where guys go wrong

[SmoothSmooth]

when a man sees a beautiful, young woman, he automatically projects a personality onto her. fun, good, nice, feminine, playful, innocent etc are all virtues were are conditioned to associate with female beauty. therefore, if a girl acts a lil cold men assume 'shes just being passive'. if a girl doesn't reply to their message, men assume 'she must have forgot'. they wouldnt assume that she is a rude or malicious person like they might with a man doing the same

when i encounter a beautiful woman, i see a mask. my behaviour and feelings towards a woman is 100% based on HOW she treats ME. i have worked in an industry surrounded by beautiful and often sexily dressed women to the point i am completely desensitized and just see her beauty as nothing more than a costume she wears. i therefore avoid the classic mistakes men make which telegraphs interest, such as looking at her too strong, trying to be goofy/trying to sustain a convo with her just because you like her costume/mask, assuming she has feminine character traits before even getting to know her etc infact, i see all masks as essentially the same - skinny blonde with blue eyes, slightly chubby brunette...its all just a costume to me

women can sense this in my body language, conversation etc that THEY ONLY GET WHAT THEY GIVE when interacting with me. i am a
mirror to them and somewhat uninterested because a costume/mask isnt enough for me to CARE about you as a person

and this is why i have 3 girls, aged 20-23, 8/10 in looks in my rotation right now. and i have to barely do anything to keep them interested inbetween the dates

on dates i am exciting and playful, but coming from a place of exploring/stimulating emotions. i lead with confidence and sexual charisma, but women only get this energy from me after they have earnt it. they earn it by showing up to the date. i dont overcompensate by giving too much before the date. if you have come on a date and acted appropriately prior, then you deserve this adventure with me. because i dont give too much before the date; women also sense i get alot of dates

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

90/10 rule applies to the personalities of women. 90% of the women have trash personalities and live trash lives. Unfortunately, all they have to do is dress well and put on makeup to look normal in public.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

So your post is pretty much a brag about how good you are in the game, how any woman can't fool you, how you have a few plates and how you are in dates with chicks? Do you have male friends other than the internet?

here come the haters...typical

 

[SmoothSmooth]

This is true but you also need to be aggressive. Otherwise, its a recipe for attracting AWs. You need to be more aggressive to get the rest.

aggressive how? curious to hear ur method...
im very laid back. never do anything sudden or that shows my cards. except if i open on cold approach, where i prioritise energy/impact. after that, i use passive dominance - late replies, flaking, typo's, ignoring their messages etc to assert my higher status. its the opposite of aggressive, because thats what every guy does. plus my experience is that you start sets the presedence for how she views ur status in the relationship and ranks you amongst other men.

 

[SmoothSmooth]

No bro, just feedback.



This is where the post have had ended, informative, quick to the point.



All of this $hit is just you blabbing about how great you are.

its important because my method is based on exceptional results. im not just throwing out concepts like everyone else.

 

[Solomon]

IN for the pics of "8s"

 

[SmoothStroke0331]

IN for the pics of "8s"

I second this

 

[MtmVaott]

when a man sees a beautiful, young woman, he automatically projects a personality onto her. fun, good, nice, feminine, playful, innocent etc are all virtues were are conditioned to associate with female beauty. therefore, if a girl acts a lil cold men assume 'shes just being passive'. if a girl doesn't reply to their message, men assume 'she must have forgot'. they wouldnt assume that she is a rude or malicious person like they might with a man doing the same

when i encounter a beautiful woman, i see a mask. my behaviour and feelings towards a woman is 100% based on HOW she treats ME. i have worked in an industry surrounded by beautiful and often sexily dressed women to the point i am completely desensitized and just see her beauty as nothing more than a costume she wears. i therefore avoid the classic mistakes men make which telegraphs interest, such as looking at her too strong, trying to be goofy/trying to sustain a convo with her just because you like her costume/mask, assuming she has feminine character traits before even getting to know her etc infact, i see all masks as essentially the same - skinny blonde with blue eyes, slightly chubby brunette...its all just a costume to me

women can sense this in my body language, conversation etc that THEY ONLY GET WHAT THEY GIVE when interacting with me. i am a
mirror to them and somewhat uninterested because a costume/mask isnt enough for me to CARE about you as a person

and this is why i have 3 girls, aged 20-23, 8/10 in looks in my rotation right now. and i have to barely do anything to keep them interested inbetween the dates

on dates i am exciting and playful, but coming from a place of exploring/stimulating emotions. i lead with confidence and sexual charisma, but women only get this energy from me after they have earnt it. they earn it by showing up to the date. i dont overcompensate by giving too much before the date. if you have come on a date and acted appropriately prior, then you deserve this adventure with me. because i dont give too much before the date; women also sense i get alot of dates

This post deserves more credit.
Someone who reads this might think this is sort of warped and bitter. But actually, it is the opposite. This guy feels what his gut is telling him of how much this human being in front of him values him for himself so strongly, that the influence by the well crafted manners and beauty of the woman, which is made to grip and devour him, fades.

What I want to add is that the emotion of lust is very strong, and we should accept it and what it tells us we want. That way, we can remain present in the situation, able to react from a position of inner independence.

 

[MtmVaott]

This is true but you also need to be aggressive. Otherwise, its a recipe for attracting AWs. You need to be more aggressive to get the rest.

He can't attract AWs if he is investing in small steps, with the woman following up with the investment. By investment I mean the time and energy she uses to support him, cheer him up, make him feel seen and understood, mostly.
His post made the impression to me he is able to separate between this kind of investment and the investment that the man and woman has to make to reach the goal of sex and relationship.

Edit: What I think is true is that you have to be aggressive to get the girls you are attracted to, but this doesn't sound like OP is not aggressive. He can just accept his emotion of lust and focus on reeling the girl in. I sense OP is a bit too much into PU, so I'm not sure if it is 100% authentic, but it's the right approach.

 

[The Diver]

when a man sees a beautiful, young woman, he automatically projects a personality onto her. fun, good, nice, feminine, playful, innocent etc are all virtues were are conditioned to associate with female beauty.

False evaluation creates a distorted reality, which creates artificial qualities that were not there in the first place.

your perception of the world, and women, could be distorted by your own inner assumption.

 

[MtmVaott]

aggressive how? curious to hear ur method...
im very laid back. never do anything sudden or that shows my cards. except if i open on cold approach, where i prioritise energy/impact. after that, i use passive dominance - late replies, flaking, typo's, ignoring their messages etc to assert my higher status. its the opposite of aggressive, because thats what every guy does. plus my experience is that you start sets the presedence for how she views ur status in the relationship and ranks you amongst other men.

Exuding energy for a person you don't know at all, all based on her appearance and sexual effect on you, puts her in an extreme power position. It may not feel like it because she reacts positively at first, but it will take its toll.
It will effect her behaviour towards you, and not for the better. My bet is they will figure you out directly after your approach and then go with it for entertainment. Step out of faking confidence soon enough. You are prone for cluster B women.

 

[lost_blackbird]

What I want to add is that the emotion of lust is very strong, and we should accept it and what it tells us we want.

Hand on heart I can say I never feel lustful, even when I was in a relationship.