When she admits that her mood swings destroy opportunities but still loves you.

amaterasu

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2017
Messages
193
Reaction score
38
Age
29
So the woman that I am currently battling with admits that she's moody and takes away great opportunities to be in a relationship in an instant.

But felt sorry and is willing to love you.

What would you do?
 

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
5,575
Reaction score
8,418
I used to give girls points for admitting their shortcomings. I don't do that anymore. Awareness is the first step towards improvement, but most aren't serious about getting better. They can figure it out on somebody elses dime, not mine. I don't have the patience anymore. Life is too short to deal with a bunch of schitt.
 

amaterasu

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2017
Messages
193
Reaction score
38
Age
29
I used to give girls points for admitting their shortcomings. I don't do that anymore. Awareness is the first step towards improvement, but most aren't serious about getting better. They can figure it out on somebody elses dime, not mine. I don't have the patience anymore. Life is too short to deal with a bunch of schitt.
Hmmmm

It looks like this one depends on a personal point of view :D

But thanks for your input, I appreciate it :)
 

BeExcellent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2015
Messages
4,711
Reaction score
6,682
Age
55
Are you dating this woman? Are you trying to get a first date? Is she a crush? A girlfriend? Please try and be more clear in your posts so the board may better assist you.
 

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,231
Reaction score
5,636
So the woman that I am currently battling with admits that she's moody and takes away great opportunities to be in a relationship in an instant.

But felt sorry and is willing to love you.

What would you do?
Run away as fast as possible
 

Roober

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 2, 2016
Messages
2,383
Reaction score
2,123
People will tell you who they are, you just have to listen...

Her telling you this is basically saying... "I get to act like a complete bish sometimes, and you just have to accept it"

If you are willing to accept it, then proceed. Otherwise, you know hwat to do!
 

Billtx49

Moderator
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
6,078
Reaction score
5,482
Location
DFW
Walk away. She’s telling you about the clusterfvck you will soon face if you stay.
She takes away great opportunities in an instant ?
She’s emotionally unstable regardless of what she says.
 
Last edited:
Joined
May 25, 2017
Messages
4,847
Reaction score
861
Location
Florida, USA
So she's not very emotionally intelligent? I don't know where females got the reputation of being emotionally intelligent.

Ask her if she's good at multitasking.
 

amaterasu

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2017
Messages
193
Reaction score
38
Age
29
Are you dating this woman? Are you trying to get a first date? Is she a crush? A girlfriend? Please try and be more clear in your posts so the board may better assist you.
We both tried to get a first official date but failed because of her mood swings.

But we already met, talked, etc. and because of that we developed our feelings.

We are in the courting stage right now, but I am sure 100% she loves me through the signals that she has given me.

I am 95% almost complete to close the deal with this woman.

All I need are dates to establish a personal bond.

We communicate through pm and call but not for long conversations.

Just to ask her out for dinner and drinks :)
 

amaterasu

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2017
Messages
193
Reaction score
38
Age
29
People will tell you who they are, you just have to listen...

Her telling you this is basically saying... "I get to act like a complete bish sometimes, and you just have to accept it"

If you are willing to accept it, then proceed. Otherwise, you know hwat to do!
Aren't all woman like that? joke :D

Yes, she is telling me who she is without me asking.

I am willing to give her a chance and see if see changes over time.

I am 95% done to seal the deal with her anyway.
 

amaterasu

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2017
Messages
193
Reaction score
38
Age
29
They all are.



How attractive is she?

How fun is she?

Are you in danger of getting loved up like a dweeb? If so, RED FLAG RUN AWAY FROM THE PRETTY GIRL.

If not, just bang her and have some fun.

But dear god never stress over women. Never stress.
They are all nuts of course :D

Yeah she is attractive, I am a choosy guy so I seldom go 100% when it comes to women.

She always laughs at my mild jokes :D
 

sazc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2016
Messages
4,502
Reaction score
3,429
Just say no.

Ask her WHY she does this. If she has insight into it, and resins coherently, ask her what she is going to do to change that.

People who lack insight can't develop a plan for change. People who can't plan out how to change are never going to change.

If you want a female that is going to push, pull, hot, cold and generally leave you confused, and waster a lot of your time before she discards you, she's the one!
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,192
Reaction score
3,319
Age
50
Location
Hoe County, California
she cray cray...ray ray!
 

Billtx49

Moderator
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
6,078
Reaction score
5,482
Location
DFW
I would have to agree with this. She is basically telling you upfront she is going to treat you like shït so it won't be a shocker when she does.
Yes. One of my ex’s laughingly smirked about one of her ex’s that complained about being manhandled… I was a different man and that bs wouldn’t happen to me… No
LISTEN
 
Last edited:
Top