When do you know when a girl is a nut case?

[Dante420]

this thread was made by accident as a double post of my thread here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=167386

But I'll salvage the thread, you can decide if it's discussion worthy.

When do you know when a girl is a nutcase, for example

When a girl texts you and goes "Help me" and has no reason to need help besides a lack of attention.

Add on. . . or you can delete this

 

[Kidquick]

Well, I am under the impression that ALL girls are nutcases. Some are just able to hide it better than others.

 

[Dante420]

Well, I am under the impression that ALL girls are nutcases. Some are just able to hide it better than others.

Care to elaborate?

 

[WC2]

I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Guys to tend to think of certain girls as 'nut cases' or 'crazies'. While some may be crazier than others, I'm of the school of thought that ALL girls are crazy, given the right man to make them crazy.

I always hear men complaining 'man this ***** is crazy! she flakes on me all the time, she curses at me, she treats me like sh!t, blah blah'

Guess what? Its you. And this is the example of a man who makes a girl crazy in ALL the wrong ways.

Chances are he's too clingy or he's just oblivious to the fact that this chick is laughing at him with all her friends behind his back.

In the right circumstances with the right man, this girl could be cool as day.

And then you have your women who are the GOOD (in a sense) crazy. They knock on your door @ 2am begging for you to open up. They call your phone 30 times in 10 minutes. They scream at you because they want you to dedicate more of your time to them.

In my mind, this is a good crazy. But still crazy. And again, it's not her; it's the guy who's totally f*cking with her emotions.

When a guy says 'that b!tch is crazy!' I just laugh. All women can be crazy if the right buttons are pushed, or more importantly if they're NOT pushed.

 

[jophil28]

I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Guys to tend to think of certain girls as 'nut cases' or 'crazies'. While some may be crazier than others, I'm of the school of thought that ALL girls are crazy, given the right man to make them crazy.

I always hear men complaining 'man this ***** is crazy! she flakes on me all the time, she curses at me, she treats me like sh!t, blah blah'

Guess what? Its you. And this is the example of a man who makes a girl crazy in ALL the wrong ways.

Chances are he's too clingy or he's just oblivious to the fact that this chick is laughing at him with all her friends behind his back.

In the right circumstances with the right man, this girl could be cool as day.

And then you have your women who are the GOOD (in a sense) crazy. They knock on your door @ 2am begging for you to open up. They call your phone 30 times in 10 minutes. They scream at you because they want you to dedicate more of your time to them.

In my mind, this is a good crazy. But still crazy. And again, it's not her; it's the guy who's totally f*cking with her emotions.

When a guy says 'that b!tch is crazy!' I just laugh. All women can be crazy if the right buttons are pushed, or more importantly if they're NOT pushed.

IT may be comforting to believe that YOU can moderate or direct any woman's behavior. You cannot. Your ' DJness' will certainly INFLUENCE a woman's behavior, but it cannot create a sane reaction in a crazy woman.

There is a small percentage of women who qualify for a clinical diagnosis of one or more of the personality disorders. IF you are unlucky enough to tangle with one of those from the Cliuster B group, you will eventually discover how absolutely impotent your "game" is.

 

[WC2]

IT may be comforting to believe that YOU can moderate or direct any woman's behavior. You cannot. Your ' DJness' will certainly INFLUENCE a woman's behavior, but it cannot craete a sane reaction in a crazy woman.

There is a small percentage of women who qualify for a clinical diagnosis of one or more of the personality disorders. IF you are unlucky enough to tangle with one of those from the Cliuster B group, you will eventually discover how absolutely impotent your "game" is.

Well said.

I've dealt with maybe 1 or 2 from the dreaded 'Cluster B' group.. not fun. Everyone's game is impotent.. or it may look as if your game works and then SNAP.. she's back to the looney bin.

With that said; although there are a growing number of men out there who 'claim' to have a crazy chick on their hands when all they really have is a chick they can't get under control. And honestly if it's that much of a chore for a certain man to control a woman, he shouldn't even bother. A lot of women have it in their heads that they can only be controlled by the alpha male she deserves, and until she finds him, she'll be that crazy b!tch with all the lesser males she is with.

