When guys are allover your gf

[illmatic1005]

How do you handle situations when guys, or just one guy, is always all-over your gf?

The other day my gf went to the city with her brother and all his friends. Then they had a backyard party and i went to that party. But..there was a good-looking guy all over my girl and i heard someone say "they were holdin hand the whole time,,,but not really holdin hand, he was just always following her and talking to her"....

and at the party this same guy was all over her and i saw her tell him "i have a bf"

i didnt kno what to do because im not the confrontational type, but when they were talking i put my leaned on this guys shoulder and said "hey how ywa doin and smiled" and he said, 'your a lucky man"

i didnt wanna get mad, even tho i was a lil bcuz i dont want her to feel confined with me or whatever..

later that night she said 'r u mad at me?...did i do anything wrong tonight?" and kept kissing me and stuff

she didnt do anything but was kinda flirty...

any advice??

 

[TheHoff]

Im having problems with my gf atm for being a little touchy feely when shes out clubbing too. However if i seen her holding hands with another guy, especially one that she not just friends with then there would be fireworks!

I suppose it all depends on how serious your relatioship is and how long you have been going out

 

[DJDamage]

Get used to it.

When you date a good looking chick, guys will try to hit on her.

You handled it correctly in a mature way.

 

[Alphamale1821]

Well you can play this two ways, Intervene and let you gf know in a mature way "wtf are you doing holding another guy's hand, or you could flip the same **** and flirt with some chicks.
Thats generally always the best way to show them.

When they see that you have options and that girls want you, then gf's start to realize that they can lose you.
If she cares anything about you she'll stay away from guy's who are blantly hitting on her while your there.

Theres just no way i would be at a party and i knew some mother fuuckerwas all over my girl AND holding her hand. OP are you fuuckking stupid dude seriously. You should have told him immediately in some form or fashion that he needs to back off. You need to also let your gf know that behavior like that is not respectable towards you especially WHEN YOU ARE AT THE PARTY. Maybe your just one of those tool boy friends.

I'm not trying to be a **** but OP you have got to freaking MAN UP. GET IN THE GAME

 

[TheMaestro87]

Cosign what Alpha said. You should be confident you're in this relationship. Man up and put him and her in their place. I also agree with showing her other girls want you. That's how I keep my girl in place. She knows how many girls want to see me single again and it keeps her from stepping out of line (not that I'm controlling, but she shoots down every guy who approaches her and FAST).

 

[Mr. Wolf]

How do you handle situations when guys, or just one guy, is always all-over your gf?

Game your girl.. AMOG the guy. Kiss close her right in front of him.

 

[Brians_600rr]

Man up bro!! and that doesnt mean that u have to confront the douche that was trying to mack ur girl in a violent way. but just let him and her know from the BEGINNING that sh!t is not gonna fly.

 

[illmatic1005]

we did kiss in front of him and he always tried to tell me a joke to get me to laugh and i just stared at him and he always offered his hand out to shake..or when they were talking i put my arm around HIM and said "how ya doin?" and he said 'you a lucky man bro'' but never really backed off completely,,,just a little

 

[Brians_600rr]

Well this dude is definitely a joke! he just didnt know when to stop!

this is what i do in this situation. first take ur ELBOW and smash it in the a$$hat's face. this should get the point across that u are not to be fvcked with.. lol just messing bro but ur doing a good job.. keep it up

good luck man

 

[Mr. Wolf]

Yo. illmatic.. That's called AMOGing.... Learn to AMOG and learn ANTI-AMOG.. It's on bristollair.com in outergame tactics.


AFC can kiss his girl too.. But you gotta AMOG the guy. Alpha Male other guy.. Not just other guy.

 

[boners]

hey guys, im new here. What does AMOG stand for?

 

[YoungSir4sho]

I got sumthin lil like that n i need advice. I jus got into a relationship wit this girl yesterday morning. She has alot of male friends so 45mins ago her good friend which is a guy called her. He then hung up since we was still both on the phone n she had him hangin on fo a good min. She then said yea he prolly mad cuz he b gettin jealous. Now wat i aint understandin is if its jus a friend y would he get jealous. N i kno already that most likely he likes her n stuff but da point is that she is still talkin to him right now n she siad that she would call me bac within 30mins so wat should i do whwen she calls bac???

I dont want to sound jealous but i have to let her kno that i cant allow this bs even if we jus started goin out feel me

 

[Randallpink83]

boners... it means Alpha Male Of Group. People basically imply it to mean one guy tooling and out gaming another for the girl.


