Where and how to meet girls non clubs/bars/partys

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I mean perhaps during day or at night?

Is it possible to get sex on that day or is that only more likely at a party/club?

Can you just chat up girls on the street or in a shop, mall or shop workers, library any other good ideas?

And if so what is good to say.

''hey you look cute, u wanna give me your number if u wanna meet up sometime?''

For example, I was in the mall the Staurday afternoon and getting my shopping from the food shop, loads of people BUt I notice one cute girl my age in tiny skirt walk in front of me and then I noticed her a few times in my presesne. And as I was walking out of mall home she was walkign along side me in car park.

Now, if girls think like me. I really only went alone on Staurday to hopefully attract or see some cute girls...I wonder if this girl had the same idea? And started lotiering/following me hoping Id say something to her? I have no idea.

I kinda look like Justin Beiber (good or bad? ) anyway so its highly possible she was into me? But then again maybe Im just a weirdo lol

 

[Mike32ct]

You can meet girls anywhere. Getting s@x during the day is possible, but very uncommon. Most day gaming is to get numbers and meet up another time.

Don't ask for the number immediately unless she approaches and blatantly hits on you first.

Make a situational comment to get the coversation started then introduce yourself. Chat for a few minutes before asking for the number unless she is leaving and you are pressed for time.

What you say isn't really critical.

Looking like Justin Bieber should be a big plus for you. The pretty boy face is a bonus. If you got height (6+ feet) too, you will be fishing out of a barrel. Even without the height, you should do ok.

I mean perhaps during day or at night?

Is it possible to get sex on that day or is that only more likely at a party/club?

Can you just chat up girls on the street or in a shop, mall or shop workers, library any other good ideas?

And if so what is good to say.

''hey you look cute, u wanna give me your number if u wanna meet up sometime?''

For example, I was in the mall the Staurday afternoon and getting my shopping from the food shop, loads of people BUt I notice one cute girl my age in tiny skirt walk in front of me and then I noticed her a few times in my presesne. And as I was walking out of mall home she was walkign along side me in car park.

Now, if girls think like me. I really only went alone on Staurday to hopefully attract or see some cute girls...I wonder if this girl had the same idea? And started lotiering/following me hoping Id say something to her? I have no idea.

I kinda look like Justin Beiber (good or bad? ) anyway so its highly possible she was into me? But then again maybe Im just a weirdo lol

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

You can meet girls anywhere. Getting s@x during the day is possible, but very uncommon. Most day gaming is to get numbers and meet up another time.

Don't ask for the number immediately unless she approaches and blatantly hits on you first.

Make a situational comment to get the coversation started then introduce yourself. Chat for a few minutes before asking for the number unless she is leaving and you are pressed for time.

What you say isn't really critical.

Looking like Justin Bieber should be a big plus for you. The pretty boy face is a bonus. If you got height (6+ feet) too, you will be fishing out of a barrel. Even without the height, you should do ok.

Well yeh so durign day its more likely, situational chat, get number, meet later date (not same day?), then mabye sex.

Whereas at night, maybe meet girl, go back to her place have sex? Or that unlieky also.

Haha its funny about Justin Beiber. I looked so young and boyish I never ever try to chat up girls. BUt recently I had some success. I even went to this nightclub and many people were staring at me and girls and the barmaids smiling and stuff when I went to order drink they prob thought I was underage. haha.

Im also nearly 6ft with my trainers or boots on. ABout 5'10 really.

I thought girls only had sex or went with muscular bigger guys and Im like only 145lbs. I was 118lbs when 18 and had bad acne so I just never tried to meet girls.

NOw thanks to jutsin beiber I see that you can be young and slim and boyish and girls will still like you haha.

This is great. I just wanna try and meet as many fit girls as possible now. BUt no clue how to do it or what to say. I see girls check me out and stuff well I think they are. BUt I no social skills. Sucks.

I see ugly ass dudes getting girls just cause they are lively and social and loud etc.....

