When the girls friend comes to take her away....

[Ricky]

This week at least 3 times, a girls friend has come to take her away. 2 out of those 3 times the girl I was with was smiling and laughing with me at the time and we had great rapport but then their friend tapped them on the back (so it wasn't a secret signal they gave to save them) and took them away.

And of these two times the girls told their friend to hold on, but their friends were persistent and drug them away.

What is the best way to deal with this? It pisses me off. Next time I think I'm going to say "That is rude, let me finish talking to her"

Especially last night, I was doing great with the girl, then her friend comes and takes her away and she suggests we go out dancing, but her friend keeps dragging her different places on the dance floor. I wasn't about to follow like some rejected puppy.

This type of thing has happened over the years and never had a solution. Any suggestions?

 

[Ashlee Angel]

I always go in for the kill. I see if she has a man and then I get the number.

Just in case she has to leave.

 

[Ricky]

Ashlee that is good advice.

In fact it kind of reminded me of something someone said can work well. Always be the one to end the conversation first and on a high note. But sometimes you never know if you might be able to get more than a number (such as the taking them to the other bar idea, which supposedly makes them more likely to go home with you later, since it's like you are already "together" at the new bar)

So if you end the convo first, before her friends come, get the number in go.

In fact one out of those 3 times this week, I did get the number and was talking to her a bit more when her friends took her away.

But last night really pissed me off, I was doing quite well with this girl and her friends, who was lost caught back up to her and pulled her away from me.

 

[Ricky]

Ashlee, heres an update, this is too funny.

I remember now. The girl I was talking to had lost her friend and her friend was the one driving, etc. Because I had joked with her about giving me and my friend a ride home because we were drunk.

So she dials her friend on the cell phone in the club and that's how we found her. Her friend finds us and later pulls her away, but the girl I was talking to wanted me to dance with her. All fine and well, but the other girl kept pulling her away to dance with other guys. What a ***** she was. I finally told my girl "You brought me up here to dance and now you leave me here, you ought to at least buy me a beer for my efforts" She laughed and said that's all you wanted anyways. I was pretty mad at her friend so I left.

Anyways, this girl actually mentioned where she worked, and she knows someone that i know that works there too.

She also tried calling on my phone. So I have her friends number and I am damn tempted to call her and say "This is Jamie's friend (the friend I know that works with them) and I thought it was a bit rude that you kept taking your friend away, the least you ought to do is give me her phone number!"

I'm sure it wouldn't work, but it would make me feel better. Or maybe I should just invite her to this big Halloween party next month that I know Jamie was going to. I could play it off like it was no big deal.

 

[Ashlee Angel]

I always play it off as no big deal. It has always worked for me.

After I get the number I always try to get them to leave or I'll leave. Just to end on a high note, It leaves them wanting more.


Ricky if I were you I wouldn't even sweat it.