Drdeee
Banned
Help an afc find what's wrong with him, and advice on approach.
There is this neighbor chick around here, lives downstairs, comes upstairs to a balcony to chit chat on the phone for like two hours. Even though I watch TV I still hear her, and even though it's no big deal, somehow it ticks me off. Inside me there is a feeling, or more like a rage, I wanna walk up to the girl and tell her to quiet it down or just leave, and not talk next to my door. This feeling just eats me from inside, wanna punch her, lol. The other night she was f*cking with two dudes, or it was two girls and two dudes, all night long. Before that night I didn't even notice her or cared that she was outside talking and I could hear it. I don't know man, maybe after the slut night her voice changed a bit to the look at me I'm better than anyone else side, not sure. Where is this coming from and how to deal with it?
Now as far as advice goes. I wanna approach her. After all she's a neighbor, and loud talking is bugging me, plus there is a metal door that I rather her close carefully and not bang. I'm thinking when she comes out to talk on the phone, I'll come over to smoke, ask for a light, I know she doesn't have one. Then ask her name, etc, etc.. But the girl's on the phone, so advice. I honestly don't care if I could bring her over to my place to watch a movie or not, but it be nice to start some place, even as a friend.
I'm zero with approaching girls, I have theory but no practice. Taking on bootcamp soon, two months already into getting it started. Noticing chicks noticing me, and then getting turn off because I don't approach.
No goals right? If I do it I'll do it, if not, regroup and grow balls.
There is this neighbor chick around here, lives downstairs, comes upstairs to a balcony to chit chat on the phone for like two hours. Even though I watch TV I still hear her, and even though it's no big deal, somehow it ticks me off. Inside me there is a feeling, or more like a rage, I wanna walk up to the girl and tell her to quiet it down or just leave, and not talk next to my door. This feeling just eats me from inside, wanna punch her, lol. The other night she was f*cking with two dudes, or it was two girls and two dudes, all night long. Before that night I didn't even notice her or cared that she was outside talking and I could hear it. I don't know man, maybe after the slut night her voice changed a bit to the look at me I'm better than anyone else side, not sure. Where is this coming from and how to deal with it?
Now as far as advice goes. I wanna approach her. After all she's a neighbor, and loud talking is bugging me, plus there is a metal door that I rather her close carefully and not bang. I'm thinking when she comes out to talk on the phone, I'll come over to smoke, ask for a light, I know she doesn't have one. Then ask her name, etc, etc.. But the girl's on the phone, so advice. I honestly don't care if I could bring her over to my place to watch a movie or not, but it be nice to start some place, even as a friend.
I'm zero with approaching girls, I have theory but no practice. Taking on bootcamp soon, two months already into getting it started. Noticing chicks noticing me, and then getting turn off because I don't approach.
No goals right? If I do it I'll do it, if not, regroup and grow balls.