurTime to hit on similarly aged women, although the swipe app scene is increasing in this age group now. A 45-50 year old is heavily pursued either on Match or the swipe apps.

Some 50-55 year old men can get sex/relationship from social circle game but that's no guarantee. Also, social circle game is based on a variety of factors, some of which are out of the 50-55 year old man's individual control.

A 50-55 year old man would likely enjoy sex more with even a 30-35 year old escort than a woman who is within 5 years of his own age.

A 50-55 year old man will either have to pay directly for sex or indirectly for sex with women 10+ years younger.

Most escorts or a significant percentage are 19-24 years old. Why would anyone limit to 30-35 years old? Same thing being a sugar daddy. Why go with 30 if you can go with 20?

 

[2rings]

I lack knowledge about escorts.
A while back i tried finding one online and it was a total headache trying to figure out what was a scam and what wasn’t.

some of the ads were asking over $1k per hour.
There’s so much about the escort world that i am clueless about

for some reason it is difficult to navigate and I have no idea what websites are legit and even if i got an escort i do not know any of their lingo and I don’t want to get scammed or robbed or doxxed

My guess is many escorts do those things and it’s crazy drama

at least a few of my ex gf’s probably had times when they were hookers and never outright told me about it, but we had normal relationships and i never paid them

Same thing with exotic dancers. The few times i have been in strip clubs it is no mystery to me the women just wants $$$

 

[bat soup]

It hurts your attraction outside of the escort interaction. So you can handicap yourself if you use it as a primary form of sex.

That's just a theory made up by keyboard jockeys who (by their own admission) don't have any experience themselves. Or by PUAs who would rather take the money themselves. Nobody is going around advertising the fact that they see escorts.

Until someone does a real experiment, where they spend 1 year banging escorts on a weekly basis and the next year not doing so and comparing their success rates with regular women, there is no evidence for any of that.

 

[SW15]

That's just a theory made up by keyboard jockeys who (by their own admission) don't have any experience themselves. Or by PUAs who would rather take the money themselves. Nobody is going around advertising the fact that they see escorts.

Until someone does a real experiment, where they spend 1 year banging escorts on a weekly basis and the next year not doing so and comparing their success rates with regular women, there is no evidence for any of that.

Very few men would be able to run that sort of experiment.

 

[bat soup]

If I'm travelling to Hong Kong from Kuala Lumpur with the explicit reason just to have dinner with a client, I'll hire the best escort in KL and have her accompany me to seal a good deal.

There's a lot of uses for a high end sophisticated escort, effectively disarming a client and making him more opened to my suggestions.

In the end Spaz always win.

I doubt you'd find much of interest in KL and why waste your money on paying for a whoare to travel? A stopover in Saigon on your way from KL to Hong Kong would be my suggestion.

 

[bat soup]

Very few men would be able to run that sort of experiment.

Exactly. Even if they did it, they wouldn't make it public. The people you hear preaching about this stuff are the people with zero experience. Do you think rich and famous people are going to do TV interviews talking about this?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Did two of them in separate occasions about 12 years ago, the summer I was separated from my now ex wife. The first one was a hotel room Asian and the second was a single mom who came up to my apartment in mid day and looked exactly like you’d expect with the tight dress, heels etc. never really had the urge after that. I was in my late 20’s

 

[Gamisch]

That's just a theory made up by keyboard jockeys who (by their own admission) don't have any experience themselves. Or by PUAs who would rather take the money themselves. Nobody is going around advertising the fact that they see escorts.

Until someone does a real experiment, where they spend 1 year banging escorts on a weekly basis and the next year not doing so and comparing their success rates with regular women, there is no evidence for any of that.

I know PLENTY of dudes who do this ,and he actually does have a point. But you also have a point. The truth is somewhere in the middle.

One guy had a little scam going on and made some dirty money. With money in abundance he became a regular at sex clubs. He would talk about it openly. At some point he even started hanging out with the prostitutes outside of work.

So in this case;
- he fecks every week. Hot women.
- hangs out with hot women. So practices game on a regular.
- he preferred that there was no obligation to a woman,no fights, sexless periods not getting cheated on ect.
- questionable quality of women. But so are tons of women on OLD and in clubs. Heck, most men won't be able to tell whether the women they meet in those places are actually prostitutes in real life.
- if he gets a gf, she won't ever know about his past.
- it did cost him tons of money though. Eventually he got caught by the police, and soon as he goes back to a "normal life" this lifestyle becomes financially unsustainable.

Its a certain type of guy that does this. Mostly unattractive but yet streetwise type of guys, that don't wanna deal with women's "feelz". They make their money talk.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

It is simple to me...

Having to sexually please a woman requires me to have to work...and sometimes I just wanna sit back, get some head, get my nut off, and that's that.

I can pay a hooker/crackhead between $20-$30 to blow me, at which she will be more than willing to GET THE FUK out of my sight after that with no other expectations besides a money transaction.

So I can get my nut off without wasting time and/or energy...nor having a bytch lingering over me afterwards.

I dont have sexual intercourse with them, just a quick blow & go for a couple dollars.

Yeah, it is totally worth it.