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Don Juan
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This girl I saw for a short bit just writes to me after a month without any contact. She just asks me how I'm doing.
I hate that part. We just went out for a month before she said "she needed to take a step back, couldn't be in a relationship". Altough she was totally into me at first, her interest in me dropped suddenly at some point, so there's no hope of winning her back.
Basically if I reply I'm doing fine and everything, I'm lying and I'm making her feel right about dumping me. Next thing I know she's gonna tell me about her new boyfriend or some crap.
But if I tell her the truth (which is: I'm miserable), I'm being too heavy.
Thing is we work in the same field, I'll probably have to run into her often in the future, I'm hoping to keep things civil.
So...what should I answer?
I hate that part. We just went out for a month before she said "she needed to take a step back, couldn't be in a relationship". Altough she was totally into me at first, her interest in me dropped suddenly at some point, so there's no hope of winning her back.
Basically if I reply I'm doing fine and everything, I'm lying and I'm making her feel right about dumping me. Next thing I know she's gonna tell me about her new boyfriend or some crap.
But if I tell her the truth (which is: I'm miserable), I'm being too heavy.
Thing is we work in the same field, I'll probably have to run into her often in the future, I'm hoping to keep things civil.
So...what should I answer?