Because, you don't believe you've gotten anything! Sounds SIMPLE, as it always does, but very often the mind shadows and clouds the truth...
When you're setting goals, or asking for more either under the law of attraction, or in general, how can one GET more, if you don't realize you've gotten what you asked for, you just don't like it. To appreciate what you have and where you are is truly noble. It might not be IDEAL, but to get from here To there, one must recognize that there IS value wherever you are at the current moment. There aren't perfect situations, just the RIGHT people in the RIGHT moment.
We see this with women, with friends, with family, with co-workers, and bosses...we think we haven't gotten anything, but we have, we just didn't ask, and ignorance of NOT asking automatically defaults to getting WHATEVER is left over. And, to not realize you've got something is to believe there's a FINITE amount of STUFF to get. That money isn't abundant. That women aren't abundant. That friends aren't abundnant. That jobs aren't abundnant. Your MIND will close off visible targets of opportunity.
You have to APPRECIATE the here and now, because its all that exists, and with the vision of your mind's eye, see the landscape you would like to have, and take action toward it KNOWING that it will come to you no matter. Perseverance is a HUGE and POWERFUL emotion and motivating factor. It's what makes entrepreneurs rich and powerful. Think about it, the best businesses and the best leaders ALWAYS find a way. They may not KNOW one, but they're confident in themselves to find one and recognize it when it occurs. This is also what people ASSUME business people, especially sales people; that you'll take care of them no matter what AND you'll find a way. That's it.
The key to getting more is realizing you've gotten something, you might not like it, but you DID get something. Before, you didn't plan, and now, if you didn't get what you wanted, you're pissed because you feel like a victim. And maybe before you were; you didn't know you had to ASK and FOCUS on what you wanted, you felt all hands were dealt equal, right? Not so. NOW you know, now you can't claim being a victim or unfair hands. You must PLAN/THINK/FOCUS/VISUAL. YOU drive the mind, the mind does not drive you. If you want that next step in getting what you want, it comes with now asking for incremental increases UNTIL you believe it is true. You can't get more IF you don't realize you had something AND you don't believe the universe is abundant.
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Just a minor comment on fear and NOT acting...
Each moment of life we encounter fear. To one extent or another, ANY unchartered terroritory IS only fear in the mind. Either you win the battle over fear OR fear wins the battle over you. It's fear of breaking habits, and the fear of forming news one. With each battle you win or lose, you create a true kevlar vest of confidence, one that is impenetrable to ANYTHING. Either you control the mind as a TOOL/WEAPON, or it controls YOU, the user of the tool.
A-Unit
When you're setting goals, or asking for more either under the law of attraction, or in general, how can one GET more, if you don't realize you've gotten what you asked for, you just don't like it. To appreciate what you have and where you are is truly noble. It might not be IDEAL, but to get from here To there, one must recognize that there IS value wherever you are at the current moment. There aren't perfect situations, just the RIGHT people in the RIGHT moment.
We see this with women, with friends, with family, with co-workers, and bosses...we think we haven't gotten anything, but we have, we just didn't ask, and ignorance of NOT asking automatically defaults to getting WHATEVER is left over. And, to not realize you've got something is to believe there's a FINITE amount of STUFF to get. That money isn't abundant. That women aren't abundant. That friends aren't abundnant. That jobs aren't abundnant. Your MIND will close off visible targets of opportunity.
You have to APPRECIATE the here and now, because its all that exists, and with the vision of your mind's eye, see the landscape you would like to have, and take action toward it KNOWING that it will come to you no matter. Perseverance is a HUGE and POWERFUL emotion and motivating factor. It's what makes entrepreneurs rich and powerful. Think about it, the best businesses and the best leaders ALWAYS find a way. They may not KNOW one, but they're confident in themselves to find one and recognize it when it occurs. This is also what people ASSUME business people, especially sales people; that you'll take care of them no matter what AND you'll find a way. That's it.
The key to getting more is realizing you've gotten something, you might not like it, but you DID get something. Before, you didn't plan, and now, if you didn't get what you wanted, you're pissed because you feel like a victim. And maybe before you were; you didn't know you had to ASK and FOCUS on what you wanted, you felt all hands were dealt equal, right? Not so. NOW you know, now you can't claim being a victim or unfair hands. You must PLAN/THINK/FOCUS/VISUAL. YOU drive the mind, the mind does not drive you. If you want that next step in getting what you want, it comes with now asking for incremental increases UNTIL you believe it is true. You can't get more IF you don't realize you had something AND you don't believe the universe is abundant.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Just a minor comment on fear and NOT acting...
Each moment of life we encounter fear. To one extent or another, ANY unchartered terroritory IS only fear in the mind. Either you win the battle over fear OR fear wins the battle over you. It's fear of breaking habits, and the fear of forming news one. With each battle you win or lose, you create a true kevlar vest of confidence, one that is impenetrable to ANYTHING. Either you control the mind as a TOOL/WEAPON, or it controls YOU, the user of the tool.
A-Unit