When you know she wants you...

[Ronin I]

OK - this is kind of a tip and also a question to my fellow DJs.

MysteryWoman's thread on girls checking guys out kind of brought this idea to the forefront of my mind.

I started a new internship at a local hospital last week and I've caught one of the nurses checking me out on two occassions. Now the first time I thought maybe she was just curious as to who I was because I'm new but the second time I caught her looking at me I saw "the look".

Now some of you know the look I'm talking about - it's the look that automatically makes you think - "She wants me."

Now I will admit that in the past I may have been bad at recognizing "the look" and missed some opportunities - but all I know is that the other day after receiving "the look" I was automatically on my game the rest of the day. I walked around like I owned the place.

Anyway so my idea is to kind of "anchor" that feeling to yourself and whenever you receive "the look" to say to yourself (outloud or in your mind) "She wants me" and then to clench your fist (or some other physical anchor.) Then when sarging your next chick, elicit that same feeling and move in.

It is amazing how much differently you act and carry yourself when you are sure of another person's interest. In sales we would call this "assuming the sale".

Any of you guys have any anecdotal evidence of this?

Oh and of course the next time I see the nurse (I'd say HB7) it's game on.

 

[The Real Deal]

" Now some of you know the look I'm talking about - it's the look that automatically makes you think - "She wants me."


I just assume ever woman wants me, that makes it easier.


" It is amazing how much differently you act and carry yourself when you are sure of another person's interest. "



See?


Good tip, but I'm still looking up the word, "anecdotal". I'll get back with ya

 

[Ronin I]

Originally posted by The Real Deal

Good tip, but I'm still looking up the word, "anecdotal". I'll get back with ya

Anecdotal = subjective.

I meant it in terms of "real life or real world" experience - which in this case will be VERY subjective because we're talking about assuming what another person is thinking.

 

[The Real Deal]

Thanks for clearing that up. But what I was saying is, just assume they all do. If they do or not is irrelvant. Imagine a guy who is unsure, hands in his pockets, looking down, kicking at the ground, saying, "I don't know, what do you want to do?" Or the guy who is sure, (regardless of his perception of the "look") standing upright, head held high, looking into their eyes saying, "how you doin?"

 

[Ronin I]

Originally posted by The Real Deal
Thanks for clearing that up. But what I was saying is, just assume they all do. If they do or not is irrelvant. Imagine a guy who is unsure, hands in his pockets, looking down, kicking at the ground, saying, "I don't know, what do you want to do?" Or the guy who is sure, (regardless of his perception of the "look") standing upright, head held high, looking into their eyes saying, "how you doin?"

Real Deal - I appreciate where you are coming from and I would like to be able to say that I can do that with with EVERY woman - but let's be honest here.

You can't COMPLETELY convince yourself that EVERY woman in the world wants in your pants (unless you are deranged). There will always be some degree of uncertainty unless you have some evidence (ie 'the look', she hits on you, your told by a third party that she wants to fvck your brains out, etc). So, what I'm trying to do is MAXIMIZE the assumption that you speak of - (because I know that it will only help me to make it a reality).The problem is that the damn logical/reasoning part of my brain creeps in and tries to usurp that assumption from time to time.

It will say "Settle down Ronin I - you know it is very possible that that girl actually has no interest in banging you."

Anyway in those instances I'd be quite happy if that part of my mind would just take a little break and let the "horned up DJ" part do it's thing.

But you are right though - whether or not they actually want to is IRRELEVANT.