Okay I'm not exactly 25 yet but I think this would make a great issue for the older generation. What would you do if your lady's parents really despise you? What if they judge you only by the way you look, and stick to that image without even wanting to give a chance to change their perspective towards you? I'm asking this because I had a bad experience with my girlfriends family before, which wasn't an issue for me when I was younger. Her father actually told me off and blamed me for the misbehaving of his daughter. He threatened to beat me up, put me in jail, etc. etc. even when I did nothing wrong. He even hit her the way you'd knock someone's lights out in a bar room brawl.
That instilled deep resentment in her parents and until now I still have no idea what I'd do if things like these happen again in the future. I didn't even feel like being anywhere near her family because we didn't click and I didn't feel anywhere near average around them. But she was a good girlfriend and things were good between us. I think that it would definetely affect the relationship if I were to face things like these in times to come. Just curious..
That instilled deep resentment in her parents and until now I still have no idea what I'd do if things like these happen again in the future. I didn't even feel like being anywhere near her family because we didn't click and I didn't feel anywhere near average around them. But she was a good girlfriend and things were good between us. I think that it would definetely affect the relationship if I were to face things like these in times to come. Just curious..