Five To One said:
^^Your looking for a quality girl in a bar. Thats your problem.
To OP: Once you have the basics down, make approaches on good targets. Im in the beginning stages like yourself and I dont approach 10 or 20 girls in a day like some of these guys do. I may do one good approach per week when I see a opertunity. Im 18 and still in high school btw. thats just how I chose to learn. Once I get into college and new girls are all around me im going to turn the game up and do lots of approaches because I will be ready for it.
Other guys say you should just dive in and have a bunch of awkward encounters with girls so you get use to rejection and failure. I dunno whats better to get started.
To me this sounds like a lot of talking about what you'll do and not DOING.
When I'll get in college I'll do this..
Well if you're not doing it now, you're probably not going to do it in college unless you have a great amount of passion about it.
Look, yes there are certain ways to approach women. There are right and wrong ways.
But the preliminary beginning to approaching girls isn't to show you what WORKS and what DOESN'T. That's not the goal at all. The goal like horaholic states, is to build an immunity to rejection and thus have the freedom to say ANYTHING you'd like to women.
Naturally, you'll start noticing what works and what doesn't. Watching other successful men approach helps tremendously, but you can't just sit on the sidelines for the whole game, thinking that you'll come in and not pull a muscle.
You must stay active approaching and talking to women or YOU'LL LOSE IT!
Ever see men who had lots of game before they got in to a relationship? And they are in one for two years and something happens. They try to step right back in to the game and find themselves to be rusty.
You must keep the rust off and keep your wheels fresh or you'll lose. You don't use it, you'll lose it.
If you haven't really approached, then you don't even have it yet.
So yes, start approaching now. Today. Girl in the supermarket. Lady who works at walmart. Doesn't really matter.
It's not really about what you say right now, but your mindset going in to the approach. Once you start approaching a lot, it's going to be like habit. And habit is what makes us who we are.