Where and how did you meet your current or most recent partner?

Eternal_water

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This will could probably help those of us who don't know where and how to meet girls.

The only girlfriend I've ever had I met at a friends 18th which was a dance.

What about you guys?
 

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Santa Anita Park, specifically clocker's corner in the morning while eating breakfast watching the training.

i saw her one day and she sticks out because she's quite tall. but she was working and I coudln't just approach her. But every time i'd come back i'd see her and eventaully she saw me and we'd play this little game for like a week or two where we would let each toher catch the toher looking at thema nd one day i just got tired of playing around and said look let's cut this **** out give me your number and i'll take you out (prarphrasing). she was still KINDA hesittant but it was more beucase i was so blunt / forthcoming more so than she didn't like me i knew she liked me or at least was interested in getting to know me. anyway the rest is history.
 

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Friend of a Friend. (i know, pretty typical, lol)
 

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OKC. Went in with good intentions (ONS) ended up wasting months of my life!

Everyone else I've been in an LTR with I met through music though, normally at gigs.
 

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Cold approached group of people at bar.

backbreaker said:
Santa Anita Park, specifically clocker's corner in the morning while eating breakfast watching the training.

i saw her one day and she sticks out because she's quite tall. but she was working and I coudln't just approach her. But every time i'd come back i'd see her and eventaully she saw me and we'd play this little game for like a week or two where we would let each toher catch the toher looking at thema nd one day i just got tired of playing around and said look let's cut this **** out give me your number and i'll take you out (prarphrasing). she was still KINDA hesittant but it was more beucase i was so blunt / forthcoming more so than she didn't like me i knew she liked me or at least was interested in getting to know me. anyway the rest is history.
Do you think it was BETTER for your game to go back there a few times before you approached her? What if it was a place that you knew you wouldn't be going back to anytime soon?
 

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sageproduct said:
Cold approached group of people at bar.



Do you think it was BETTER for your game to go back there a few times before you approached her? What if it was a place that you knew you wouldn't be going back to anytime soon?
lol considering the fact that she was an exercise rider i knew she'd be back pretty much everyday. if she was just a normal girl i would have approached when i first saw her but she was on the tracka nd at work. and i would have approached sooner but i had to wait until she was just not doing anything and eating breakfast which took about a week and a half.

in retrospect, she's the only girl in a LONG time i have went out of my way to approach, i thought she was smoking hot.. tall, tone, leggy and i had heard her speak enough to catch an accent which turned me on. i went to clockers corner damn near every day for 2 weeks waiting for her to not be busy. it worked out pretty well in the end.
 

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Girlfriend? She came on to me in a bar.
Lay? - I approached in a bar.

Most lays? - Bar :D
 

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Yea bars have been my bread and butter, for me its all about location I live about 1 minute walk to the local club and i've probably brought 100+ girls back in my 3 years since being here. All about location for the 1 night stands boys

but back on topic met my last gf at the same club she thought I was my brother and she lives close to him....the rest is history although she still says only reason she was so down was because I had a fedora on, peacock theory baby!
 

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backbreaker said:
one day i just got tired of playing around and said look let's cut this **** out give me your number and i'll take you out (prarphrasing). she was still KINDA hesittant but it was more beucase i was so blunt / forthcoming more so than she didn't like me i knew she liked me or at least was interested in getting to know me. anyway the rest is history.
My man :up:
 

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On the bus. Cute I know... But turns out the wh0re caught buses because her ex boyfriend smashed up her car.
 

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At work. Found out she thought I was hot through a co-worker. I wasn't going to do anything because we worked together, but she quit and I looked her up through Facebook, said we should hang out and here we are 3 years later, living together, with two dogs.
 

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All of my last x exes I met from cold approach. Current gf met in a coffee shop
 

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i met her in a pool hall. remember it like it was yesterday.

that was back in 2005 when i was a kid only 15. now i'm 22 nearly 23, in about 6 weeks.

we don't talk anymore. i guess it's for my sanity rather then anything else. i guess after we hooked up a few times and my onties killed everything. me calling her a sloot went and ****ed everything up.

but hey, I've learnt from that and i'm a stronger person now.
 

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I met her at a disco, I was there with only one friend and lost him around midnight (turns out he went to sleep at his granmas house :D). I was bored and basically alone so I thought that I can at least pick up a girl. I stood outside near the entrance for a while and have been looking for an approachable girl. Then she walked out, I looked at her, she smiled at me then stood about 1,5 meters away from me. So I went for it.

I spent the whole night with her, she took my phone when I was looking at the clock and put her number in it. She even contacted me first the next day. Too bad that I screwed it after a month and a half, I have never seen a girl as hot as her this interested in me.
 

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Current - on a meetup.com activity outdoors in a group setting, cold approach but too easy when stuck together on an activity in a group for 5+ hours.

Previous - at a week long workshop/seminar requiring overnight boarding.

Previous-Previous - shared common charity work place.

Previous-Previous-Previous - Facebook. (only takes once, no more ever)
 

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My gf is the sister of a karaoke hostess I've known for years. According to one of my friends, the hostess had a major crush on me which explains why she no longer speaks to me :D
 

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Work 18 years ago, were just friends. Looked her up again this year and been serious for the past two months.
 
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