I've seen it happen so many times.. some chick seems like a total b!tch with one guy who's clueless, but the next guy she's totally cool because she knows that if she oversteps that line, she's gone. Easy as that.

Cluster B chicks don't have their head on straight enough to stay with one man (at least in my experience) no matter how much value he displays.

 

[WaterTiger]

If you ever ask yourself "Is this Beyoch NUTS?" then she obviously has exibited behavior that has made you question her sanity.



The answer to your question is "Yup!"

 

[SmoothTalker]

WC2, I have to disagree. Sure, some guys just fall back on it as an excuse, "yeah man, she was just a crazy *****.". But many people here have honestly experienced the hell. Realize that while it may seem that 3/4 of the guys in a thread will suddenly claim their ex was like this (way above statistical rate), there's a pretty obvious selection bias that draws people with such experiences to such threads.

There is the case of women that show low interest or disrespect because you're not the guy they really want. They treat you badly because they either don't care if they lose you, or know you can be walked over.

There are also women that are literally insane. They cannot maintain a legitimate relationship with anyone, but seem to make new best friends in a matter of minutes and find soulmates just as fast. They go from guy to guy, initially believing the guy is the greatest thing in the world (regardless of actual value) then one day just deciding he's scum out of the blue. These girls aren't low interest, they care very much if you leave, and will get more desperate than a crack ***** if they feel abandoned, yet see nothing wrong with cheating and never wanting to see you again two days after doing EVERYTHING to get you back.

These women will manipulate facts to always come out on top, and arguing is pointless because they truly believe their lies. These women can worship you one minute and want to murder you (and some will try) the next. A good sign that you're not imagining things is if your friends and even strangers stare at you with a 'did she just do that!?' look.

In some cases, these cluster B types seem to find the motivation to fake nice significantly longer than usual. Others just experience the love/hate cycle at a much slower pace, but either way I don't think you can say they can't hold anyone, at least long enough to really **** with them. Maybe you've just been lucky so far, maybe you somehow detect this sort of thing very fast and avoid them. However, NOBODY is DJ enough to really tame, control, or just civilize these women beyond temporary bursts, where they behave to suck you in. The only smart choice is to not play.

 

[Dante420]

WC2, I have to disagree. Sure, some guys just fall back on it as an excuse, "yeah man, she was just a crazy *****.". But many people here have honestly experienced the hell. Realize that while it may seem that 3/4 of the guys in a thread will suddenly claim their ex was like this (way above statistical rate), there's a pretty obvious selection bias that draws people with such experiences to such threads.

There is the case of women that show low interest or disrespect because you're not the guy they really want. They treat you badly because they either don't care if they lose you, or know you can be walked over.

There are also women that are literally insane. They cannot maintain a legitimate relationship with anyone, but seem to make new best friends in a matter of minutes and find soulmates just as fast. They go from guy to guy, initially believing the guy is the greatest thing in the world (regardless of actual value) then one day just deciding he's scum out of the blue. These girls aren't low interest, they care very much if you leave, and will get more desperate than a crack ***** if they feel abandoned, yet see nothing wrong with cheating and never wanting to see you again two days after doing EVERYTHING to get you back.

These women will manipulate facts to always come out on top, and arguing is pointless because they truly believe their lies. These women can worship you one minute and want to murder you (and some will try) the next. A good sign that you're not imagining things is if your friends and even strangers stare at you with a 'did she just do that!?' look.

In some cases, these cluster B types seem to find the motivation to fake nice significantly longer than usual. Others just experience the love/hate cycle at a much slower pace, but either way I don't think you can say they can't hold anyone, at least long enough to really **** with them. Maybe you've just been lucky so far, maybe you somehow detect this sort of thing very fast and avoid them. However, NOBODY is DJ enough to really tame, control, or just civilize these women beyond temporary bursts, where they behave to suck you in. The only smart choice is to not play.

wow imagine a two year ltr with one. . . .I consider myself battle tested


How can one spot a "cluster B", I really believe there's a high percentage.

One was going crazy on me after I cut things off with her, she was REALLY getting into me. Somehow after a few hours of her flipping out and calling back I managed to convince her I cut things off in her best interest so she wouldn't get "hurt"