So, also I dont liek night scene and bars and clusb because also I dont liek fights and trouble and I think some dudes maybe envious wanna fight me. BUt I don like to fight at all. Like in 1 club this man in his 30s?+ just started grwoling at me and say crazy stuff but his gf came over and pulled him away..WTF. I dont even know the guy or say anythign to him...PLus I fear gay dudes and big gay dudes hitting on me. Im not very big what if they try rape or date rape me. Ok maybe this it OTT but overallI dont feel safe in the night scene.

So, thats why I wanna try and meet cute girls during the day but I dont know when or how they weill put out or how to play it.

cheers

 

[Deicide]

Well yeh so durign day its more likely, situational chat, get number, meet later date (not same day?), then mabye sex.

Whereas at night, maybe meet girl, go back to her place have sex? Or that unlieky also.

Haha its funny about Justin Beiber. I looked so young and boyish I never ever try to chat up girls. BUt recently I had some success. I even went to this nightclub and many people were staring at me and girls and the barmaids smiling and stuff when I went to order drink they prob thought I was underage. haha.

Im also nearly 6ft with my trainers or boots on. ABout 5'10 really.

I thought girls only had sex or went with muscular bigger guys and Im like only 145lbs. I was 118lbs when 18 and had bad acne so I just never tried to meet girls.

NOw thanks to jutsin beiber I see that you can be young and slim and boyish and girls will still like you haha.

This is great. I just wanna try and meet as many fit girls as possible now. BUt no clue how to do it or what to say. I see girls check me out and stuff well I think they are. BUt I no social skills. Sucks.

I see ugly ass dudes getting girls just cause they are lively and social and loud etc.....

So, also I dont liek night scene and bars and clusb because also I dont liek fights and trouble and I think some dudes maybe envious wanna fight me. BUt I don like to fight at all. Like in 1 club this man in his 30s?+ just started grwoling at me and say crazy stuff but his gf came over and pulled him away..WTF. I dont even know the guy or say anythign to him...PLus I fear gay dudes and big gay dudes hitting on me. Im not very big what if they try rape or date rape me. Ok maybe this it OTT but overallI dont feel safe in the night scene.

So, thats why I wanna try and meet cute girls during the day but I dont know when or how they weill put out or how to play it.

cheers

Sorry, but some of this was too funny. Especially about the gay guys.
But all jokes aside, just make an effort to say "Hi" to strangers as you pass them by. We all have to start somewhere. You have to be able to say Hello to strangers before you can cold approach. Even a "Hey, how're you doing?" could get you locked into an approach. And since you mentioned you're already getting looks, any little thing you say should be able to get girls locked in. And you "play it" like the outcome doesn't matter.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

Sorry, but some of this was too funny. Especially about the gay guys.
But all jokes aside, just make an effort to say "Hi" to strangers as you pass them by. We all have to start somewhere. You have to be able to say Hello to strangers before you can cold approach. Even a "Hey, how're you doing?" could get you locked into an approach. And since you mentioned you're already getting looks, any little thing you say should be able to get girls locked in. And you "play it" like the outcome doesn't matter.

Seriosuly I dont feel that safe out at night and clubs etc...I was 5'10 118lbs a bit bigger now but many people are noisey and rowdy and where I stay just looking for fights etc....I hate crowds and these areas.

I dont like them tbh but I think this is easiet way to get girls at night drunk clubs etc...?

And I had gay guys tell me Im cute etc...Im not a big guy or that tough. I hear stories aboiut date rape females etc....ANd I heard stories stuff happen to dudes.

Anyway I dont like pub/club scene so this sucks for getting laid IMO???!?!

 

[Deicide]

Seriosuly I dont feel that safe out at night and clubs etc...I was 5'10 118lbs a bit bigger now but many people are noisey and rowdy and where I stay just looking for fights etc....I hate crowds and these areas.

I dont like them tbh but I think this is easiet way to get girls at night drunk clubs etc...?

