Which is harder, when they still have feelings for you or when they've lost all?

[Fela Kuti]

Hi, guys. Just a short question here. Which situation is easier for you to get over a breakup: when they still has some feelings left but for some reason you can't be together, or when they've lost all of their feelings for you and leave you coldly?

 

[HBK]

No feelings, and leave coldly. Well thats me.

 

[thebrownman]

No feelings, and leave coldly. Well thats me.

Same here. Especially if she broke up with you. Time to move on.

 

[Fela Kuti]

Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered.

for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first, but later I can just say "well, funk her. it's her lost."

 

[Htienvu]

Most of the time the girl pretends there's feelings left but for some "reason" it won't work out. Different smell, same shiet.

 

[AlexDP]

Sorry the question in the title is different from the question in the post. So I don't know to which question you guys answered.

for me it's harder when they still have feelings. because it keeps giving me hope, and that slows down my recovery. but when they left us coldly, it hurts at first, but later I can just say "well, funk her. it's her lost."

No. No feelings is much much harder because it can shatter every ounce of confidence you might have had in yourself. It also makes you question yourself as to why you'd be involved with someone so heartless in the first place.