MrCasual
New Member
Along the lines of the neg hit, every once in a while I'll make a woman insecure.
Sounds manipulative, but hear me out. I ONLY do this when:
1. She's battling me for control
2. She's contradicting herself with the feminist garbage about how "equal" women are, yet how much MORE she expects out of you as a man.
3. You sense that you are losing ground in the "getting her attention" area. It works especially well on the phone.
Here's how I do it. While she's babbling on about a conversation that she's had with someone recently that bothered her, say something like "that's just like you to think that". OR (with conviction) "YOU SAID THAT"??
The STYLE is the thing here. It's a sort of put down, without actually coming right out with it. It's an INSIDE JOKE that amuses you. You SEE something OBVIOUS that she cannot see about how she mishandled something.
If you handle it right(without a blatant neg hit) her immediate response will be "what did i do/say wrong?"
See, most women are somewhat insecure, yet easily insulted. But you havnt insulted her. You've intelligently recognized something that SHE DOESNT SEE, so much so that you are AMUSED by it.
At this point, you STOP making any reference to it. She is going to try to draw you out to find out WHAT she's doing wrong. At this point, you play it cool, and say "its nothing. Its just that (pause here, and act as if youre amused again)...."I THINK I KNOW WHAT HAPPENED". Use those exact words.
Trust me guys, if you handle this right (and its not easy, but you'll know it when you do) you'll get:
1. Instant mystery
2. Instant control
3. Respect for intelligence
4. points for protecting her ego by
try to change the subject.
This is one of the "SUBTLE" things that women are looking for in guys. Ive heard it expressed as "HE KNOWS WHEN TO TELL ME TO SHUT UP", and in other ways. Its definately primitive, but it works. It taps into the woman's (illogical) sense of balance between asserting herself, and being put in her place by the strong man she fantasizes about.
P.S.....whether you "tell" her what amused you so much is up to you. Personally, I think its better to go with the "It will only upset you" thing "So LETS TALK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE".
I did this last week on the phone, and it was WORKED perfectly. I was back in control, I had the upper hand, and she SHUT UP for a minute because she was racking her brain figuring out what she had done.
Sounds manipulative, but hear me out. I ONLY do this when:
1. She's battling me for control
2. She's contradicting herself with the feminist garbage about how "equal" women are, yet how much MORE she expects out of you as a man.
3. You sense that you are losing ground in the "getting her attention" area. It works especially well on the phone.
Here's how I do it. While she's babbling on about a conversation that she's had with someone recently that bothered her, say something like "that's just like you to think that". OR (with conviction) "YOU SAID THAT"??
The STYLE is the thing here. It's a sort of put down, without actually coming right out with it. It's an INSIDE JOKE that amuses you. You SEE something OBVIOUS that she cannot see about how she mishandled something.
If you handle it right(without a blatant neg hit) her immediate response will be "what did i do/say wrong?"
See, most women are somewhat insecure, yet easily insulted. But you havnt insulted her. You've intelligently recognized something that SHE DOESNT SEE, so much so that you are AMUSED by it.
At this point, you STOP making any reference to it. She is going to try to draw you out to find out WHAT she's doing wrong. At this point, you play it cool, and say "its nothing. Its just that (pause here, and act as if youre amused again)...."I THINK I KNOW WHAT HAPPENED". Use those exact words.
Trust me guys, if you handle this right (and its not easy, but you'll know it when you do) you'll get:
1. Instant mystery
2. Instant control
3. Respect for intelligence
4. points for protecting her ego by
try to change the subject.
This is one of the "SUBTLE" things that women are looking for in guys. Ive heard it expressed as "HE KNOWS WHEN TO TELL ME TO SHUT UP", and in other ways. Its definately primitive, but it works. It taps into the woman's (illogical) sense of balance between asserting herself, and being put in her place by the strong man she fantasizes about.
P.S.....whether you "tell" her what amused you so much is up to you. Personally, I think its better to go with the "It will only upset you" thing "So LETS TALK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE".
I did this last week on the phone, and it was WORKED perfectly. I was back in control, I had the upper hand, and she SHUT UP for a minute because she was racking her brain figuring out what she had done.