When she's visiting, and only going to be around for a day or two...

[squirrels]

Went to a local bar last night...it was "ladies' night", which is usually a sausage-fest for that reason, but this time, I swear I must've been the ONLY guy in there. Got eye contact from 4 or 5 girls cuz I came in like I owned the place, but I chickened out and didn't talk to any of them.

Well, after 5 or 6 screwdrivers, I was getting tipsy, the bar was getting hot and crowded with dudes, so I made my way over to this group of girls that was eyeing me earlier...just kind of sat down with them and struck up a conversation. "You're not dancing any more! Why not?"

Turns out they're all Brazilian (foreign accent = bonus), so we got to chatting. I was talking to two of them and I thought the blond girl had higher IL, but eventually she went to find another one of her friends or something leaving me with the brunette. One thing leads to another and we end up tongue-kissing out in front of the bar for probably about a solid hour. (she said she could kiss me all night...it's always good to know that you're a decent kisser )

Of course my hands were all over her...legs, back, shoulders, neck...she wouldn't let me stay in the "special places" for long, though. She was nervous since this is like the main street in the town and there were people everywhere. I tried to get her to go someplace a little more private, but she declined, saying she had to wait for her friend because she was staying at her house and didn't know how to get back (otherwise I would've driven her there...duh). Either way, by the time her friend showed she was grinding her hips pretty hard into me...at one point she asked me, "Do you want to take my clothes off?" in kind of a joking way, and I just said very matter-of-factly, "Yes." LOL

Anyway...enough of me bragging (she wasn't ALL that...maybe 7ish on my scale, but I'd hit it)...she's living in Boston and will only be staying with her friend for one more night. I got the number...should I call and try to meet up with her wherever she's going to be with her friends? Or should I just let her go/would it be a wash at this point anyway, since I couldn't isolate her last night?

Damn...I wish I could do this sh!t sober.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

I'd guess that she's moved on in her mind and isn't expecting you to call. But it all depends - how did it go when you got her number? Did she insist that you call? Give us some info to read IL.

 

[violator]

I think you have nothing to lose by calling her and seeing whether she wants to hook up before she leaves. By the way you described her, she may well give you nookie as a parting gift. My question is why the hell didn't you try to fyck close when you had the chance?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
I'd guess that she's moved on in her mind and isn't expecting you to call. But it all depends - how did it go when you got her number? Did she insist that you call? Give us some info to read IL.

I wouldn't say she insisted...it was more like, "You can call me tomorrow, or if you ever go to Boston..." She didn't say much...maybe her mouth was tired.

Originally posted by violator
I think you have nothing to lose by calling her and seeing whether she wants to hook up before she leaves. By the way you described her, she may well give you nookie as a parting gift. My question is why the hell didn't you try to fyck close when you had the chance?

-She's from out-of-town and staying with her friend.

-She was waiting for her friend to come get her, so I couldn't get her off the street. I offered to drive her, but she didn't know the way. She was only letting me get so far in public.

-I live with my parents. This will soon change, but it doesn't help me now.

Believe me, I was "all up ons". It just wasn't going to happen that night. That's my main concern with calling her for anything tonight...that it'll just turn into another extended tongue-play session with nothing more being able to happen because of living circumstances. If I can't get to the 'nani, it's really not worth my time to go through another extended make-out session. I mean, it was fun, but blue-balls hurt!

I usually meet up with my car-buddies on Thursdays anyway...I'm not sure if it's worth skipping for this girl...not sure if she's the type to go for it in the back seat/restroom/closet and we really don't have a place to go back to.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Motel ..

But seriously, did she have much to drink last night? Is she gonna regret it, or was her IL high? If not then she's not gonna be too interested - a lot of girls will just give the number then blow you off.

Mind you, there's nothing to lose by calling, is there?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Oscar Wilde
Motel ..

But seriously, did she have much to drink last night? Is she gonna regret it, or was her IL high? If not then she's not gonna be too interested - a lot of girls will just give the number then blow you off.

Mind you, there's nothing to lose by calling, is there?

LOL...nothing says, "You're a dirty slut" like a motel room.

Dunno how much she had to drink...I don't think she was drinking all that heavily.

 

[DJ Jr.]

Sounds to me like she wanted a ONS, any girl that shows that MUCH interest so early is only lookin for one thing.

edit: Just wanted to add that I think the I could kiss you all night thing was an invitation and since you didnt accept and take control right away she lost interest.

either that or she was playin ya

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by DJ Jr.
Sounds to me like she wanted a ONS, any girl that shows that MUCH interest so early is only lookin for one thing.

edit: Just wanted to add that I think the I could kiss you all night thing was an invitation and since you didnt accept and take control right away she lost interest.

either that or she was playin ya

I tried my best to get her out of public...she did NOT want to go, and she didn't know her way back to where she was staying.

Whatever...it was fun while it lasted.