Where do I find COOL guy friends?

[The JustMan]

I don't know whether this belongs in DJ discussion or the Wingman forum, but I would like to find cool guy friends to hang out with. When I was in high school all the guys I hung out with were the nerds, dorks, geeks, freaks, and BIG TIME AFCS! I have been sarging solo and I have been getting out there, but I cannot find ANY guy who is willing to be social and go out and have fun. All of my existing friends prefer to either sit at home, alone, with their drugs, alcohol, and videogames, or they are SUPER-ATTACHED AFCs in LTRs! I have NEVER had a cool guy friend, or a NATURAL DJ! I took my friend Jason out sarging last weekend. He is an AFC, and has less skills with hbs than me. He could get better IF he tried, but I would rather have a friend who knows the ropes when sarging and doesn't make my social value go WAY down! Does any of you master DJs know where I can find cool guys to hang out with? Where did you find other cool guys to hang out with?

 

[Permission]

Hang out at movie theatres where they play 3 Fast 3 Furious.

 

[Dannyrt34]

I don't know whether this belongs in DJ discussion or the Wingman forum, but I would like to find cool guy friends to hang out with. When I was in high school all the guys I hung out with were the nerds, dorks, geeks, freaks, and BIG TIME AFCS! I have been sarging solo and I have been getting out there, but I cannot find ANY guy who is willing to be social and go out and have fun. All of my existing friends prefer to either sit at home, alone, with their drugs, alcohol, and videogames, or they are SUPER-ATTACHED AFCs in LTRs! I have NEVER had a cool guy friend, or a NATURAL DJ! I took my friend Jason out sarging last weekend. He is an AFC, and has less skills with hbs than me. He could get better IF he tried, but I would rather have a friend who knows the ropes when sarging and doesn't make my social value go WAY down! Does any of you master DJs know where I can find cool guys to hang out with? Where did you find other cool guys to hang out with?

So we're talking about picking up guys now huh?

LOL

Actually I'm very interested in this question because I have the same problem. Well, all my friends are in LTRs except for one, and he is an anti-social AFC, who, just like you say, enjoys sitting around and doing absolutely nothing. I've actually been going out with my cousin and her friends, who are all girls, to sarge, which I still think works great for the social proof.

But like you say, it would be nice to hang out with some other alpha men with lots of testosterone floating through the air.

 

[Rocko]

I got mine at the market on sale. Other then that, found some random guys who take credit cards and don't really check my credit history...

come on man, are you honestly asking that fvcking question??

 

[Derek Flint]

Hang out at movie theatres where they play 3 Fast 3 Furious.

LOL!

Seriously, the OP should join his local PU Lair and attend lair meetings where he can meet other PUA's, some of who are "cool"

 

[hi2u]

I'm very lucky to have a best friend that's non-AFC and keeps me challenged. Good friends can be a byproduct of being in the field and sarging. When I go into a bar or club, I introduce myself to the bartender and try to introduce myself to any males I identify as alpha and/or that seem interesting. Don't be gay, just be professional. Talk about guy stuff. I'm not much for sports, so I talk about cars and my job. You will find yourself more comfortable and relaxed, and your alpha aura will grow as you connect with more people on the field. Have a business card. It seems a whole lot less gay than asking guys for their numbers.

Just like with girls: Smile, confidence, eye contact, strong frame, and you will be the life of the party. Although I'd advise against Kino and Neg Hits

 

[The JustMan]

Ha, ha everybody! Seriously though, I would like to find people who share this interest of going out and sarging. Where do you find the local PU lairs? I would also just like to have friends that want to do more than sit around, get high, paly videogames, and whine like little *****s about their problems. At least I have been going out and doing CAs. Most of my friends just sit around masturbating, wondering why no girl just magically appears and fvcks them! I want to find guys who AT LEAST understand that videogames does not lead to sex...

 

[JezDuffield]

If you play the Sims PC game you can create a HB10 for yourself, marry her, and have babies, if you so desire.

Why on earth would you want to hang out with other guys who were successful with woman, the only Alpha-Man that I want to hang out with is myself, I don't have many associations with other guys outside of my work environment, I much prefer to sarge in places alone, I find that this is so much more comfortable relaxing and easier to succeed.

 

[dirtysanchez]

The gym or sports clubs.

 

[Wiesman44]

If you're interesting, fun to be around, and willing to talk to anybody, you will meet friends easily. I'm in sales, so i see some guys who are like this, and they have millions of friends. Not b/c they have any special gift of gab, but b/c they talk to anybody.

Ps; Read "How to win friends and influence people" by dale carnegie. Great book. Might helpyou out