When you go to a restaurant solo to see the same waitress, are they happy to see you, the 2nd time?

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You go to a restaurant by yourself and you decide you want to go a 2nd time, while checking she's on duty.

And, she's dressed like a single woman.

She likely doesn't give signals the 1st time, so what are her reactions on the 2nd time?

Has this happened to anyone before.

In any event, the title of this thread should really be how often until the 2nd time, which for me should be about a week later.
 

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Not always. I've had this happen with some waiters and it was cool, but then later on you'd not see them anymore.. but to hav ethe same waiter multiple times can be cool.. You get to know them a bit and enjoy seeing them.

But thinking about hitting on them or anything, I never really cared to.. WhenI go to a restaurant, I mainly go to enjoy the food and service, not hit on people. I've def gotten busy with some bartenders.. but sht just happens when you're at a joint late/after hours and get to connect with someone and the vibe is there
 

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Not always. I've had this happen with some waiters and it was cool, but then later on you'd not see them anymore.. but to hav ethe same waiter multiple times can be cool.. You get to know them a bit and enjoy seeing them.

But thinking about hitting on them or anything, I never really cared to.. WhenI go to a restaurant, I mainly go to enjoy the food and service, not hit on people. I've def gotten busy with some bartenders.. but sht just happens when you're at a joint late/after hours and get to connect with someone and the vibe is there
You wouldn't need to hit on them if you see them on a reoccurring basis. You can use this opportunity to spit game to them.
 

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The same waitresses are Always glad to see me return, I tip well …
 

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Cashiers and waitresses can be difficult, since they have an obligation to act professional. If you are confident that she is into you, hint at a date before you receive a tab or receipt. If she is down for it, she will likely leave her contact info on the receipt or somewhere else that does not give the appearance that she is flirting with a customer.

Use your best judgement for this though, you do not want to be seen by the entire restaurant staff as a creep that confuses basic job related hospitality with actual attraction.
 

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Cashiers and waitresses can be difficult, since they have an obligation to act professional. If you are confident that she is into you, hint at a date before you receive a tab or receipt. If she is down for it, she will likely leave her contact info on the receipt or somewhere else that does not give the appearance that she is flirting with a customer.

Use your best judgement for this though, you do not want to be seen by the entire restaurant staff as a creep that confuses basic job related hospitality with actual attraction.
Again, you wouldn't need to date them if you can be a reoccurring customer.
 

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Oh goddammit!

If you like her, shoot your shot. Stop overanalyzing.

Case closed. Leave the court and make a move.
I shoot my shot by going there. And you decide based on her reactions...
 

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This thread I started in 2020 should have some answers...


It's best to hit on women when they aren't on the clock.
 

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This thread I started in 2020 should have some answers...


It's best to hit on women when they aren't on the clock.
That's why you go to restaurants during a non-busy hour.
 
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