Where do i start?

[camel7000]

Alright guys, ive posted a couple times on here before, but that was just for stupid little relationship stuff. So now i come to the community for help with what this website is about.

A little about me
16, tall, tan, (ive been told) good looking, athletic. Go to a Private Boy School in St louis (thats how stl is, im used to it, and theres plenty of girl schools around to meet). I have confidence with my looks, and easily talk to girls i know after i meet them.

My two goals this year are
-meet alot of new people, and become the person that people want to hang with

What Ive had enough with and have decided to **** it.
- Im ready to learn how to engage with brand new girls, attractive ones. I know what i want to become, the overall stud who can talk to anyone, at anytime, and make them come to me, not having me chase them. But i need help from you all.
Like most people on here, i lack the confidence and ability to walk up to a new group of girls at a hs football game, or wherever, and start a conversation and meet them.

Ive had success with girls in my life, but by being set up with them, not by getting myself out there and meeting a bunch of people.

So my point is... where do i begin to learn on the forum? what should i do first?
also, i want to get into the more "party" group, i want to just get out there more and do more stuff. its just hard with the cliques etc already formed.

thanks alot for the help, if you have any questions, feel free to ask and ill respond

Trev

 

[MrP]

I like your enthusiasm. As for where to start... probably the DJ Bible. Just search for it.

Personally I've found it easier to get better with getting girls than with making friends, so make sure you work on both, because in high school/college you definitely need the total package.

 

[AlexLefty]

If you still get online and still want help, reply to this and I'll get you started

 

[eaglez1177]

Well for starters, anyone whos new to this site id highly recommend reading the HS Bible and DJ Bible before anything else. The articles in those, especially the HS Bible, I found to be EXTREMELY helpful when I first got into this whole DJ thing.

As for wanting to join the "party" group, I wouldnt exactly deliberately go out of your way to follow along and join the bandwagon with other people. BE YOUR OWN MAN, and just do your own thing. Dont try to be a follower and get into these stupid groups or cliques. Be a leader, do your own thing, and you'll find that people will begin to follow YOU. YOU will start receiving the attention, rather than having to give out the attention in an attempt to join some silly group of people.

As for approach anxiety, eliminating that just comes from pushing your comfort zone further and further each time, until your comfortable with any situation, whether it be approaching a group of five chicks or approaching just one girl. Youve use your confidence to your advantage to help you break through your current comfort zones and onto new ones.