who goes for the first kiss

[wildchild]

I have a few questions here for all you don juans out there.

Recently my don juan skills have been fantastic thanks to all the help from sosuave.com and from the newsletters but now i have a few things to clear up.


When a girl goes to kiss you is it best to refuse first time ( i feel it is because it builds tension)and how many times should u refuse

also if a girl dosnt go to kiss you is it better for you to just try and kiss her.

also if you go back for a one night stand whats the best thing to do in the morning after it if you wanna see the girl again?

thanks

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by wildchild
When a girl goes to kiss you is it best to refuse first time ( i feel it is because it builds tension)and how many times should u refuse

Don't. Just kiss her back. Play games later.

also if a girl dosnt go to kiss you is it better for you to just try and kiss her.

Yes

also if you go back for a one night stand whats the best thing to do in the morning after it if you wanna see the girl again?

I wanna do this again sometime.
How about we do it again sometime?

Thanks

Np. Isn't the rocket science.

 

[wildchild]

hehe thanks for your infor but dont you think if you let her kiss you right away it may reduce your chances of getting her in bed?

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by wildchild
hehe thanks for your infor but dont you think if you let her kiss you right away it may reduce your chances of getting her in bed?

No, I don't think so.

 

[bignick79]

No way, if anything it will increase your chances!!

Big Nick

 

[JasonR]

Originally posted by wildchild
hehe thanks for your infor but dont you think if you let her kiss you right away it may reduce your chances of getting her in bed?

I'd say it would hinder your chances, theres no mystery in a man that kisses right away.

The best thing to do, is when she leans to kiss you, turn your cheek and let her kiss your cheek.

That way you didnt point blank refuse it, you just believe that a girl has to earn a kiss, and she is no different.

 

[So Many Ways]

Originally posted by JasonR
I'd say it would hinder your chances, theres no mystery in a man that kisses right away.

The best thing to do, is when she leans to kiss you, turn your cheek and let her kiss your cheek.

That way you didnt point blank refuse it, you just believe that a girl has to earn a kiss, and she is no different.

This is absolutely false. Don't spread misinformation like this. What is OK is to break off the kiss early to build up anticipation. Turning your head though just sends all the wrong messages. Don't do it.

 

[JazzPimpNYC]

If there is real chemistry between you two that night, it will happen naturally. You have to abandon the formulaic and methodical approach and let instinct take over.

I agree with So Many Ways; If its time, its time. Although I also know what Jason is saying and I've done something similar that totally amplified the energy. I was sitting on a girl's lap (whom I met not even an hour before in the park, her girlfriend sitting on my lap) facing to her right with my right arm around her back near her neck, and in between our laughing and having fun I would bring my face really close to hers for a second and then take it back, and I did this maybe 2 or 3 times when our lips just met. I guess it worked

 

[Porky]

Well, there are several criteria for whether or not you should refuse a kiss.

1) the angle. If she's coming at you from a 90 degree angle or less, turn your face 1 inch to the right for every 10 degrees. If she's coming from above a 90 degree angle, go for it.

2) hair color. brunette = reject, blonde = go for it, redhead = ask her to wait a sec while you flip a coin/call a friend.

3) weather. If it's during the daytime, refuse her. If it's at night, go for it, because she will look way more attractive than she is.

4) how long you've known her. One week + = go for it. If you've known her for less than a week, leave. you'll see her in a few years or so and she will remember that you refused her kiss and probably shag you on the street or in the coffee shop or wherever the hell you bump into her.

you can't fail if you follow these.

 

[Walden]

I do!

It's possible to over game yourself too

 

[JT47319]

The best way to respond is kiss her passionatly, then push her back and say, "We shouldn't do this in public."

That way, she's getting hot, but she also knows that you aren't a male slut and thus it doesn't get HER ASD shields up. Proceed to make out with her periodically and push her away. Push pull, pull push.

She knows that you want her, she knows that she wants you, but her she'll also know that you have standards and won't get buyer's remorse later on for acting like a slut.

 

[1hepcat]

Originally posted by JasonR
I'd say it would hinder your chances, theres no mystery in a man that kisses right away.

The best thing to do, is when she leans to kiss you, turn your cheek and let her kiss your cheek.

That way you didnt point blank refuse it, you just believe that a girl has to earn a kiss, and she is no different.

Don't do that shyt. If she goes to kiss you, by all means let her! My GF kissed me first and I'm still dating her 10 months later. She just pressed her lips to mine for a couple of seconds. I smiled and we parted ways. Next date I kissed her a couple of times during the date, and at the end we made out for about 5 minutes straight.

You can certainly "over-game". She'll take it as an insult or at best think you don't like her. That won't do you good.

 

[jakeyboy]

when u first kiss her back.. it shows that you have interest in her. you dont want to send her away when you try to resist her. by initiating the kiss, she has already shown a fair bit on interest in you. why worry? i'd worry more if she didnt initiate the kiss.

 

[white_hype]

when a girl kisses me first (assuming i havent hooked up with her before) i kiss a little then pull back... then i go back in for the kiss a little later, this builds huge tension

not kissing her basically tells her you dont like her/want to kiss her, dont be an idiot and ruin sh1t that hasnt happened yet

 

[wildchild]

Its not being an idiot or ruining your chances if you show the girl you do like her by saying something like im not that easy in a funny kinda way or we can see to that later this also builds tension.

 

[Don Corleone]

use C&F

yeah i think your on the right track. maybe try..."are you trying to take advantage of me?" or "wow, your really head over heals for me arent you?" or "I usually charge $20 per kiss, but for you ill make an exeption...only $10"

you need to kiss her eventually, but be ****ey and Funny. Let her know that just because she wants to kiss you the world doesnt stop. Its no big deal, play it off like you could care less. Like my friend David D says, take 2 steps forward, 1 step back.

kiss her and when she wants to do it some more, stop her and use C&F. Then after your making out, and she tries to take off your shirt, take a step back again. be like "im not that kind of guy" with a grin on your face. keep it up and youll be hittin' it in no time bro