When they tell you are normal looking...

[NeedToImprove]

not ugly nor cute either, do you still have chances to get a decent woman?

mostly when i ask them this, and they answer, i notice they dont have interest to keep talking to me.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Nope, you simply Need to Improve.

 

[Skinnylove]

Its a ****ing ****test,wether unconscious or not,ain't matter.She needs to know that you are strong enough on your own and don't need your approval.Why the f would you ask a question like that,if it wasn't a friendly assesment ...then it only screams APPROVAL

 

[Lozboss]

^ Agreed.

A confident Alpha man doesn't ask women or friends of women whether she finds him attractive.

His confidence and MOST importantly his ability to 'take it or leave it' makes him attractive.

Looks are just one part of the puzzle, put the others in place and you'll soar. Confidence first and the rest will come with work.

 

[Suspens]

^ Agreed.

A confident Alpha man doesn't ask women or friends of women whether she finds him attractive.

Let's stop using that term for a while.

 

[Eternal_water]

Hmm never been told Im "normal looking". One once told me that I was more attractive than her boyfriend before suddenly making it clear that she would never cheat on him. That seemed to be an odd comment.

I don't think I've ever heard anyone call someone else "normal looking" though.

 

[NeedToImprove]

Hmm never been told Im "normal looking". One once told me that I was more attractive than her boyfriend before suddenly making it clear that she would never cheat on him. That seemed to be an odd comment.

I don't think I've ever heard anyone call someone else "normal looking" though.

normal as in not ugly but not attractive either, maybe they want to say i'm butt ugly in a more polite manner or that i'm average looking, who knows what women think, what they say is never what they mean.

 

[Rex1971]

I voted for Ross Perot even though he's a garbage human being.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

not ugly nor cute either, do you still have chances to get a decent woman?

mostly when i ask them this, and they answer, i notice they dont have interest to keep talking to me.

Yes it's sh*t test to see how confident you are. Stop with approval seeking questions, you are shooting yourself in the foot.

 

[FairShake]

mostly when i ask them this, and they answer, i notice they dont have interest to keep talking to me.

Because you sound needy. Don't ask questions that stem from your own insecurities.

Yes, normal looking guys can get beautiful women. But you need to have other things going on, the most important of which is the confidence to ask them out.