And I had gay guys tell me Im cute etc...Im not a big guy or that tough. I hear stories aboiut date rape females etc....ANd I heard stories stuff happen to dudes.

Anyway I dont like pub/club scene so this sucks for getting laid IMO???!?!

I'm sure someone more experienced than I can give you better idea on this whole thing. I'll give you a disclaimer about myself: I'm a virgin who started cold approaching on a regular basis 6 months ago, though my approach anxiety is quite low compared to most people, so, I can only help you with the very basics. Though there's good people here that can give you GREAT ADVICE.

You can always do Day Game(aka non-bar and club locations) and improve your game that way. It'll take longer to get to a lay point, but you can learn a lot through day game, and you'll get numbers easier than most beginners if what you've told is the truth.

And please, don't worry so much about all these fights and date rape stories. Don't let other people's potential threats stop you from doing what you want to do(apparently going to a club with the intention of banging a random girl). Remember that Day Game has a lot of quality women also.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

I'm sure someone more experienced than I can give you better idea on this whole thing. I'll give you a disclaimer about myself: I'm a virgin who started cold approaching on a regular basis 6 months ago, though my approach anxiety is quite low compared to most people, so, I can only help you with the very basics. Though there's good people here that can give you GREAT ADVICE.

You can always do Day Game(aka non-bar and club locations) and improve your game that way. It'll take longer to get to a lay point, but you can learn a lot through day game, and you'll get numbers easier than most beginners if what you've told is the truth.

And please, don't worry so much about all these fights and date rape stories. Don't let other people's potential threats stop you from doing what you want to do(apparently going to a club with the intention of banging a random girl). Remember that Day Game has a lot of quality women also.

Well thanks yeh

Atually my overall probelm is not anxiety. I could go up to a girl and burp in her face if you dared me too....

THe problem is actually burping is as about as good as coversing as I am....Really I have no idea how to put owrkds together and make normal conversation. Its not anxiety its just I have no clue. Like Someone doesnt know algebra thats normal. I dont know speech.

I think I have aspergers ors lightly on autistic scale. I study physics and maths and got special awards at school for highest grades in whole country and at university I got highest grades in university also....Yet I cannot do coversations. I can do silly speech though and be immature easier lol.

Like I could go to a girl adn say hey big boobs wanna hook up later...but I dont think that works?

Also as for aspegers/autism is why I ahte crowds and noise also inclduing malls and nightclubs...so that sux also

It aint so bad if I et drunk though.

Sorry for seplling i typing fast and its late

 

[Packers2010]

dude. where i come from... people die all the time by just get punched in the face.

i sill go out. and i am shy to new people / have approach anxiety.

you just got to know what you are doing. just walk away from those guys. don't looked them in the eye. and don't talk back to them. they are drunk and angry. and a chode. ie they didn't get the girl that night. so they pick on people. so just stay away and you can still have a good night.

 

[donnyjondeppjuando]

dude. where i come from... people die all the time by just get punched in the face.

i sill go out. and i am shy to new people / have approach anxiety.

you just got to know what you are doing. just walk away from those guys. don't looked them in the eye. and don't talk back to them. they are drunk and angry. and a chode. ie they didn't get the girl that night. so they pick on people. so just stay away and you can still have a good night.

DIe with one punch to the face?

Anyway regardless I dont like the noise and crowds of clubs and pubs also.

So tbh if I rule out that scene. Im not sure other options are great.

I sometimes walk past girls alone at night and they smile when I walk past. Or I go into shop and the shop worker freindly and smile with me.

Im not anxious in anyway but I have no idea what to say.

Example, girl on street at night I say hi? But can I expect to get sex or just a phone number. If Im cute I wont appear a weird rapist by looking for sex? Or asking? How does one ask? indirectly?

As for shop workers etc...what can I say to them? Do I need to get a phone number then arrange to meet at a later date?

I find it diffcult to put conversations togetehr formaly.

Like I said I can do immature easy but perhaps that wont get me sex or phone numbers? I dont think girls like it?