...yeah I'm pretty sure I have been THAT guy quite a few times, but if the boyfriend comes around and is obviously dropping the hints that they are together I will be cool and leave it alone.... However I've had situations where I knew she was into it so I kept on going... Sometimes the boyfriend is just another one of the obstacles in your way... mush mush mush.


Just be the alpha male bro. Confident and subtle (or directly) AMOG the guy hitting on her.... If a guy keeps at it, even when you are clearly with her, then you might wanna keep an eye on her more, cause its likely he was getting signals, or that vibe.

For the most part its really not a big deal. I'm still attracted to other females when in a LTR and it feels good to flirt and have small connections... Why else do we seek girls? for connections. And we can partake in those at small doses with other people, its harmless but healthy (human social interaction is important).
Girls do this just like us.... in fact for a female its probably even more important. They constantly seek Beauty and Attraction validation. Girls loved to be loved.

...but holding hands... yeah fvck that.

 

[The Deacon]

Ahh the AMOGs (Alpha Male Other Guy). These guys piss me off so much.

You gotta deal with the fact that your girl's gonna get hit on a lot, and if you don't keep her in her place she's gonna run off with some other fella in a heartbeat (assuming that she's hot).

I'm not sure if the apology she gave was sincere, so I'd be a little concerned about that. Next her at the FIRST sign of cheating. You're a DJ so you don't take that sh*t.

 

[VashStampede]

When he says "you're a lucky man bro" you say "Its got nothing to do with luck! I is just da best candidate for the job BRA!!!"

pull down his pants while hes gaming your girl. Its funny for everyone and it will put him in his place and make him a nervous wreck :moon:

Otherwise you could tell him to stop trying to pretend you are best friends to try to disarm you while hes trying to fk your gf infront of you. Give him the crazy eyes brother. Look at the part of his face thats in between his eyes only slightly higher. It will make you look like a predator about to attack. Make your movements slow, dont blink much and if you want to turn your head then move your head FIRST before you break eye contact. Dont look submissive. Keep your body language open and confident. Let your gf know that you are not jealous but you will not have a guy try to disrespect you like that :nono: :trouble:

You say you dont like confrontation so you might be outa luck. If you are scared of him you could just carry pepper spray and a stunn gun. Who said you have to fight fair? fkem

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Girls like getting attention. If your gf crosses any line that makes you feel uncomfortable or disrespected(e.g. touching someone else or getting a little too close) tell her about it and give her one more chance.

Think of women as dogs. All you have to do is train them. If they act inappropriately, then tell them about it and they will definitely obey their owner if they respect you. Sometimes all it takes is a look from you to tell them that what they're doing isn't appropriate. Other times you have to break it down for them. But trust me, if you give them boundaries... they will definitely stay in them if they have high interest in you.

If you be a man, they will respect you.

 

[Bonafide]

I talk or flirt with other girls & make sure she sees it as well... this will make her crave my attention even more, and make her realize that its her who needs me...Never fight for a female...atleast I wont

 

[Alphamale1821]

I talk or flirt with other girls & make sure she sees it as well... this will make her crave my attention even more, and make her realize that its her who needs me...Never fight for a female...atleast I wont

Excatly bro unless a AMOG is literally about to rape my girl, then she has the own free will to get the amog away from her. I would never fight a guy over a chick. If i see my girl is flirting with some other guy their will be a few options.
A) Flirt with chicks who are hotter then her and make sure she see's it, see how she likes it.
B) calmly let the guy know thats your girl, and if he still proceeds and your girl is allowing it then comes
C) Dump the biitch, then leave the party with another girl and have her comming back to you.

Even if she were to go to the other guy if she had any remote interest in your relationship she would come crawling back after her fling with the amog. LOL by that time i would be enjoying the single life too much and make her earn her right to even possibly get back with me.

 

[Luveno]

I personally love it when other guys hit on my girls and buy them drinks. What it means is that I get free drinks for the night - nothing wrong with that!

Plus, I find it entertaining watching these guys try so hard to get laid. It's hilarious!

 

[rrrrr]

First of all it sounded like this guy was following her around. It would be different if she was following him around. Second of all, she told him she had a boyfriend. Third she was apolagetic and flirtatious later that night. It seemed to me it was this guy's behavior that was out of line, not your girlfirend's.

This is a fact of life, girls get hit on regardless if they're with someone or not. You just happened to be there when it happened.