Which conversation topics work best for you? (No pickup lines or simple greetings)
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AlexTheGreat
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This is a lame thread. Zero effort. Talk about whatever you want and feel like talking about.
My conversations are very situational so "topics" in particular don't matter since you just go with the flow.
My conversations are very situational so "topics" in particular don't matter since you just go with the flow.
On_the_Top
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Maybe you should ask yourself...
Do have have the social skills to hold a decent and clear conversation with anyone I meet?
That being said; does the person whom you are speaking with have the same ability?
If not either practice your social skills or move on...
Do have have the social skills to hold a decent and clear conversation with anyone I meet?
That being said; does the person whom you are speaking with have the same ability?
If not either practice your social skills or move on...
GDOA
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I use what is in my immediate enviroment and build on that. Make it light hearted. You do not want to be too serious, that just turns the women off. Comment on something she might be wearing, suh as unusual earing or purse, maybe even her shoes. Something out of the ordinary.
daygameguy
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My life and her life. Pretty simple.
Doesn't matter what you say, it's HOW you say!!
This simple tip saved me more times then I can count. It's one of the ONLY tips I remind myself, the rest of the convo goes naturally. If the convo is going bad for you, don't stress! Just think about this, put more enthusiasm in your words, you CAN'T go wrong with this one!
The main thing I focus on my conversations is to create a vibe of course. But the most interresting topic for other people is....... other people!
If you have an good eye, LOOK for things in their personality that even they didn't know of! xD
So fun for me. Always gets me laughing. I personally LOVE this, and they love it too of course. Funny to see their reactions.
I can't think of a good example, you have to figure it out yourself. I don't know if I could figure it out if I didn't saw it myself in actions, well!
The point would be to get an interresting topic of the most common things, you know? Then I start saying stuff like: So cmon, tell me something interresting you did last night, so I can see what kind of person you are. Heck, even I don't exactly know how I get going, but it's so frikin easy.
I don't know if you could pull it off if you're not happy yourself. As I am extremey happy with my persona, I always look at other people the same way, you just need to get in that mood.
This simple tip saved me more times then I can count. It's one of the ONLY tips I remind myself, the rest of the convo goes naturally. If the convo is going bad for you, don't stress! Just think about this, put more enthusiasm in your words, you CAN'T go wrong with this one!
The main thing I focus on my conversations is to create a vibe of course. But the most interresting topic for other people is....... other people!
If you have an good eye, LOOK for things in their personality that even they didn't know of! xDSo fun for me. Always gets me laughing. I personally LOVE this, and they love it too of course. Funny to see their reactions.
I can't think of a good example, you have to figure it out yourself. I don't know if I could figure it out if I didn't saw it myself in actions, well!
The point would be to get an interresting topic of the most common things, you know? Then I start saying stuff like: So cmon, tell me something interresting you did last night, so I can see what kind of person you are.
Heck, even I don't exactly know how I get going, but it's so frikin easy. I don't know if you could pull it off if you're not happy yourself. As I am extremey happy with my persona, I always look at other people the same way, you just need to get in that mood.