LE6END said:
Either way, it isnt a good sign you're bothered by her response time. That's a frustrated chump. Realistically, girls, 9 times out of 10, ARE playing games; are toying with your emotions; are receiving your messages and smiling at the screen before tucking away the cell into the seat of their pocket, waiting an hour or two before replying with a one-word response. As always, Wondering WHY a female does this or that is a certainty for insanity.
I've thought that too. That there ain't no fvckin way she ain't reading that text IMMEDIATELY as it hits her phone (unless she's seriously at work idk I haven't worked in an office for years..I can answer my phone or text almost anytime at my job because I work alone, I manage myself. I also have 2 phones. I leave the girl phone or weekend phone at home and use my work or family phone while at work, so it will be a while if she texts me if I'm at work and I may forget to check when I get home so it might be a couple of days until I respond to these b!tches).
My last 2 texts to the 24 yr old hottie I've fvcked all Summer long on Sunday were at 3 AM and then later, a 12 AM Monday one which read, "It's a full moon out, I miss your moon gn" She hasn't responded, but I KNOW she read them and either A. laughed or B. rolled her eyes and thought yeah whatever or I'm getting tired of him or whatever. I have NO idea what she thinks, and throughout her week of ups and downs she may return to my last two texts to read them again and smile or think differently about me. Who knows? But the point is to just go about your business like everybody else has already posted here and Do Not contact/text again the whole week until the day you want to see her fvckin as5, and if she can't see you that day, have another date already planned (that you would have to flake on if your primary girl is a 'go').
So, the last text she sent you said "maybe next week" or other. Heh, that's not good enough, but just fluff it back and say, "Well, I can only do Friday (evening/afternoon) or Saturday (evening/afternoon) or Wednesday after 7 PM" or whatever. Get specific when she fluffs off plans to "next week" (whiney b!tch voice here). If she doesn't respond or says whatever, whatever, then heh, who cares, fvck it. Um, just get another b!tch as 2 Biggie says here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kl5WP__1uMw
Edit: Also, she told me to call her this week (she always tells me this and I say I will but I don't, really I don't have time, plus, I only want to call her when we're close to getting together again because all I care about is fvcking her not marrying her, not being a bouncing board for the sundry sh!t that's going wrong in her life. Let some other dude (like her married "boyfriend" who she just dumped last weekend) be that guy. She tries to tell me all her problems in the scarce time I make myself available to her, but I'll just joke about her problems and act like wtf are you telling ME all the sh!t for? or if I'm over the phone "I've gotta go, I'll see you later tonight" whatever. She doesn't ever take my advice half the time anyway so, really, I don't feel like wasting my time when she's just gonna fvck it all up, what I suggest she does. B!tches are so inane.
Also: I have another, of course, that I am contemplating t!tty-swinging to. I fvcked her this past February or March (I forget it's been so long). She's every bit the hottie that the one I've fvcked all Summer is, except for the t!ts which are stretchmarked/breastfedded. They're both petite. I like both almost equally, well, I just haven't had enough time with the one I'm thinking about swinging to either Thursday after work, or Saturday in place of my #1. She misses me. I know her friend too who I haven't fvcked but want too badly. I just can't ever get her alone. Her friend's older too, but still, nice as5, cute face, and petite, better t!ts. I think that I should just cool off on the #1 of the Summer (even though I said we'd hookup again this weekend last weekend), and start going with this old flame from Feb/March. It's a tough call cause #1 has never let me down. She has never just, well, let me down. That's sooooo fvckin rare. So I think I might just see the old flame Thursday and #1 Saturday as I have every single week since mid-June.
A lot of it is psychological. These women care less about the sex (though they definitely like sex - I'd even say they're hornier than I am), than they do about who they perceive me as (the one who's doing the sexing as). She only wants to be popular, to feel in good hands, to be with the better man. I feel I am being taken for granted a little. I need to show her that I have options, but she's Never flaked on me, Never let me down, so, I kinda want to reward her for Never having yelled at me or but she has started very miniscule dissing of me as of last weekend. It's a tough decision. Her sex really does make it that hard not to want to be with her this weekend. We fvck so hard and fast. We do it All, except in the as5 which I don't really mind her not wanting to do. I don't want to hurt her.