when girl is mad at you

[shagnscoob]

okay so i hooked up with this girl and things were going really well, and i told one of my friends about it, all 3 of us go to different schools, but her brother apparently goes to my friends school, and my friend told her brother about it but swears there was no one else. the brother of course brought it up, and now the girl is royally pissed off.

in this kind of situation, it really is my fault that shes mad, because i shouldnt have said anything int eh first place (lesson learned from this mistake). but now im wondering how to go about resolving the situation...

im guessing if i just didnt talk to her for a few days and let her cool down, i tried texting her today but she was obviously not glad to hear from me.

im just wondering what you guys would do to try to recapture the girl, rather than just nexting her. you cant just next a girl every time you mess up, because thats being a quitter =/ and id like to at least remain on respectable terms with the women i deal with...

 

[LikRetsam]

"I'm very sorry about the leak, it is completly my fault"

Whatever...

 

[Jerky Boi]

Yes, since you're wrong you should apologize since you know you were wrong. If that doesn't work, then I don't know what to tell ya. A lot of girls are unforgiving.

 

[dastal]

in this kind of situation, it really is my fault that shes mad, because i shouldnt have said anything int eh first place

saying anything about what? going out with her? Theres nothing wrong with that.

 

[Jack McCrack]

If she knows you really didn't mean it/ you're sorry without telling her, then you do not need to apologize.

 

[wavejams007]

Re: Re: when girl is mad at you

Originally posted by dastal
saying anything about what? going out with her? Theres nothing wrong with that.

Dastal has a point here. Is the girl ashamed of U or something? If she is, then your best bet is to next her.

 

[Kidd]

Why the hell would you tell your friend?

Accept responsibility. Tell her that it was your fault, dont try to think up of some excuse.

 

[shagnscoob]

Re: Re: Re: when girl is mad at you

Originally posted by wavejams007
Dastal has a point here. Is the girl ashamed of U or something? If she is, then your best bet is to next her.

well it was the fact that my friend told her little brother, who i think told alot of people including her sister, that we had hooked up and that i was much younger, and details like handjobs stuff like that...

yeah its all really bad im pretty shocked how little thinking i had done before telling my friend.

what i plan to do is give her a few days, tell her im sorry and that it would be dumb to stop seeing eachother completely over some stupid crap like this, becuase we both had fun =/