Im in this situation right now.
It took me a while to talk my girl into going down on me, but she finally did after a while like a few weeks, so its been like that for a few months but now she saying that she doesnt wanna do it no more cause she feels and thinks that it aint right, and its not something that a decent girl would do, also she says that "its so choking" D ) and that its not decent for a girl to do.
Now we talk about it took me a whole lot of philosophy to get in her mind that it aint wrong to do it cause im her boyfriend, and she decided that she is gonna do it but not all the time, "once in a while".
Now what can i say to her to let her know that there is nothing wrong with it and that it wont make her look like a "*****" ?
I tried telling her that we are in a relationship and we are bf and gf so there is nothing wrong with it, but it still wont sink in her mind, she keeps saying "why do you need it" and "you dont need it"
Now i also go down on her when she goes down on me, but she says that although she likes it , its not something that she wants or needs in sex.
It took me a while to talk my girl into going down on me, but she finally did after a while like a few weeks, so its been like that for a few months but now she saying that she doesnt wanna do it no more cause she feels and thinks that it aint right, and its not something that a decent girl would do, also she says that "its so choking" D ) and that its not decent for a girl to do.
Now we talk about it took me a whole lot of philosophy to get in her mind that it aint wrong to do it cause im her boyfriend, and she decided that she is gonna do it but not all the time, "once in a while".
Now what can i say to her to let her know that there is nothing wrong with it and that it wont make her look like a "*****" ?
I tried telling her that we are in a relationship and we are bf and gf so there is nothing wrong with it, but it still wont sink in her mind, she keeps saying "why do you need it" and "you dont need it"
Now i also go down on her when she goes down on me, but she says that although she likes it , its not something that she wants or needs in sex.